how to befriend a guy i have been secretly admiring?
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HI there,
after 2.5 years of hesitating, i have decided to step up and know befriend this guy that i have been admiring for the longest time on fb. What is a good way to know him without sounding needy or corny?
I am thinking:
I understand you are a trainer/motivator.
Can i learn from you and be your mentee?
Do you charge? haha..
I know it's not the best.
Please advice guys!
TQ
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Gay or straight????
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who?
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You mean the guy? I think he has to be straight. lol
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1) He got a girlfriend?
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
HI there,
after 2.5 years of hesitating, i have decided to step up and know befriend this guy that i have been admiring for the longest time on fb. What is a good way to know him without sounding needy or corny?
I am thinking:
I understand you are a trainer/motivator.
Can i learn from you and be your mentee?
Do you charge? haha..
I know it's not the best.
Please advice guys!
TQ
guys go for porn on intyernet.no need real girls anymore.dunno if you rapped him will be of any use,,,
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you know and get to see this guy for 2.5 years. that means you can have teh cahcne to see hi probably everyday, or periodically. 2.5 years is not a short time. if you want to your should be on the way now. check out if he also got other admirers, girsl fight can be tougher than guys 1, also we willlike some visual check on the guy and your ouutlook apperance. and also test if the guy may be interested in you, or only wan to be mutual friends, or if he is also a bit chicko like ,e thanks and have a nice day, happy hunting.
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Ask him out for a simple lunch and coffee for a start.
Not too long for lunch and coffee engagement say from 1pm to 3pm.
After that, dont hungry for more from him.
Instead, just say thank you and maybe we go lunch again ya.
See his reaction. You must be able to read his expression and read carefully without giving away your own reaction to him. You must be calm and pretent nothing, nothing feeing from you.
Good luck.
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like you, probably they are casual friends students or colleagues, can see and probably can dine lunch together everyday. in each situation just make sure she don;t mess up their mutual relationshop should either party got rejected. can test and see. if you two need i can arrange one photoshoot for you two to have a chance, closer together. nonot those sensual ones iu arrange with angel
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Guys, thanks for your valuable ideas! You r very kind 2005 to suggest photoshoot. ha..but he don't even know me yet!
The key thing is he don't know me. He has 2000+ frens on fb. Not sure if he noticed me at all.
I don't think i m brave enough to meet him now. But at least let him know of my existence. then slowly develop from there.
He does not have anyone now, is in his own business and has good characters i suppose after reading his post, observation for 2.5 yrs on fb. He organizes charity event and goes on developing countries for charity work which is really admirable despite his busy schedule.
I m totally impressed with what this man can do with 24hrs!
Cheers,
LRB
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
Guys, thanks for your valuable ideas! You r very kind 2005 to suggest photoshoot. ha..but he don't even know me yet!
The key thing is he don't know me. He has 2000+ frens on fb. Not sure if he noticed me at all.
I don't think i m brave enough to meet him now. But at least let him know of my existence. then slowly develop from there.
He does not have anyone now, is in his own business and has good characters i suppose after reading his post, observation for 2.5 yrs on fb. He organizes charity event and goes on developing countries for charity work which is really admirable despite his busy schedule.
I m totally impressed with what this man can do with 24hrs!
Cheers,
LRB
You don't know each other. arlo, you are either infactuated or have a crush for him. I assure you it is not real love.
Sometimes cyber and in person reality may differ.
You are just having infactuation for him la, silly girl!
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You said he has 2000+ friends in fb?
No offence but unless you are some super model or sexy chick, the chances of him noticing you is as good as zero.
For a start, add him on MSN/chat with him in fb
Participate in his charity work and take it from there.
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orh i see, typical fb and affection love at first sight. stalking him 2.5 years online do you know himmthat well? in person. sometimes even those can create a good impression of themselves online or even off in reality can be the opposite. there are many good guys out there. don;t regret later and waste time reading what people post online and think that its true. really online at foriums soime can post and write beri good, in real life i meet with them so so lah. so its better to just stay in love with him online and get a rea l love offline.
but like 2l over likes at ffb i think my photo shoot will be the fastest way for the two of u to meet
the world need s a hero - maybe sometimes a photographer
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HI Gunner,
that's exactly what i wanted to do now. To get the know the real him. He is never online "live" on fb so i got to email him. I needed some advise how i can do it know. I have never approach any guys in my life or maybe didn't find anyone who is worth it except him.
Do give me some tips on the opening line? lol.
thanks,
LRB
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I know what you mean 2005 but i know as well if i didn't say hi or at least get to know him i will kinda regret. You know, it's not really love at first sight. It is thru 2.5yrs of observation. And whether he as good as it seems i really got to find out.............
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
HI Gunner,
that's exactly what i wanted to do now. To get the know the real him. He is never online "live" on fb so i got to email him. I needed some advise how i can do it know. I have never approach any guys in my life or maybe didn't find anyone who is worth it except him.
Do give me some tips on the opening line? lol.
thanks,
LRB
sometimes when u wana "aim high", u got to look at yourself first. u seem to have very high standards because u claim that u had never found anyone who is worth it. u seem to have no experience with approaching people or isit that u have nobody approached u before?? if the latter is inclusive then i guess u better dont try lah.
if he is as good as u have said, then he will have a girl by him already. if not, then probably 2 reasons; either he got heavenly high standards for a girl, or he is gay like me =)
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
orh i see, typical fb and affection love at first sight. stalking him 2.5 years online do you know himmthat well? in person. sometimes even those can create a good impression of themselves online or even off in reality can be the opposite. there are many good guys out there. don;t regret later and waste time reading what people post online and think that its true. really online at foriums soime can post and write beri good, in real life i meet with them so so lah. so its better to just stay in love with him online and get a rea l love offline.
but like 2l over likes at ffb i think my photo shoot will be the fastest way for the two of u to meet
the world need s a hero - maybe sometimes a photographer
I was stalked online for 3 years and still going on and strong, no big deal. Cyber space is certainly different from real open space. People just dun get it -
Originally posted by angel7030:
I was stalked online for 3 years and still going on and strong, no big deal. Cyber space is certainly different from real open space. People just dun get itSomeone stalk you for 3 years for what purpose? Want sex with you?
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Eben then? for my shoes ar??
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Eben then? for my shoes ar??
You made me laugh. Is the person asking for free sex from you?
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No, there is a line between fetish and real sex, some stalker like to remain status quo, they prefer the feeling of wanting sex, but not the real sex, wanting sex keep them motivated, after having real sex, game over liao
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Originally posted by angel7030:
No, there is a line between fetish and real sex, some stalker like to remain status quo, they prefer the feeling of wanting sex, but not the real sex, wanting sex keep them motivated, after having real sex, game over liao
You have so many versions.
How about an idiotic guy making sexual noises in a deserted public place to a teenage girl?
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by all mean, if he wants to make sexual noises, what can we gals do, it is the public, let the enforcer decide if his noises disturb others or not
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Originally posted by angel7030:
by all mean, if he wants to make sexual noises, what can we gals do, it is the public, let the enforcer decide if his noises disturb others or not
what would you do if you are the teenager?
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as a teenage, i ever see dog howl at night, it will be amazing to see a human doing that, most probably I will stomp it