Peer pressure on drinking
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I dun drink beer, wine, spirits etc, cos I dun like the taste and it made me feel tipsy and drowsy after that.
however when I went to wedding function, party etc, when I declined to drink beer, I was teased, cajoled by people, saying come on, you are a guy, dun be a sissy, is your religion Muslim etc. I am a chinese btw.
I usually caved in and drink only 1 glass, no more than that. any people also faced same situation as me? next time I attend a wedding, I will say, I dun drink thank you. if people are still insistent, I will say, fark you, I dun drink can I.
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be firm.
u dont have to succumb to their teasing.
u give in u more sissy.
say out loud. in their faces. i dont drink. æ€Žæ ·.
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just say no
don't have to be someone you're not.
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that also goes to those beer promos at coffee shops...who ask you to buy beer...
just say out loud...f*** you!
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
that also goes to those beer promos at coffee shops...who ask you to buy beer...
just say out loud...f*** you!
what if the female promoter replied back, come, when?
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Don't drink, same as don't smoke, must make your point.
Just as vegetarians make their point.
The others have to respect that.
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
what if the female promoter replied back, come, when?
walau eh....if auntie....zao lor...
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I don't eat shark's fin, when I go to attend wedding dinner, I get the same reaction as yours. except that.. I stay firm and dont eat shark's fin.
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If so, I will be firm but I won't use derogatory terms such as fuck you (perhaps I was bought up in a different world since i know all the f words quite commonly used)... but i just think we dun need to stoop so low to their level... as the saying goes, dun argue with idiots because you'll become their level and they will win you with experience.
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can say i am alergic
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Not many drinkers know how to enjoy drinking. It is not the numbers that count. It is a sip by sip of enjoying the fragance and taste of beer, rolling bit by bit from your lip to the tongue. The tongue has to sort of curling for that sip of beer to fill the wall of the mouth, so as to obtain the optimum real feel. Even rolling down the throat also ought to be enjoying. You can't just garp down all at a go and that's it. So, one cup is perfect for a few hours of sweet rolling, curling and swallowing joys and entertainment. The feel is like celestial beings, is wonderful. I quit it because too blissful that I may lost my normal sense of love.
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You drink beer like that ah!
My first mug of cold beer is usually down in less than 5 seconds. AAAhhh Shiok. After that first "sip", makan and drink lah, slowly, all night long.
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wah TS, not yet even drink a single slip can start to f people already, better dun drink then
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Originally posted by FireIce:
be firm.
u dont have to succumb to their teasing.
u give in u more sissy.
say out loud. in their faces. i dont drink. æ€Žæ ·.
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Just tell them, later you need to drive a bus home
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It must be hard on you.
I am a drinker, since young (teens), my parents encouraged us to pick it up, so that we will not drunk outside, be it in social or business setting.
However, I seldom drink when I am in the crowd, so as not to act silly in the public. Thus, when I am challenged or teased, I will just smile and say, 'it is good that u r enjoying the drink, carry on please.' 'ä½ å’Œå°±å¥½ï¼Œå°½é‡�å–�‘.
You need to learn to deflect such teasing, for it will come in many other form, eg. gambling, prostituting, etc.
It should be, if u want to gamble, u do. But not when people are teasing, for it may be a trap. Agreed?
Welcome to the cool world. But you can choose to make it warm.
Cheers,
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
I dun drink beer, wine, spirits etc, cos I dun like the taste and it made me feel tipsy and drowsy after that.
however when I went to wedding function, party etc, when I declined to drink beer, I was teased, cajoled by people, saying come on, you are a guy, dun be a sissy, is your religion Muslim etc. I am a chinese btw.
I usually caved in and drink only 1 glass, no more than that. any people also faced same situation as me? next time I attend a wedding, I will say, I dun drink thank you. if people are still insistent, I will say, fark you, I dun drink can I.
I dont drink also.
Ever by tease by my friends too.
I just stand firm and say no.
And probably will not go out with them anymore if I know they go out for a drink.
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LoL... I have yet to meet someone I cannot get them to drink. Even those with allergies end up drunk and forgetting about the itch. xD But of course if after a few times they still insist they do not really drink. Then its cool. Then you will slowly get used to them not drinking. And eventually ignored. Power of persuasion peoples... power of persuasion.... xD
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tell them you are allergic.
i say that all the time.
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The allergies.. the itch... your excuses. They are all in the mind..... all in the mind...
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I have friends who become red like a cooked lobster with only a sip of alcohol.
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Originally posted by mancha:
I have friends who become red like a cooked lobster with only a sip of alcohol.
thats me.
i hate the feeling. my whole face turns red and hot. terrible.
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You are not a sissy for not drinking beer.
However, you ARE a sissy for not standing firm with your beliefs.
If they call you a sissy, then tell them that someday they will end up here, and everyone will be pointing and laughing at them:
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
I dun drink beer, wine, spirits etc, cos I dun like the taste and it made me feel tipsy and drowsy after that.
however when I went to wedding function, party etc, when I declined to drink beer, I was teased, cajoled by people, saying come on, you are a guy, dun be a sissy, is your religion Muslim etc. I am a chinese btw.
I usually caved in and drink only 1 glass, no more than that. any people also faced same situation as me? next time I attend a wedding, I will say, I dun drink thank you. if people are still insistent, I will say, fark you, I dun drink can I.
well just no mean no !!! because you give in - they will alway still try
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you all should just get a life lar....drink drink their own source juice lah