GF wanna go overseas with platonic friend

• alize

  5 Sep 11, 19:31

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  Ask her to wear this

  

  or

  

  Will you make her wear an iron mask too?

• BadzMaro

  5 Sep 11, 20:01

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  Ask her to wear this

  

  or

  

  
  Gimme the ironclad . lol!
• Darkness_hacker99

  9 Sep 11, 09:44

  Originally posted by Punggol meegoreng:

  
  Respect is not the right word. Committed should be more appropriate.

  
  

• Darkness_hacker99

  9 Sep 11, 09:46

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  All I can say is, given that she is your gf, and there love in between, she would not go out with a male fren or go oversea with him. As a gal, I must respect my bf who love me, not trying to make thing bad for him, afterall, he is my dear one. Going out in a group of frens is not really a problem, but I still need to consult him, but going out with a single male fren is definitely making things worst than good.

  I believe that TS gf is not serious with him, and he is taken for a ride by her.

  
  This is the first time we have the same common opinion

• angel7030

  12 Sep 11, 16:55

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  
  This is the first time we have the same common opinion

  
  i beg yr pardon? does that imply I have grown up?

• Darkness_hacker99

  12 Sep 11, 17:04

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  i beg yr pardon? does that imply I have grown up?

  
  No. It imply that we have grown similiar over the years being together 

• angel7030

  12 Sep 11, 17:08

  Yuck!

• Darkness_hacker99

  12 Sep 11, 17:11

  

• RemifanSo

  12 Sep 11, 17:12

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Yuck!

  Don't you like him?  

• angel7030

  12 Sep 11, 17:17

  oh, certainly, i dun like him, but that doen't mean I dun love and adore him ya.

  Some peoples just dun get the meaning of each word created, they are guided by their senses, which can bring them to the wrong side of the road, just like TS.

• RemifanSo

  12 Sep 11, 17:22

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  oh, certainly, i dun like him, but that doen't mean I dun love and adore him ya.

  Some peoples just dun get the meaning of each word created, they are guided by their senses, which can bring them to the wrong side of the road, just like TS.

  Got your message, angel7030 loves and adores Darkness_hacker99

• Darkness_hacker99

  12 Sep 11, 17:28

  Originally posted by RemifanSo:

  Got your message, angel7030 loves and adores Darkness_hacker99

  
  Remifan so sweet!

• RemifanSo

  12 Sep 11, 17:31

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  
  Remifan so sweet!

  Date angel7030 out and aft that come tell us the gender.

• Darkness_hacker99

  12 Sep 11, 17:34

  Originally posted by RemifanSo:

  Date angel7030 out and aft that come tell us the gender.

  
  

• CeciliaLoh

  13 Sep 11, 07:57

   i dont think she love you enough if she is thinking to cheat. you shoud think 2,3 times before you agree. talk to her. probs arise when communications fail, and that's where cheating started. belive me, i know it all. goodluck

• dragg

  13 Sep 11, 09:47

  are they staying overnight in malaysia?

  if not, then its ok.  preferably not, but still ok if she insist.

   

• dangerboi

  13 Sep 11, 09:51

  this is the 21st century. Where were you from? some village in some rural parts of the world?

  There's no harm in your girlfriend going out with her friend. Besides, you 2 aren't married. It's quite normal for girls to have best friends that are members of the opposite sex.

• mancha

  13 Sep 11, 09:55

  Originally posted by RaTtY8l:

  if she respect u, she wouldnt have even the slightest thought of gg to malaysia alone with another guy fren

   

  Originally posted by Punggol meegoreng:

  
  Respect is not the right word. Committed should be more appropriate.

  If there is a relationship, there are certain things that should not be done.

  If there is a relationship.

• cylian

  13 Sep 11, 13:17

  ...

• jojobeach

  13 Sep 11, 13:35

  Originally posted by Hongjin82:

  Hi
  
  My gf and i have been together for quite awhile. Recently we had a tiff when she said she was intending to go Malaysia during the weekend with a guy friend of hers. They have been close platonic friends for many years so her perspective is that it is merely hanging out with a friend. I reason that it beyond what i can accept as a social norm as i was brought up with a traditionally conservative mindset.
  
  
  She is trustworthy and what she reasoned is logical and comprehensible. However, understanding it is easy but accepting is difficult. Hence my question is:
  Firstly, is anyone able to rationalise my point of concern so that i can better convey my view for her understanding. She is a rational person and if I am able to justify my concern to her instead of me stating this is social norm thingy, it would be much better.
  Secondly, any suggestions as to how this can be resolved/moved forward?

  Grow a backbone first.

  Then tell her NO means NO.

  She wants to go.. then tell her to fuck off with that guy lor.

   

• angel7030

  13 Sep 11, 17:58

   alamak sista, as a lady, can you be more ladylike, the way u post makes we gal sound tommy.

• jojobeach

  14 Sep 11, 00:26

  Originally posted by angel7030:

   alamak sista, as a lady, can you be more ladylike, the way u post makes we gal sound tommy.

  That's how I talk to men with no balls.

• angel7030

  14 Sep 11, 13:49

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  That's how I talk to men with no balls.

  
  Case close, Baliff, plse ignore the last phrase, take it off the record.

   

  All rise

• troublemaker2005

  15 Sep 11, 22:03

  this type of gal loose 1 lah

• troublemaker2005

  15 Sep 11, 22:04

  Originally posted by angel7030:

   alamak sista, as a lady, can you be more ladylike, the way u post makes we gal sound tommy.

  butch shut up lah