I need help please, read my story? (a story of a quiet girl)
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Originally posted by angel7030:
pull the hair back and give him one tight SLAP!
bites your face in return for that slap.... -
take the cross to ward off vampire
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sees cross fall apart.....and u scamper to superglue cross together .
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Use my kite, in the name of the holy father...ah J....I command you...
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angel grow up lah
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I am grown up, just get suppressed by the enviroment. And you, please grow old lah
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i am growing old, don;t hassle it up, have patience my dear. i will be there soon
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Ok, remember to call me before you go, I got good discount voucher at the Singapore casket.
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last kiss pleasae me heads b4 i die
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Amen.... 阿门
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thanks
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Originally posted by angel7030:
You good lor, can keep quiet and stay lonely, I want to have a quiet time all myself also cannot, everyday,..angel, why you never order this liquors, angel!! wake up! time to work, angel!! where are the ladies??? wha! hardly able to breathe, only at sgforums, can find some peace, but still get left and right from forumers.
Anyway, quiet, alone, and do thing by yourself is ok, many peoples also DIY mah, bet it is part of your parent genes, you mom or dad must be damn quiet too. Sometime when i attend funneral, there are those so quiet ones, only a few peoples, most probably the person who passed away must be someone like you. Quietly come, quietly Go
but ok what, can post in the afternoon is a luxury like me
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afternoon only, not so luxury, some can post all day, lagi luxury, dunno what type of life, so switch off, better than the president
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Hi AngelofDarkness,
I am sure I can help you and will want to meet up with you.
If you want to know yourself better and regain your confidence in life, feel free to contact me.
With Love and Joy,
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The only way to deal with your problem is to talk to someone closest to you. Do things that people tend to do or try out new stuffs, like, sports etc. You basically need to remove that feeling of shyness. Train yourself, braise yourself, try to talk to people in a different manner, watch videos about socialising etiquettes. You practically need to be a " Yes" man or woman and opportunities will come to you and you will metamorphosize into a beautiful, sociable woman who everybody wants to be with. Being reticent won't get you anywhere. If you want to be noticed, you gotta be a optimist and try to keep your conversations going.
Always remember, employer or friends love a gregarious person. Anyone can be. Just gotta try get used to it. It's not too late dear.
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Originally posted by SoulDivine:
Hi AngelofDarkness,
I am sure I can help you and will want to meet up with you.
If you want to know yourself better and regain your confidence in life, feel free to contact me.
With Love and Joy,
SoulDivine
Hi AngelofDarkness,Alternatively, you can also look for me, I can help you to bring back the self esteem, ego and the drive to make you back to life. Hopefully, I can provide you another option, you can review the quotation options and decide yourselve.
With a sense of living, within we remain
Angel666
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angel 69
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Neil Road, Welcome
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no need roadside can oredi
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Hi AngelofDarkness,Alternatively, you can also look for me, I can help you to bring back the self esteem, ego and the drive to make you back to life. Hopefully, I can provide you another option, you can review the quotation options and decide yourselve.
With a sense of living, within we remain
Angel666
Angel what quotations? =)Originally posted by angel7030:Quite dog can bite leh, those barking loudly are useless.
Becareful hor
Lol farni larh, u read me well :P -
Don't worry. Work experience will teach you a valuable lesson about life. It comes with the experience, you will soon learn how to overcome this and get used to it. Work is about adapting. You cannot avoid the situation: people you think are boisterous, you cannot simpy avoid the person, you must adapt.
Sometimes work experience change a person - it is survival of the fittest. Sorry to say, at some point a bad experience in life may force a person to change their personality to adapt. I have seen quiet and nice people change over the course of time due to the nature of their work. Its up you to use this experience and harness it positively rather than let it negatively affect you.
About friendships, its just something that will come to past. Yes friendships may lasts but once people get married and have children, usually friendships are placed down the priority lists. Sorry to say, that is the common thing happening. You may soon lose touch with your Poly friends, only able to meet them like once every quarter, once in six months or once a year - when they progress to marriage and sometimes even get overseas placement assignments.
The place that you can build friendships with, are the people at your work place. However, its tough because work conflicts may affect that friendship. Those are the challenges you need to undertake.
Look to building relationships with guys, seek life partner. That is a lifelong friendship that people cherish. Of course not saying friendship not important, just that, you should not take it like its really first priority in life.
You just see your parents, do they have a lot of friends around? Usually not many for a common family. Its because they spend so much time raising you and your siblings, they just don't have the time for friends. Perhaps they got some friends but not as many as schooldays and they don't spend that much emphasis with them. That is the progression in life - you may undertake.
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Originally posted by AngelOfDarkness:
I am now working, already 2 years plus out in working force. I graduated from Poly and worked from then. I find that life is very hard, mostly because I am very reticent. Easy for people to bully me, to take advantage of me, make me do things to cover their backside etc. Especially now that I'm working. I try to be good, I do my best at my work. But, anything that goes wrong, fingers point at me, and I cannot defend myself cos I have a weak voice and I get tongue-tied if people suddenly focus their attention on me.
It has been like this since I was young. Was a quiet kid. Sitting in corner reading books during big family outings. Then in Primary school I was quiet, but people liked to tease me because I would tease back, or blush. As I grow older I get more and more quiet. Because I don't know what to say, because I see the people around me don't seem to 'click' with me, as in they are too boisterous. I like to read. I don't like watching television, and even if I do, they are all 'old' shows, shows that are no longer 'in fashion' or 'popular'.
How? Easy to say that to remedy it is to talk to people, but then the conversation doesn't flow
I'm quite content being quiet, I love my quiet time, to observe the clouds in the sky, or people-watch, see their emotions etc. But I desire friends. Friends who are like more in tune with me, not overly-boisterous. Because I have made friends who are really boisterous, but then they get bored of me soon, cos I am not the type keen to join in their "come let's get drunk and dance!" kind of fun.
Does anyone else also have this experience? Of being so super quiet like me? How can I overcome it? I always feel that people find me boring, and then I also get the feel that the people avoid me, cos people who are usually alone give off this 'vibe' thing that people with normal social lives can sense.
Let me first say Hi-5 to you. I'm also a quiet person. haha...i like people-watching too, enjoying the environment around me. But i have changed ever since i went to a new sch ,after Olevels. ..okay thats a different story.Now back to the point.you know, AngelOfDarkness, I was just like you. Afraid to speak out. Getting bullied, duno how to rebut.
you have to realise this: being quiet not equals to cannot stand up for yourself
when you are bullied by others, you dont have to be afraid to speak out. Because you did nothing wrong. you also have your own rights for protecting yourself, like every other individual.
btw.AngelOfDarkness, do you feel the urge to talk to people? -
Originally posted by AngelOfDarkness:
Angel what quotations? =)
Lol farni larh, u read me well :P
Ok, Nevermind, since you are more of a straightlace type who cannot read some msg within a msg posted.By the way, how far can an Angel differ.
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Originally posted by Sandy17sandy17:
Let me first say Hi-5 to you. I'm also a quiet person. haha...i like people-watching too, enjoying the environment around me. But i have changed ever since i went to a new sch ,after Olevels. ..okay thats a different story.Now back to the point.you know, AngelOfDarkness, I was just like you. Afraid to speak out. Getting bullied, duno how to rebut.
you have to realise this: being quiet not equals to cannot stand up for yourself
when you are bullied by others, you dont have to be afraid to speak out. Because you did nothing wrong. you also have your own rights for protecting yourself, like every other individual.
btw.AngelOfDarkness, do you feel the urge to talk to people?
Quiet is ok, you can not expect everybody to be talkative and make hell of alots of noises, sure there are quiet and noisy peoples, just like there are ugly and good looking peoples. -
Originally posted by FireIce:
if u are happy going about doing ur own things, u dun have to care about others.
NOT TRUE!!! I happy go doing my own things then someone go removing my thread anyhow! HMPH!!!