katy perry?
u are interested but he is not relli interested
did he even do anything to make u think he is interested or serious about u?
or all along it is u thinking too much
try to tok to him more during the lunch
during msn-ing, casually tok abt a movie u wanna catch, and see if he catches the hint to date u out for it.
Originally posted by jaydunkfull:
he did tell kinda hint cos he did tell me that he wants to be with me and he did ask me if there was chance should be go after me.
how did u ans?
great ans!
it is as good as rejecting........
be glad he is even having lunches and msn-ing u
some guys would totally ignore the girl when they got the 好人�
anything you guys do don;t tok cock during lunchbreak. we got not enough sits and people may just need to sit their butt eat and fuck off. sitting during rush lunch hour like a round table feast waiting for one another at the expense of others not able to seat down just coz you chop sits like schooll kids i think sg should have a better law for lunch hour laze just like the amry.
"your're in and your're out"
you're yes and you're no
you are backup fark
he is probably getting his main fark somewhere else
katy perry- hot 'n' cold
You think he hot then he cold, later he think u E.T. , then there will be fireworks. Maybe you should remind him of what you did last friday night, but leave out the part where you kissed a girl. However, you should be clear that being with him is your teenage dream. If he still dont reciprocate, just tell him "ur so gay", and he should go find california gurls instead of wasting your time. Whatever you do just dont act like a peacock, guys dont like that.
Originally posted by jaydunkfull:nice try-.-
for urself?
Deep down in your heart you know your expectation of your boyfriend. That is you need your boyfriend's attention. You feel insecure without him. So this new guy cant give you that. Find another one that can meet your expectation.
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Originally posted by jaydunkfull:nice try-.-
Hmm, so how bout a picture of yourself for that attempt?
dun be in his way to success...
Or is this a syndrome of typical SG guy, who does not want to make his move cause i.e, first relationship, fear of rejection, fear of being needy?
I advise you to try and message him and gauge from his response before calling it off cause maybe he's a great guy, just really shy inside. If the response is cold, off to the recycle bin he go!
Originally posted by jaydunkfull:I’m 21 this year and I have never been in a relationship before.
Just a few months back, for the first time, I have a guy who is interested in me. He made his intentions clear to me and I did let him know that I was interested as well. However, right from the start, he has been very inconsistent. He likes to do what I call the disappearance act.
Because we are school mates, we do see each other in school now and then. He will only maintain his contact with me for a while after we meet. For example, we would see each other on Monday because we have a common lecture then we would hang out with our clique for lunch. Then he would message me or msn me that night and maybe we would still message till Tuesday. And if our timetables are such that we dont meet till next monday, He wouldnt contact me at all till the next time we meet.
I guess the point I’m trying to make is that he doesnt make the extra effort to stay in contact? He will only let circumstances coincide with our meeting times. He wouldnt message or msn me or anything and I’m supposed to pretend everything’s normal when we next meet by circumstance while for the past week I will be left hanging and wondering if he is still interested or even serious about me.
i know I dont have much experience but I thought the least I could expect from him would be an sms to let me know what he’s up to at least to ask how im doing? Am I just being insecure or is this just normal expectations?
I would love to message him whenever I feel like it but I hold back because I feel like he wont reciprocate. That he will mind my messaging because maybe this is something that he doesnt like to do. i dont know if he doesnt message because it simply doesnt cross his mind or because he’s waiting for me too.
If circumstance dictates that we will never meet, i think he will never bother to contact me at all. what’s this? Is this normal? Are interested guys supposed to message/bug the girl every day or every few days or am I just insecure??
Aiyo, 21yo then got first contact, that is bad. Guess you must be not that perfect, so to speak
Me 15yo fully booked already.
So, you got no experiences, let me teach you, sg guys all hv a problem, most are pampered, motherboy, or grandmotherboy or maidboy, they tends to hv a proud and high ego side in them, most turn out to behave in a male chauvanist way, like they need to be serve, not you serve them, so naturally, they expect you to call, sms, msn, or whatever, this will make them hold on to their pride, their ego and can go tell their friends that his gf only obey and listen to him, all other male will praise and respect him high high, but actually, they are just same shit but different type
that one above me. always like to be on top. now then i know, 15 gone case already. start a thread of your own, we will console you on your past. no wonder can pose and tease so well in front and behind cams
My deepest condolence to you
Originally posted by jaydunkfull:I’m 21 this year and I have never been in a relationship before.
Just a few months back, for the first time, I have a guy who is interested in me. He made his intentions clear to me and I did let him know that I was interested as well. However, right from the start, he has been very inconsistent. He likes to do what I call the disappearance act.
Because we are school mates, we do see each other in school now and then. He will only maintain his contact with me for a while after we meet. For example, we would see each other on Monday because we have a common lecture then we would hang out with our clique for lunch. Then he would message me or msn me that night and maybe we would still message till Tuesday. And if our timetables are such that we dont meet till next monday, He wouldnt contact me at all till the next time we meet.
I guess the point I’m trying to make is that he doesnt make the extra effort to stay in contact? He will only let circumstances coincide with our meeting times. He wouldnt message or msn me or anything and I’m supposed to pretend everything’s normal when we next meet by circumstance while for the past week I will be left hanging and wondering if he is still interested or even serious about me.
i know I dont have much experience but I thought the least I could expect from him would be an sms to let me know what he’s up to at least to ask how im doing? Am I just being insecure or is this just normal expectations?
I would love to message him whenever I feel like it but I hold back because I feel like he wont reciprocate. That he will mind my messaging because maybe this is something that he doesnt like to do. i dont know if he doesnt message because it simply doesnt cross his mind or because he’s waiting for me too.
If circumstance dictates that we will never meet, i think he will never bother to contact me at all. what’s this? Is this normal? Are interested guys supposed to message/bug the girl every day or every few days or am I just insecure??
First of all, this is normal in courtships or maybe half baked ones. Contact, then no contact, then contact again. He may have other options. You should keep your mind open too, he may not be THE ONE. If he messages you, good. If not, don't fret. You will have other suitors? Then when you finally end up with one, let the fella lick his wounds for not trying hard enough. It's alright....courtships in schools are but mere games sometimes.
study lah....no hot or cold....
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