My grandma has no senile or dementia. But recently, i suspect that she had stolen my ring, my house keys, pens and coins in my piggy bank.
When confronted, she at first say she thought the ring is hers but return already, later on say the ring is on the dining table then when asked again, she say she did not take and deny totally.
She likes to flip her words like prataman and is very money minded according to all my aunty and uncles. All my aunty and uncles kick her like soccer ball as they all have problem with my grandma.
I'm quite fed up with my grandma because she refuse to return the ring to me and keep denying. Wanted to ransack her stuffs but my dad told me to forget it as i might blow up the matter.
How can i retrieve my stuffs....?
the answer to the solution: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybxNkpS5q-g
This is not applicable for my grandma.
1) she once said if my dad make it big, she will be knock down by car
2) when my dad was in coma for a week she did not even bother to call and ask. instead, pack her bag and run as far as possible because she was afraid that if my dad passed away, there will be bad luck.
3) she chase my dad and mom out of the house when my dad give her allowance late (back to those days)
4) she make my mum sweep floor with feather duster when she was 7mth pregnant
5) she anyhow sprout rumours and say that my uncle was sleeping with his maid just because my uncle's family treat their maid well
6) she always tell neighbour that nobody buy food for her but in fact she always claimed that she is full and throw the food (nicely packed and is still Hot) away
How old is your grandma?
Don't get any ideas ah.
Just want to know.
If over 80, just wait.
if below 80, just tollerate,
if below 70, play soccer.
Originally posted by mancha:How old is your grandma?
Don't get any ideas ah.
Just want to know.
If over 80, just wait.
if below 80, just tollerate,
if below 70, play soccer.
She is Over 80. think 85 this year. but the thing is. her family life damn long one. My great grandma live till age 105 then die. her siblings all 80 plus still around. Even my grandpa is turning 100 this year..
Originally posted by FireIce:old liao is like tt one. when u old liao is oso like tt one.
then ur grandchildren will complain in forums too.
how true.
Your grandma is showing signs of "worning out" "wearing out". The stage before death some old people will behave strangely. Pardon me I am not saying that she is dying soon. Alternatively, your grandma may be having some problems and these are manifesting in her behaviour.
My grandma said, human after 80yo is consider reborn, if they still lives on, it is a new age, so if your grandma is 85yo, her mentality is just a 5yo kid, the only way is to treat her like a kid, and to gel with kid, you need to behave like a kid inorder to communicate with her.
like buy PSP for her?
Wii better, then hv to buy baby clot and pampers for her too
Would you want her on my ship while I sail her to Davy Jones' Locker?
Try to talk to her nicely.
If it is not possible to retrieve the items......I suggest you just consider it that you gifted those items for her.......
Originally posted by angel7030:My grandma said, human after 80yo is consider reborn, if they still lives on, it is a new age, so if your grandma is 85yo, her mentality is just a 5yo kid, the only way is to treat her like a kid, and to gel with kid, you need to behave like a kid inorder to communicate with her.
you got a point.
got sense.
Originally posted by FireIce:old liao is like tt one. when u old liao is oso like tt one.
then ur grandchildren will complain in forums too.
FIFI.. she all along is like that lei. young time also behave like tat. now old liao is even worst.
I'm just pek cek coz my house ma cham keeping thief. everything also steal. One day if she steal my car key then whole car give her meh? cannot be ma..
my grandma also very old. not very senile but like to act senile leh.. sometimes i feel like vomitting blood after telling her one thing and she totally forgot about it after 5 minutes. but when she calculating money, even i cant beat her.
Bring to her my ship and y'all can stop bitching about her...
Simple solution:
Just lock up all yr valuables. Only display those u can lose.
Your grandma is suffering from dementia.
One of my previous ex ex girlfren, her grandma also like tis wan. Last time she used to be closed to her grandma but when she came back from overseas studies, her grandma changed. Don't recognise her anymore and not even speak to her. Then her grandma started taking her things and kept them under her bed. When ask, she said it is her things and ask some other time, she completely forgot. My ex ex galfren neva understood her grandma, all of the sudden the grandma became very difficult, always walk out from the home and then dunno how to come back, luckily the neigbour spotted her loitering around and took her back home, to our shock, becuase we thought something happen to her.
My ex ex galfren completely detach from her granny bcause she neva understood what is wrong with her. So the family sent her to old folks home. But last year, i heard from a fren, she past away. My ex ex galfren cry a lot, regretting that she didn't spend a lot of time wif her granny.
To the plank she goes!!!!
yo, captain! u want her to play plank?
Originally posted by Dr Language:Your grandma is suffering from dementia.
One of my previous ex ex girlfren, her grandma also like tis wan. Last time she used to be closed to her grandma but when she came back from overseas studies, her grandma changed. Don't recognise her anymore and not even speak to her. Then her grandma started taking her things and kept them under her bed. When ask, she said it is her things and ask some other time, she completely forgot. My ex ex galfren neva understood her grandma, all of the sudden the grandma became very difficult, always walk out from the home and then dunno how to come back, luckily the neigbour spotted her loitering around and took her back home, to our shock, becuase we thought something happen to her.
My ex ex galfren completely detach from her granny bcause she neva understood what is wrong with her. So the family sent her to old folks home. But last year, i heard from a fren, she past away. My ex ex galfren cry a lot, regretting that she didn't spend a lot of time wif her granny.
Long ago, one of my gal fren told me her ex boyfriend left her just because she had a dementia grandma, and he was a Doctor. What a waste, the reason for leaving was that this Dr bf worried that my gal fren will become like her grandma when she grow old, I told her to tell the Doctor go screw himself
The problem with old people. They expect those junior to show them deference instead of basing the relationship on mutual respect
When they lose their mind, a lifetime of habits and their true nature emerge in an uncontrolled way.
When human pursue longer existence beyong the norm, naturally it will go haywire, same goes to our MM and other SMs, in the end, what you see is a living body without the soul.