Originally posted by xiaogougou:This is where i go against the Demon and become an Angel supporter.
Seriously, what the hell are you thinking?
For you to suggest a CC for one person to go to know the other gender clearly indicates to pple your type of mindset man.
I think your type of socialization is just lim kopi at the coffeeshop, talk a lot of birds, chickens or cuckoos, if not play chinese chess (in short, PCC) at the void deck. Wa lauu .. PCC at the void deck, you see pathetic or not ??
Go CC do what? Join what club? What sort of club will have young girls there? Or PCC somemore? Go CC to PCC ?
You go there KTV with those lao auntie to go sing in 黄金年� is it? {=_="}
Or do aunties do PCC service at the CC?
I would visit a pub anyday of the week over a CC. Thank q beri the much.
ä¹–ä¹– types are scarce nowadays....Hahaha! Depends on what types of frens you wanna make....u go pub/KTV to chiong and still think you can find "decent" GF there ? I dunno leh....
Originally posted by Demon Bane:ä¹–ä¹– types are scarce nowadays....Hahaha!
Depends on what types of frens you wanna make....u go pub/KTV to chiong and still think you can find "decent" GF there ? I dunno leh....
Eh this world is Give and Take one loh.
You want decent one, 99% is buay sui one.
You want sui one, 99% her life is screwed up one.
The perfect combination of sui and decent, GOT ~~~~ But you wait long long loh .. wait long long also dont have.
If your gf is decent but not chio, you outside see pple's gf more Hot, you hammer your chest and come here whine and bark.
If your gf is chio, but not decent, you still kao beh kao bu that why you have a whore for a gal.
This one hiam, that one complain, just what the Fk you want then ??
Guys like this really is skin itchy and asking for a beating ~
We just can't have the cake and eat it....you are correct, life is a dilemma and also a drama....
Although life is a drama, like it or not, you are still the director of yr drama, its your call ya.
Without dilemma there is no choice in life, and given no choice, most chose to end life
Originally posted by angel7030:Although life is a drama, like it or not, you are still the director of yr drama, its your call ya.
Without dilemma there is no choice in life, and given no choice, most chose to end life
Life is meaningless and death is inevitable....why has it to be soooo depressing?
some people simply loved to have a fling every night
Originally posted by Demon Bane:Life is meaningless and death is inevitable....why has it to be soooo depressing?
He who press himself to seek perfection and glory will alway be depressing due to continuity of pressing. He who see the unnecessities to press on, shall release himself from the agony of depression. It is all up there in yr head.
For guy, use your top head to think smartly and not the bottom one ya
For gal, use your top head to think wisely and not the two front heads ya
Originally posted by angel7030:
He who press himself to seek perfection and glory will alway be depressing due to continuity of pressing. He who see the unnecessities to press on, shall release himself from the agony of depression. It is all up there in yr head.
For guy, use your top head to think smartly and not the bottom one ya
For gal, use your top head to think wisely and not the two front heads ya
Wise words Angel....wise words! I'll ponder on your comments....Thanks!
Originally posted by Disman:some people simply loved to have a fling every night
Whatever you like to do, is ok to do it, the problem arises when people do not know the limitation and when to stop. Whatever habits you hv in your young time, do not think that you still can do the same as you grow older, as grew older, if you are still doing the same as what you did in your young time, you are simply asking for troubles. There is a limitation to everything, from eating yr favourite foods to visiting your favourite pub
How long can we live? 70 ? 60? Well spend it well and be happy is the most important...why grow old alone? Dun be too picky lah...sure can get a partner one lah....
Don't worry you ain't the only one. My cousin first dated a girl when he was 33 years old and then dated another at 35 years old and now he's 36 years old, he's now engaged to his gf. He's getting married in October.
You should try online dating - if that scared of dating. As least you can virtually talk to one another before knowning each other.
Today, me and my maid fried hotdog, then we went to watch a movie, then our hotdog get burnt. Haiz!
Originally posted by Demon Bane:How long can we live? 70 ? 60? Well spend it well and be happy is the most important...why grow old alone? Dun be too picky lah...sure can get a partner one lah....
i think we should be able to live pass 85yo, if not why the CPF longervity scheme covered us with an insurance of continous pay out after 85yo.
Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Its called SDN now you baffoon.
This is a suitable link for this thread
http://www.spp.nus.edu.sg/ips/docs/media/yr2010/ST_Never%20Been%20Kissed_220510.pdf
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Dr Adrian Wang, a consultant psychiatrist at Gleneagles Medical Centre believes the self esteem of people in their late 20s or early 30s would definitely be affected if they have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Street poll of 50 single women between 18 and 35 showed that more than half would not try SDN activities. One said: 'SDN has a bad reputation, it sounds like social engineering. Even if people do join, they may not come clean.'
It doesnt help that many believe only down-on-their-luck singles nearing their expiry date join the SDN these days.
There is this perception about SDN that even for relationships, you need the Government to give you a hand.
HR Exec Leong Wai Fun, 23, who attended an SDN event last year, says, " I felt sian the minute i reached the venue. Because everywhere I looked, the guys seemed to be in their 30s, all too old for me.'
Mr Soh, too, started to despair. He has joined SDN activities regularly since his uni days. Yet after 20 outings, and much anticipation, he remains single.
He is no longer holding his breath that the SDN will work for him, and points out that he notices a lack of people from 24 to 28 years of age at its events.
Mr Chen, still alone, has had a change of heart and has vowed that he will longer be an 'umbrella' - easy and convenient for girls to use
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nice article u got there, looks like its quite normal to be single at 30+ haha but dunno if they all still virgin
Poor Mr chen , he really need to tone down and be more relax lol.
I don't know where in the world this guys come from but please don't go get a foreign bride just because you are not in a relationship yet there is plently of girls out there who are in their 30s lookin for a guy go search for them.
Originally posted by burndog85:Don't worry you ain't the only one. My cousin first dated a girl when he was 33 years old and then dated another at 35 years old and now he's 36 years old, he's now engaged to his gf. He's getting married in October.
You should try online dating - if that scared of dating. As least you can virtually talk to one another before knowning each other.
u got 30k. GO find vietnam wife lo.
Originally posted by Itedino:u got 30k. GO find vietnam wife lo.
Wedding banquet, wedding album, air ticket, accomodation and 1day moneyback guarantee included.
Originally posted by yellowlight101:I don't know where in the world this guys come from but please don't go get a foreign bride just because you are not in a relationship yet there is plently of girls out there who are in their 30s lookin for a guy go search for them.
These girls all got high expectations that is why in their 30s already still looking for a bf
You choose people, people also choose you....
Originally posted by icare:
These girls all got high expectations that is why in their 30s already still looking for a bf
Aiyah, in sg there are oni 2 types of girls in their 30s not yet attached one.
Either they are CMI or they got sky high expectations.
Really loh, i will take a 20 + girl over a 30+ yr old auntie anytime of the day.
Gals think they are practical but us guys are also very practical one.
If you are not worth it, we guys will not 'invest' in you.
I recall sometime ago there was a lady duno by the name of Alice or what, she logged in here to rant about not having a bf and complained after attending a SDN event.
She mentioned that the guys at the event were disappointing and didnt approach her. She came back and simply ran guys down posting here.
But come on loh, ladies at 30, you are not 20 something years old leh, you are 30 plus, seriously depreciated liao, you still want to �起�� ? Its not as if you got many assets left at 30+ loh, you instead shift the blame to guys not good enough for you. Take some responsibility for your own leh.
Now what age already, guys never approach you, you duno how to approach guys yrself meh? Guys cannot be shy meh?
I am with my gf now also is because she told me 1st she love me loh. She is not pretty but i still take her because she is really good to me.
Actually girls woo guys is even more effective than guys do it. Ever heard of the saying, '女追男, éš”æˆ�æ²™‘ ?
Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Aiyah, in sg there are oni 2 types of girls in their 30s not yet attached one.
Either they are CMI or they got sky high expectations.
Really loh, i will take a 20 + girl over a 30+ yr old auntie anytime of the day.
Gals think they are practical but us guys are also very practical one.
If you are not worth it, we guys will not 'invest' in you.
I recall sometime ago there was a lady duno by the name of Alice or what, she logged in here to rant about not having a bf and complained after attending a SDN event.
She mentioned that the guys at the event were disappointing and didnt approach her. She came back and simply ran guys down posting here.
But come on loh, ladies at 30, you are not 20 something years old leh, you are 30 plus, seriously depreciated liao, you still want to �起�� ? Its not as if you got many assets left at 30+ loh, you instead shift the blame to guys not good enough for you. Take some responsibility for your own leh.
Now what age already, guys never approach you, you duno how to approach guys yrself meh? Guys cannot be shy meh?
I am with my gf now also is because she told me 1st she love me loh. She is not pretty but i still take her because she is really good to me.
Actually girls woo guys is even more effective than guys do it. Ever heard of the saying, '女追男, éš”æˆ�æ²™‘ ?
can consider taking old but rich girls
Old and rich men want to marry.
But old and rich women will not marry.
Originally posted by mancha:Old and rich men want to marry.
But old and rich women will not marry.
You are correct !
Originally posted by mancha:Old and rich men want to marry.
But old and rich women will not marry.
Old and rich women will marry, but only to the old and rich men's son
Originally posted by Itedino:u got 30k. GO find vietnam wife lo.
ya, sponsor to the Communist Party of Vietnam, they need funds to build road, drain and toilets.