People who never had relationships
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Im turning 30 soon and till now I never had any relationships yet. Seems that the girls I met are not suitable for me. How many people out there are similar to me?
Do you know anyone who never had any bf/gf till this age or later but eventually later got married happily? I know its very rare to hear people who never had relationships before.
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did u try to go outings more often? all my gf i know from online one sia... go out once then slowly become my gf ler... now i still go out with female friends but just friends only...
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did u try to go outings more often? all my gf i know from online one sia... go out once then slowly become my gf ler... now i still go out with female friends but just friends only...
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Fated.
Not to worry too much.
Attend more activities around you.
I am sure you will meet your love one.
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Its pointless to have had 1000 relationships before too if you are not getting married in the end.
But getting a gf in your 30s is not easy lah. You die die need to have a stable career and salary at this point of time.
You also need to lower the expectations of the girl you want loh. Plus you need to compete with many other guys in their 20s. Guys are NOT BLIND one.
So the best thing to do is dont think about it.
Have you thought about getting a foreign bride if you cannot find a local girl then?
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We are all born to do different things...
Having not had a relationship ever does not make you any lesser than the rest of us... although at some point in life everybody needs somebardie~
There are some things single people can do with their entire lives that married people find difficult to e.g. commit themselves wholeheartedly to a worthy cause
Anyway, my uncle met his first girlfriend when he was 40+. He's now 60, still with the same lady, still leading a very happy and simple life now. I'm not consoling you - this is true!
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its true that at this age its harder for u to get girls. and u must have a stable career and salary like what xiaogougou said.
one of my friend in his early thirties got stable career and salary, but due to time constraint cant get to know more girls. so in the end he contacted his poly ex gf and settled for her. he is lucky the girl is stil available..
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Originally posted by Gerberad:
its true that at this age its harder for u to get girls. and u must have a stable career and salary like what xiaogougou said.
one of my friend in his early thirties got stable career and salary, but due to time constraint cant get to know more girls. so in the end he contacted his poly ex gf and settled for her. he is lucky the girl is stil available..
"he contacted his poly ex gf and settled for her"...??
consolation prize? this sounds really bad...
if your friend got stable career and salary like you said, he should have gone to china... he would have gotten young and super model-quality girlfriends, and life will be decadent but fun
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Originally posted by coffeebreak:
"he contacted his poly ex gf and settled for her"...??
consolation prize? this sounds really bad...
if your friend got stable career and salary like you said, he should have gone to china... he would have gotten young and super model-quality girlfriends, and life will be decadent but fun
so happy for him that he did not got one... prc would have swindle his money till he dry. that girl he got now got earnings on par with him.probably its consolation prize, but at least better than nobody. cant hiam, at least she can provide for family. it would be harder to get a girl at 40..
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I am same as TS. Turning 30 soon and never have a gf
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walau! going 30 already..uncle soon
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For men, if you hv all these 3 critierias, you can get a gf very fast
1. Cash in hand'
2. Yandao (handsome)
3. Able to talk well
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when it comes it comes ma... sometimes these kind of things cannot intentionally wait 1 ba. so what if you've not had any relationships before 30? who knows u'll meet 1 at 30 plus and it mayb smooth until u settle for it? age is not a good guideline for matters of the heart.
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me....
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Nobody can live on love and fresh air alone.
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Originally posted by Jiani:
me....
You? So you are telling us you are in the same boat as TS who is coming to 30 and not have any relationship before. I read you said you are primary six primary 6. You yourself now pichak lobang, self pawned lol! You are telling us you are not a primary six kid.Please lol not everyone here is stupid to believe you are primary 6. Primary 6 kid don't speak or post the way you do. Hey, Almond Cookies!
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Originally posted by shanfan:
You? So you are telling us you are in the same boat as TS who is coming to 30 and not have any relationship before. I read you said you are primary six primary 6. You yourself now pichak lobang, self pawned lol! You are telling us you are not a primary six kid.Please lol not everyone here is stupid to believe you are primary 6. Primary 6 kid don't speak or post the way you do. Hey, Almond Cookies!
what? i am secondary 1 -
Originally posted by Jiani:
what? i am secondary 1
oh, now you changed tune said you are seconday one. What a liar! -
Originally posted by shanfan:
oh, now you changed tune said you are seconday one. What a liar!
noooo i am not lying -
Originally posted by Jiani:
noooo i am not lying
yes , you are. Almond Cookies. -
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
when it comes it comes ma… sometimes these kind of things cannot intentionally wait 1 ba. so what if you’ve not had any relationships before 30? who knows u’ll meet 1 at 30 plus and it mayb smooth until u settle for it? age is not a good guideline for matters of the heart.
Dont be naive lehh. 30 liao lehh.. not 17,18 still you know? How much more time can a 30yrs old person afford to wait? You make it sound as if 30 plus still got a lot of choices loh.If you reach this age still no rship ongoing, then you really have to make plans le. Like for example put a cut-off age for yourself, like if reach 35 liao still no gf maybe really have to do something desperate and drastic le.
If not how? Grow old alone ah ?Age is not a guideline, but its a determinant loh.
Dont rely on friends loh. Friends are just accessories. Everybody is selfish one. Your friends got their partner liao also will dump you one side de. At the end of the day you will end up alone. This world is that practical de.
So really have to make plans for yourself.
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Originally posted by shanfan:
yes , you are. Almond Cookies.
want to see my ic -
and why would i lie to you?
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Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:
Im turning 30 soon and till now I never had any relationships yet. Seems that the girls I met are not suitable for me. How many people out there are similar to me?
Do you know anyone who never had any bf/gf till this age or later but eventually later got married happily? I know its very rare to hear people who never had relationships before.
Not the end of the world for you.
1) Singapore retirement age is 62
2) I know somebody who married at 50, by the time son is 30, he is 84.
3) If you cannot find Singapore chicks, go to other country like vietnam, cambodia and laos. They are easier to satisfy and simplier.
4) I know somebody who got attach at 47 and happily married after that: age is not a barrier.
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Originally posted by Jiani:
and why would i lie to you?
You lie to forumers here not to me only.I/C. Anyone can borrow ic and show.