Getting Pregnant / Baby
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Hi TS, are you in stress or your spouse in stress for instances in work or family?
Stress do play a part too.
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"Those massage aims to loosen and relax the muscles at the fallopian tubes (sperm need to travel to this tube and meet with the egg inside here).
I do have my reserves for alternative medicine, so it's a no go if you ask me."
Sorry, I dont get you on this as stated above ?
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"Hi TS, are you in stress or your spouse in stress for instances in work or family?
Stress do play a part too."
Yes, I have some communications or relationships problems with my mother inlaw (MIL).
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Try in Alaska, its great doing it with the aurora borealis can work wonders.
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I wish too, but my MIL, keep nagging about this, how then, cannot stand it anymore.
my friend say, try it first, see how it goes later, but I dont feel comfortable trying this method, I scared got problems for me later.even thou she(massage auntie) is outside the room, still dont feel comfortable doing that time. -
Perhaps I can help you get pregnant.
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"Perhaps I can help you get pregnant."
How ?
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ask your hubby go do a sperm count. you can go to any gynae to do that.
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yes, we try before, still no luck yet
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last time we go NUH try for almost 1 yr
lucky after my day-surgery we got our gal
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If fertility treatment don't work, you got two alternative:
1) Find surrogate mother
2) Adopt babies
For step 1) very expensive. If you are religious and concern with ethics then this don't suit you.
For step 2) Advisible you adopt baby not toodlers or teenagers because they may have suffered negative influences while in the orphanage. Do not buy baby from foreign country, as this may later affect the baby's citizenship. Not sure if Singapore would make the baby a pariah status. Also, make sure you get the birth cert papers from the mother before you adopt the baby. Because if next times authorities want to verify the baby's citizenship, you can trace back to the mother.
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
"Perhaps I can help you get pregnant."
How ?
Sex, the traditional way.
But we need an agreement that I don't have to pay for child support.
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Dun just bring someone into this world becos u are lonely....the costs of living is sooo high in SG....you really sure you wanna have kids ?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Dun just bring someone into this world becos u are lonely....the costs of living is sooo high in SG....you really sure you wanna have kids ?
Well said!
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Dun just bring someone into this world becos u are lonely....the costs of living is sooo high in SG....you really sure you wanna have kids ?
I think it is right to hv decendents, it more or less a call of nature, even germs and animals must reproduce inorder to sustain, we will be selfish if we do not reproduce decendent to carry on the human race just because of cost of living and bring in more suffering. I would rather say that if you intent to hv a child, make sure you nurture him/her well into this world, and not turn up to be another rotton egg for the society. -
yes, even the cost of living nowadays is high, we still want to have kids, no matter what or how hard for us later to bring up my kids later. As for us 1 boy N 1 gal is enough already, a small family can do for us.
we are trying whatever we can now, even up to that traditional method we have too go for it, but still thinking about it. 50 50 in our mind.
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Don't worry about money. Don't let lack of enough money to spoil your life.
The lower income families with four or five kids can also be a happy family, when the parents are responsible and caring and inculcate well among themselves.
Those who blame the government, the rising cost, low pay, are focusing on the wrong things and they feel unhappy, and then they behave rudely to their family and others. Its all in the mind and the heart.
Do not compare yourself with others. If you do, you will feel unhappy taking the bus, because you look out of the window and see people driving Mercedes, BMW and Lambourgini.
Live within your means, with thoughts and consideration for others, i.e. Love.
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
yes, even the cost of living nowadays is high, we still want to have kids, no matter what or how hard for us later to bring up my kids later. As for us 1 boy N 1 gal is enough already, a small family can do for us.
we are trying whatever we can now, even up to that traditional method we have too go for it, but still thinking about it. 50 50 in our mind.
Given limited financial ability.. one is enough.
I think you should just go try for the traditional method.. if you don't try , you won't know.
The longer you wait... the less your chance of conceiving.
Start living a healthier lifestyle.
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still thinking 50 50, want to go or not.
feel shy or un-comfortable, auntie can see my p****" or maybe touch too.
I dont know, he can do or not, as auntie is just outside the room only N 2nd massage right after we have s**.
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Sometimes it is fate that we are destined not to have children and God decides who have the children and who don't have.
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Hi TS,
I would like to say ,pls do not begin too eager to get pregnant .. let things come naturally .
Even a healthy person also need half a yr to get pregnant .. so relax give yourself a break then the baby
will come in by surprise.
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Do you guys only know about western medicine?
Ladies, cannot give birth?
Please check out these 2 places:
1) Tong Ji Medical Hall ( at china town)- http://www.stcmi.org.sg/index.asp
Go here for more discussion on Tong Ji success in helping women get pregnant -http://www.mummysg.com/forums/f7/singapore-thong-chai-medical-tong-ji-34104/
2) Toa Payoh Chong Hua Clinic Main Branch
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Chung Hwa (Zhong Hua) Medical Institution is the largest TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine) organization in Singapore, and it offers free TCM medical consultation to the general public regardless of race, nationality and religion. While medical treatment is free-of-charge, a token registration fee of S$2 will be collected, and it will used to offset part of your medication costs, which are about S$8. So on a normal visit, expect to pay S$8 only.
The following are details of the 4 Chung Hwa (Zhong Hua) clinics located in Singapore:
Addresses, Contact Numbers and Operating Hours
Singapore Chung Hwa (Zhong Hua) Medical Institution – Toa Payoh Main Office
Address: 640 Lorong 4 Toa Payoh Singapore 319522
Tel: 6251-3304 / 6251-3428 / 6256-3481
Fax: 6254-0037
Operating Hours: 9am-12pm, 1pm-5pm, 7pm-9pm (Closed on Sun & P.H.)Yishun Branch
Address: Blk 215 Yishun Street 21 #01-301 Singapore 760215
Tel: 6756-7830
Fax: 6756-3973
Operating Hours: 9am-12pm, 1pm-5pm, 7pm-9pm (Closed on Sun & P.H.)Woodlands Branch
Address: Blk 679 Woodlands Avenue 6 #01-710 Singapore 730679
Tel: 6366-3246
Fax: 6367-2218
Operating Hours: 9am-12pm, 1pm-5pm, 7pm-9pm (Closed on Sun & P.H.)Changi Branch (At Changi General Hospital)
Address: 2 Simei Street 3 #L1-01 Singapore 529889
Tel: 6787-3845 / 6782-2062
Fax: 6787-3758
Operating Hours: 9am-1pm, 2pm-6pm (Closed on Sun & P.H.)Tips for First-Timers to Chung Hwa (Zhong Hua) Clinics
- Bring along your identification card for registration
- Registration starts 30 minutes before opening
- Cut down your waiting time by getting a queue number for afternoon and evening sessions in the morningChung Hwa (Zhong Hua) Medical Institution’s Website
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dear Sly134, thank you for your information, cheers ..............
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For tangalchi indian women, between, go 54, Silva Medical Hall, Rangoon road, off seranggoon road, or veersamy road also got one indian yoga lady who can treat people, especially indian to give birth, like nos 12 StarYoga and treatment, I think it will be better than going to those TCM, seranggoon one also free mah, but token of $5 is appreciated. At least you can communicate better and also can learn the art of yoga and the sequences of breathing during sex which is also important in conceiving baby.
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dear angel7030, thank you for your information, cheers ..............