Getting Pregnant / Baby
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hi there, as some of you all, might have read my another topic in mother inlaw (MIL).
my new topic problem is getting pregnant / baby.
I, married, 3 years, no kids yet.
please advice ?
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Go see a fertility specialist.
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how old are u?
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sex?
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Go see a fertility specialist.
This.
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yes, see already fertility specialist.
I m 29, he is 33.
my friend reconmend me go those massage / urut traditional method, successful rate is very high, is in Malaysia but the method there are doing looks like abit strange, we had gone there before to check N ask for more infor, we still thinking of whether want to try or not.
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Read a book on baby planning....I believe there is some things like scheduling etc.......
After that try to see doctor.....if nothing is wrong....just keep trying....but dont stress yourselves also.....as long as you are trying, give it some time and be more patient.
Good luck,
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yes, done as advice by specialist.
thanks.
FYI, I take pills last time before married.
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just every day fuck morning, afternoon, and dinner time lah... do it for 1 year straight... if still no baby come find me, i give u ang pao...
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"my friend reconmend me go those massage / urut traditional method, successful rate is very high, is in Malaysia but the method there are doing looks like abit strange, we had gone there before to check N ask for more infor, we still thinking of whether want to try or not."
dear all, what will you think or feel about this ?
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
"my friend reconmend me go those massage / urut traditional method, successful rate is very high, is in Malaysia but the method there are doing looks like abit strange, we had gone there before to check N ask for more infor, we still thinking of whether want to try or not."
dear all, what will you think or feel about this ?
Just don't do anything stupid.
Have you tried different positions and timing? There's alot you can resort to, without going for medical or "non-traditional" options.
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Missionary. Do on day 14 to 28. two times a day. Lie down for 5min after the exercise. post back your result.
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yes,
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
"my friend reconmend me go those massage / urut traditional method, successful rate is very high, is in Malaysia but the method there are doing looks like abit strange, we had gone there before to check N ask for more infor, we still thinking of whether want to try or not."
dear all, what will you think or feel about this ?
If you are currently under western care, please do not mix with alternative.
Some medicines in alternative negates western medicine. Or the combination may be detrimental to your body.
It's best to stick to one kind of care for your own health safety.
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yes, sometimes western care N alternative dont really mix well, thats why we still thinking of whether want to try or not.
"tummy N the lower part need to be massage first for sometimes, then only can have s** , after that, need to do the same steps again for sometimes, massage by the experience auntie" - looks like abit strange to us this traditional method.
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JUST DO IT DON'T STOP!
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The timimg and the position of sex must be correct, otherwise forever no baby.
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so far, I only know, timing can be related to making baby but position, I no come across, thanks for sharing to me.
usually everytimes after s**, I will lie down for sometimes but when get up N clean / wash later, it will flow out too.
I need to clean / wash if not I feel very sticky or uncomfortable later, cannot sleep, even I clean / wash already, the next following day, my undies, got abit bit stains too.
please advice ?
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dun listen to tat mamasan
if u were on pills or abortion b4, u need to strengthen yr body
i suppose u r skinny
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
so far, I only know, timing can be related to making baby but position, I no come across, thanks for sharing to me.
usually everytimes after s**, I will lie down for sometimes but when get up N clean / wash later, it will flow out too.
I need to clean / wash if not I feel very sticky or uncomfortable later, cannot sleep, even I clean / wash already, the next following day, my undies, got abit bit stains too.
please advice ?
The fertility specialist got recommend In-vitro Fertilization ?
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
yes, sometimes western care N alternative dont really mix well, thats why we still thinking of whether want to try or not.
"tummy N the lower part need to be massage first for sometimes, then only can have s** , after that, need to do the same steps again for sometimes, massage by the experience auntie" - looks like abit strange to us this traditional method.
Too fishy.Unless you can find solid evidence from the net, i dont see how a "massage" can be superior to pills professional specialists give.
Follow-up and report to your specialist about the situation, dont feel stress esp during intercourse, is prolly what i will do.
Good luck :-)
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"tummy N the lower part need to be massage first for sometimes, then only can have s** , after that, need to do the same steps again for sometimes, massage by the experience auntie" - looks like abit strange to us this traditional method"
"have to be done during fertile period days N 2nd massage right after we have s** by auntie"
if you are me, will you try it or not ?
please advice ?
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
"tummy N the lower part need to be massage first for sometimes, then only can have s** , after that, need to do the same steps again for sometimes, massage by the experience auntie" - looks like abit strange to us this traditional method"
"have to be done during fertile period days N 2nd massage right after we have s** by auntie"
if you are me, will you try it or not ?
please advice ?
Those massage aims to loosen and relax the muscles at the fallopian tubes (sperm need to travel to this tube and meet with the egg inside here).I do have my reserves for alternative medicine, so it's a no go if you ask me.
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Originally posted by Manmanlun:
so far, I only know, timing can be related to making baby but position, I no come across, thanks for sharing to me.
usually everytimes after s**, I will lie down for sometimes but when get up N clean / wash later, it will flow out too.
I need to clean / wash if not I feel very sticky or uncomfortable later, cannot sleep, even I clean / wash already, the next following day, my undies, got abit bit stains too.
please advice ?
Position does affect the outcome. For the missionary position (you lie down below; he's on top), this allows maximum penetration thus enable sperm to be deeper inside the uterus. This has been proven by scientists and doctors all around the world. You may google more to find out more about missionary position.
It is common issues that seminal fluid (sperm + colourless liquid) does flows out of the vagina most of the time. Many reported uncomfortable as it will flow out. FS would also recommend what I recommend to you i.e. lie down for 5mins after exercise, allowing the seminal fluid to travel deeper inside.
The stains is due to the leakage of seminal fluid, it is common.
After sex, you may want to clean/wash the external of the vagina. Then go to sleep with your panty. As majority of the seminal fluid is still inside you body, this will increase the chance of fertilazation. I know it feels uncomfortable when it's feels like leaking out...
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Those massage aims to loosen and relax the muscles at the fallopian tubes (sperm need to travel to this tube and meet with the egg inside here).I do have my reserves for alternative medicine, so it's a no go if you ask me.
On the another hand, you case may be a cause of blocked fallopian tube, in which, massaging would greatly help.