hi there, I new here.
my problems is my mother inlaw (MIL).
I, married, 3 years, no kids yet, staying with her, cannot stand her, very talkative, busybody, interfere our private life, controlling etc.
please advice ?
Move out
Ban Jia
Get your mil a hobby
3 years and no plans for your own home?
parent house, how to move out, so expensive property out there.
he always on her side, as she her mother, always ask me to be patient, control myself etc
MIL hobbies like to play mahjong with neighbours, busybody, very "pak" , gossiping around etc
Originally posted by Manmanlun:parent house, how to move out, so expensive property out there.
he always on her side, as she her mother, always ask me to be patient, control myself etc
MIL hobbies like to play mahjong with neighbours, busybody, very "pak" , gossiping around etc
tell her go timezone.
sure get addicted. 1 month later she sure get gold card de
what is timezone ?
Timezone = arcade place.
MIL over 60+++, she dont like 1, she like to play mahjong with neighbours only
always like to interfere our private life, always ask me when get pregnant, not say, we dont want, we are trying our best, sometimes, I sense she outside our room at night, peeping / spying us.
U think too much liaw ah. lol!
Originally posted by Manmanlun:MIL over 60+++, she dont like 1, she like to play mahjong with neighbours only
always like to interfere our private life, always ask me when get pregnant, not say, we dont want, we are trying our best, sometimes, I sense she outside our room at night, peeping / spying us.
then all the more you should be SCREAMING and SHRIEKING in pleasure at night hahahahaha... just create some fun in you and hubby's evening before sleep.
Originally posted by Manmanlun:MIL over 60+++, she dont like 1, she like to play mahjong with neighbours only
always like to interfere our private life, always ask me when get pregnant, not say, we dont want, we are trying our best, sometimes, I sense she outside our room at night, peeping / spying us.
tell her play farmville
MIL hobbies like to play mahjong with neighbours only
Originally posted by Manmanlun:MIL over 60+++, she dont like 1, she like to play mahjong with neighbours only
always like to interfere our private life, always ask me when get pregnant, not say, we dont want, we are trying our best, sometimes, I sense she outside our room at night, peeping / spying us.
your being paranoid. unless u see her spying, ar then tell her u need to private life
have u introduced her to MBS or RWS?
we got tell her before, dont interfere our private life
have u introduced her to MBS or RWS? - No
the women charter didn't teach women how to live with their in laws...but certainly put men on the spot in between...
who else could we thank more?
Originally posted by Manmanlun:hi there, I new here.
my problems is my mother inlaw (MIL).
I, married, 3 years, no kids yet, staying with her, cannot stand her, very talkative, busybody, interfere our private life, controlling etc.
please advice ?
What are you expecting from your mother-in law ?
Didn't you alredy know what kind of person she is BEFORE you got married ?
When she kaypoh.. just taichi everything to your husband lor. Let your husband deal with her. Afterall, she is your husband's mother, not your mother wat.
dont be too talkative, busybody, interfere our private life, controlling etc.
last time, diff, not staying with her, even stay with her, just 1 or 2 days only.
thats whats I been doing now, complain back to him everytimes, she "kaypoh" to me,
always ask me to be patient, control myself etc.
I cannot tahan anymore, no privacy life, wish to move out, but so expensive property out there.
less then SGD10k