foreverfeelingsad
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hey everyone, Im 16, male, 1.63m tall. most of my friends are/were in relationship before except me. well, that made me feel that a guy like me who is this tall will never get a girl. the truth? I kinda like a girl who is taller that me. I mean shes like 1.7m - 1.76m, around there. furthermore, I dont even have the looks too. #fml \(T- T \)
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have you asked her?
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sadly no... we seldom chat online. (as a friend) but in real life, when I see that girl, I just dont have that confidence to approach and talk/ask her. ಥ_ಥ Im so pathetic.
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Bro
1) you are NOT pathetic, you just do not know how to tackle a gal yet.
2) try this ask her out in a group, e.g. movies, dinner. get to know her better as a friend.
3) Instead of approaching her as someone that likes her, try to approach her as a friend.
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if I only have the CONFIDENCE in myself... but hey, thanks for trying to help me out.
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confidence is bulit up thru time and willingness to take a chance.
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you got nothing to lose by trying.
If you do not try then you will never know,
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yeah, you're absolutely right. if I dont try, I will never know.
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Not to pour cold water on you TS.
Normally or rather majority of lady prefer guy taller than them.
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That's not a problem....does she mind you are shorter than her ?
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I dont know... maybe like what @likeyou said, lady prefer guy taller than them.
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Sorry again to pour ice water on TS.
I am just speaking from my heart.
Ladies will feel inferior when their bf is shorter. And ladies tend to be authority over their bf. Their bf will thus be their pet. Listen to her command.
Sorry ya.
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Originally posted by iTrololol:
I dont know… maybe like what @likeyou said, lady prefer guy taller than them.
This is generally the case....why not you ask her directly?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
This is generally the case....why not you ask her directly?
Yes, but must be prepare for the worst result. -
My question for TS is it true that all short men out there will never get married?
Why must there always be about your negative points?
You got other good points too, be brave and show it to her.
If a person is always scare of failure, he or she will not learn to how sweet success is after going so much to obtain it.
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Ask her directly is better than any day-dreaming....if rejected then go for another gal lor...dun waste time pondering....direct action is the key....
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@likeyou thats ok, that make sense. hmm... asking her directly? ... gosh, I dont know man.
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Originally posted by iTrololol:
@likeyou thats ok, that make sense. hmm… asking her directly? ... gosh, I dont know man.
Be brave and ask her directly....be prepared for a rejection....but that's a part of growing up.... or maybe she will accept you leh?
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To TS
lets do a test
how would you react if a gal friend of yours came up to you and say she likes you?
Shocked?
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the key point is to know her more.
Let her know you more ..
Going out with her in a group.
observe her.. understand her.,. know her friends.
A key point is to know her friends and treat them well
if you can get their support, then half the battle is won.
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Originally posted by DRC:
My question for TS is it true that all short men out there will never get married?
Why must there always be about your negative points?
You got other good points too, be brave and show it to her.
If a person is always scare of failure, he or she will not learn to how sweet success is after going so much to obtain it.
I have short friends standing around 155m to 160m, they do get married and have children too. It is faith lah.
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Originally posted by iTrololol:
@likeyou thats ok, that make sense. hmm… asking her directly? ... gosh, I dont know man.
There are many methods the forumers here have suggested.You may choose one that deem apporpriate to begin with.
Good luck to you and hopefully all turns well and good.
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@Demon Bane: maybe you're right. @DRC: I'll be really shocked!
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Originally posted by iTrololol:
@Demon Bane: maybe you’re right.
@DRC: I’ll be really shocked!Just to share with you my experiences....I was rejected by 04 gals before.... so no big deal ! Life still continues....I dun feel outcasted or had low self-esteem.... in fact I grew stronger after every rejection....
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@Demon Bane: you're right. I should give a try. its now or never. (^-^)