Am i restricting my bf too much?
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Im not sure whether it is a trend to visit thai disco now. but i feel very uncomfortable with my bf tagging along with his frens for that. somemore at JB. Obviously the bunch of friends wanna hook some thai girls home as girlfriend or whatsoever and i know my bf just wanna be steady to his friends. BUT BUT BUT. i still feel uncomfortable.. like kanna betrayed. What if he cant resist the temptation? or am i thinking too much? grrrrrrr...
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mine indonesian friends likes going..
and they would spend $$$ on drinks and flowers for the females ........
I dun think you are paranoid ......
With mine gf i cant.
have face book or any other social net working instrument , hp are frequently checked as well....Email she also have mine pw...what else ..
oh yeah,cannot stay over night at chalet, one time i need to cab back from pasir ris to mine home to phone her ,showing her that i at home liao...
All this things sometimes they just drive me crazy...lol
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My bf was dragged by his frens to go. not really because he wanna go.. but he just doesnt know how to say no to his frens. How many Thai Disco are clean? i dun know and do not wish to know.
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u can tell him no need go jb one. we here oso haf. n u oso wanna go.
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His frens explore finish Sg one. now interested in Jb one lei.. might as well ask them move to thai. better still and less trouble for us..
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Not good to go to those places.....
If your boyfriend says he is just accompanying his friends........to me that is a lame excuse .....he can just say he doesnt wanna go (honestly and openly) or if he wanna be more indirect, there are dozens of excuses he can use (he is tired, he wanna do other things, he wanna accompany you, etc)..nobody force him.....
By the way I think you need to pay attention to his "friends" because they can be a negative influence to him.
Well I think you need to have a talk with him and convey to him your concerns......but I understand your ambivalence.....some young guys just dont see the bigger picture and they get angry if they think they are being restricted or controlled.....I dont know how to do it but you need to keep this in mind.
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i dun think u are restricting him too much
if i see my gf keep going to such places, i will restrict her
Reason: i hate the way those guys behave...rub their groin against the girls back
FUCKING bastards, PERVERTS!
i will smash their nose if they do it to my gf
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Hee I don't think its the place but the fact that he can't say 'No' to his friends!
If just go disco cannot say 'no' then what friends ask him to do more things?!
Aiyo ask him to be a man la!
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Im glad that im not behaving like a control freak.. He didnt get angry when i bring up the issue. he just keep insisting that he did nth but drinking coz his fren drive in to JB. he cant possible take bus home at 2am from jb.. saying that its not planned and its a sudden decision by the guys. not him.. Hur..some of the friends grow up with him since sec sch days. not easy to ditch those frens also ma...and his frens probably find me making a big fuss.
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gals simply love bad guys...guys dun go women dun find them desperately exciting..
thats the paradox of gals psyche
hence, i would strongly encourage guys to go, go, go....
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Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:
Hee I don't think its the place but the fact that he can't say 'No' to his friends!
If just go disco cannot say 'no' then what friends ask him to do more things?!
Aiyo ask him to be a man la!
yea!
can say dun go
mine frens ask me to accompany them , i always tell them i dun drink,infact i hate drinking.
if they are true friends...they wll still be ur bf friend.
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u might as well strangle him and tie him up
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ya, i can provide the whip and string
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Go thai disco, must be joking, sure one nite with thai gals either in room or in the disco lah...no need to hid and find accuses, just becareful those thai gals dun turn up to be ladyboy.
JB and singapore thai disco all interconnected one lah, just that sing more expensive, me supply liquor to them, know the bosses well. You better think of yr bf safety, lots of mafiaso there hor. Before midnite, all bros, after midnite, drunk, all hell break loose one lah. It is a place where all kind of vice activities come into one, including CID and police officers.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
u can tell him no need go jb one. we here oso haf. n u oso wanna go.
yalor, come joo chiat better, safe and easily can find your bf, neighbourhood police very near and president of Singapore just live a few street away -
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
i dun think u are restricting him too much
if i see my gf keep going to such places, i will restrict her
Reason: i hate the way those guys behave...rub their groin against the girls back
FUCKING bastards, PERVERTS!
i will smash their nose if they do it to my gf
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basically you don't trust him..
and if you don't trust him, what kind of relationship are you guys having?
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my Concern for Siam disco - malaysia.
1. Dangerous,thai got nth to lose if they get drunk and wanna fight. Also. Safety is cui
2. Cant resist to temptation? ended up like his frens. dating all the thai whores. Spending money on them like running water. bunch of dumbo
3. Tell him, he find me making a big fuss. at most bring me along - I dont accept that. They go in 12am 1 am. Some of them no need work. but i need to work.
4. His friend asking me. So serious? LOL... feel like slapping him..
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Originally posted by CfCJ:
my Concern for Siam disco - malaysia.
1. Dangerous,thai got nth to lose if they get drunk and wanna fight. Also. Safety is cui
2. Cant resist to temptation? ended up like his frens. dating all the thai whores. Spending money on them like running water. bunch of dumbo
3. Tell him, he find me making a big fuss. at most bring me along - I dont accept that. They go in 12am 1 am. Some of them no need work. but i need to work.
4. His friend asking me. So serious? LOL... feel like slapping him..
some of the people there know BLACK SPELLS
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In thai disco, as a warning, do not call for jug of beer, they go by, if you order two jugs, one jug will be free, and mostly will be thai brand singha. For a few guys, 3 jugs is not problem, but somehow, in thai disco, you get drunk pretty fast and feel very happy with gals and splash your money here and there, the beers are spiked.
ensure you call bottles open in front of you, go tell yr bf. And please dun listen to yr bf silly accuses about the need to follow frens, if he really do not want to go, he can do so, he has the option and choice, and it will be good choice if he do not follow them, Good frens dun ask ask a guy who got gf to go thai disco, basically, you are stupid and fooled by yr bf, it is he himself that love to go.
advice from a pub owner
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Originally posted by angel7030:
In thai disco, as a warning, do not call for jug of beer, they go by, if you order two jugs, one jug will be free, and mostly will be thai brand singha. For a few guys, 3 jugs is not problem, but somehow, in thai disco, you get drunk pretty fast and feel very happy with gals and splash your money here and there, the beers are spiked.
ensure you call bottles open in front of you, go tell yr bf. And please dun listen to yr bf silly accuses about the need to follow frens, if he really do not want to go, he can do so, he has the option and choice, and it will be good choice if he do not follow them, Good frens dun ask ask a guy who got gf to go thai disco, basically, you are stupid and fooled by yr bf, it is he himself that love to go.
advice from a pub owner
see aunty agony princess give personal advice
it show u have some kindness
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Hello, all the while, I am a kind person, just that many like to tease and play with me, at times, kindness can be shown by a different way instead of face value ya
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20 percent of man go such place to relax and enjoy a drink
80 percent of man go such place to find a chick to bang 1 nite
your BF is which 1 ????
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Originally posted by angel7030:
In thai disco, as a warning, do not call for jug of beer, they go by, if you order two jugs, one jug will be free, and mostly will be thai brand singha. For a few guys, 3 jugs is not problem, but somehow, in thai disco, you get drunk pretty fast and feel very happy with gals and splash your money here and there, the beers are spiked.
ensure you call bottles open in front of you, go tell yr bf. And please dun listen to yr bf silly accuses about the need to follow frens, if he really do not want to go, he can do so, he has the option and choice, and it will be good choice if he do not follow them, Good frens dun ask ask a guy who got gf to go thai disco, basically, you are stupid and fooled by yr bf, it is he himself that love to go.
advice from a pub owner
Angel. what about tower? my bf and his fren drink by tower one lei.. piang.
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Depend on where u drink lah, you go underground like mine, god bless you, you dun even know you are strip nake. Mostly places of reputation like St James, DblO, or those Quays from boat to robertson, no problem, from Arab st, into beach, into geyland into joo chiat, just be careful