Originally posted by fsDouglasLee:Everyone is afraid of being getting hurt again, no matter how old they are.
Even at my age, yes, I’m still afraid of getting hurt.
But being in love and in a relationship is about taking the chance. There may be hurt, there may not be.
Each time, we fall, we get up stronger.
Just allow as much time as possible to understand each other better.
Don’t do things you’re not comfortable with (yes, I’m also referring to sex). Don’t give in because you’re afraid of losing him. No guy is worth it if he uses sex as a bargaining chip (sorry, guys).
I was an introvert too, and I understand how insecure you feel. How you’re afraid of being alone, without that someone to love, to be loved.
But I assure you, there will always be many more out there who are suitable for you. I’m not saying he is not suitable for you. He may be. Take the time to know each other better. Talk more about each other.
Did i say I was an introvert? Yes. Build your self confidence. Attend speech classes, acting classes, classes that put you in front of many people. It’s scary, yes, but you’ll overcome it.
Keep smiling.
Majority of the gals will not want to get hurt by a broken relationship.
When coming to relationship, especially want to broke off, gals are in the losing end compare to guys. Guys will not hurt much really. Especially guys have nothing to loose at all.
Not really, today guys are more sissy than last time, I see guys get hurt more than gals, we gals are more independent and stronger today, from sgforums, statistically, you can see more guys get sadden by relationship and make their plight here. So, we are not in the losing end, today no more Harry, we can still go for Jack, Wei Lee, Dr Ang or Nicholas
Originally posted by angel7030:Not really, today guys are more sissy than last time, I see guys get hurt more than gals, we gals are more independent and stronger today, from sgforums, statistically, you can see more guys get sadden by relationship and make their plight here. So, we are not in the losing end, today no more Harry, we can still go for Jack, Wei Lee, Dr Ang or Nicholas
Is that your 'Guys Buffet' analogy again ? {=_="}
You only have a lot of choices when you are pretty lah, your logic does not apply to all girls loh.
Your assumptions are solely based upon women who are tramps and men who go merely for sex.
Huh, no lah, i hv seen guy turns rebellious when he cannot get me, some even wanted to kill me, you must understand that there many kinds of guy out there, and most cannot be trusted, even the most nerdy one will visit those tramp one way or the other, can be due to peer pressure or so call, wanted to know itchness.
Of course some dudes are real good guys, once rejected, they go on with their life and we can still be gd fren, but some turn violence when your reject them, that is why we gals are sometime at six and seven as to how to put in word or signal to a guy we rejected nicely, one wrong words or move only, can make them mad and crazy.
As said, there is only one type of man you can trust, a man who had stop breathing
Originally posted by angel7030:Huh, no lah, i hv seen guy turns rebellious when he cannot get me, some even wanted to kill me, you must understand that there many kinds of guy out there, and most cannot be trusted, even the most nerdy one will visit those tramp one way or the other, can be due to peer pressure or so call, wanted to know itchness.
Of course some dudes are real good guys, once rejected, they go on with their life and we can still be gd fren, but some turn violence when your reject them, that is why we gals are sometime at six and seven as to how to put in word or signal to a guy we rejected nicely, one wrong words or move only, can make them mad and crazy.
As said, there is only one type of man you can trust, a man who had stop breathing
Come on loh, miss Angel,
I dun think a guy will just anyhow come to bug you if you didnt drop any hint whatsoever in the 1st place.
And judging from your previous posts, any guy that takes an interest in you is a potential carrot head. You will 'chop' this guy 1st, and ask questions later isnt it? Regardless whether you like him or not ..
Once you've taken advantage of the fella already, you will just kick him aside right? You're this kind of person arent you? Whichever guy has to 'pay a price' for liking you right?
You are a very smart lady, you definitely can guess if a guy likes you or not one. If you dont like the guy, just stay away and refrain from getting into contact with him lah.
Why give him the idea that he stands a chance, but only to be taken for a merry go round at the end? Why toy around with pple's feelings?
Obviously anybody would be pissed in this situation lah. Who wouldnt want to strangle you for that? I would for sure be one of them loh.
get to know him more, maybe even know his family members, if you have feelings for him maybe you should just give it a shot .. dont fear hurt, it is inevitable to experience pain in life.. go with your feelings. . do not live with regrets.
No worries , i've known of this couple , where the guy is younger than the woman by 10 years , they're still a very sweet couple =D . I agree with Huishan , matters of heart is difficult to tell , don't get influenced by others =) .
Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Come on loh, miss Angel,I dun think a guy will just anyhow come to bug you if you didnt drop any hint whatsoever in the 1st place.
And judging from your previous posts, any guy that takes an interest in you is a potential carrot head. You will 'chop' this guy 1st, and ask questions later isnt it? Regardless whether you like him or not ..
Once you've taken advantage of the fella already, you will just kick him aside right? You're this kind of person arent you? Whichever guy has to 'pay a price' for liking you right?
You are a very smart lady, you definitely can guess if a guy likes you or not one. If you dont like the guy, just stay away and refrain from getting into contact with him lah.
Why give him the idea that he stands a chance, but only to be taken for a merry go round at the end? Why toy around with pple's feelings?
Obviously anybody would be pissed in this situation lah. Who wouldnt want to strangle you for that? I would for sure be one of them loh.
Comon lah ah xiao gu gu,
There is phrase saying nothing is free, that include love, you hv to make sacrifices, money and time for it, and nobody put a gun on guys head to say you must go after this gal or that gal, it all the initiative of the guy, if he do fall for it, no problem, but too bad, most or infact, all guys had their weaknesses, and the most common is sex, even an emperor can lose his dynasty to a woman, not to say a typical layman.
For we gals, our time of beauti sexy and pure is only from 15yo to maybe 28yo, after that, we just go for a free fall into the abyss aging, give birth and become fat fat..so if during this period we do not chop if there is an opportunity, but the time 40yo, the chopper also blunt already. By chopping, does mean we do not like the guy, after a few outing of chopping and togetherness, who knows, maybe we do fall for him. So, it could be worth the guy investment, after all, you dun go after girl without a credit card.
What toy with feeling, there are more guys out there toying with our gals feeling, from obedient club to swinger club to those old uncles karaoke club to angel club. Look at those guys flirting with gals, wonder if they ever think of their gfs or wives at home who are lonely and doing all the chores.
Originally posted by NeiveL:No worries , i've known of this couple , where the guy is younger than the woman by 10 years , they're still a very sweet couple =D . I agree with Huishan , matters of heart is difficult to tell , don't get influenced by others =) .
Not every couple is compatitable, what you see may only on face value, deep inside can be very much different, so, it does not imply that what you had experience or seen can apply to someone. There are all kinds of people out there and certainly with all kind of love relationship.
Let see another for another 20years, I had seen many uncles divorced their old wifes for younger gf.