Husband wants divorce after 5mths
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Many men do walk out that door... to join their friends for karaoke, drinking sessions, mahjong sessions, golf sessions, whatever session..
Leaving behind... their depressed wifeys holding their crying babies.
Red flags abounds.. when you choose to ignore em.. you have to live with em...
The fact is... life is never rosy.. but there are some.. who choose to trample on it.
All men are like this, those coming to my pub are mostly married or attached, but men do need a time of their own, give them the space but not to the extend for them to go hanky panky, there must be a control. If he wants a friday nite chiong with frens that you know, so be it, let them go. As long as they tell you where they are and what time they will be back and when you called, they are reachable, no harm to let men go out and join their buddies to hv some happy hours and men talk.If you insist on your way, which most guys, in a manly manner will not give in. Then you are doing them a place, even corks once a while get together, not say men
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Originally posted by Carb:
I did exactly that..
I don’t join him if he has dinner, drinking, mahjong w his friends. He asked me to join sometimes but i am not interested. I am happy to go out w my own fens or just stay home.
In fact he is the one who complains in the beginning when I went out w my frns.
I just can’t take the noise level of mahjong and I don’t understand why it can’t stop at 1am
Hi Carb,
you cannot understand why they cannot stop at 1.am - is like I cannot understand why you like such a man in the first place - let put it that way - somethings just does not have any clear answer to it !
Frankly you say it they also mahjong at other people house, how often can they do it at your house ? Just put on ear plug and go to zzz !!! Why you care !!! - If neighbour complain - police come let your husband they all settle loh !!!
if not spend some money sound proof the room !!!
Think of it this way - at least you know he is play mahjong in the house and not at geylang !!!
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Geyland eats frog porridge and midnite shopping is not wrong, so even if he is in geyland, it is ok.
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If your hubby insists on divorce, there's nothing you can do....have a heartfelt talk with him yet?
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can go thru a game of poker, put now the divorce conditions one by one, then see who win the game will have the last say, fair and square
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Originally posted by angel7030:
can go thru a game of poker, put now the divorce conditions one by one, then see who win the game will have the last say, fair and square
Yeap....marriage is like a poker game....
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Originally posted by Carb:
Need some light on why man can change that fast.. We just had our wedding 5 mths ago . No quarrel for the past mths. My husband invited his friends to our place for mahjong and I told him to end at 1am.. We had quarrels previously on mahjong, coz he always come back late. So Usually I ask him to be done by 1am.
Today, he behave like he has brain freeze and insisted that he does not know if they will end at 1,2 or 3am. I am very pissed and asked him if he wants me to text them to find out. I went ahead ahead with it since he said I can. But after I sent, he says he will end the relationship and divorce me if I text his friend.
He took his laptop, left the house. Came back agin to take his shoes and his essentials. I confronted if he really wants a divorce. He replied there is no way he can get along with me. He says that I threaten him and that he is pressurized even with playing mahjong. For goodness sake, he is challenging me when he says they may be up till 2,3am.
I was really surprised.. We were still talking about having a baby days ago.. He was even talking abt it to his mum..
I am very disappointed that the word divorce can be mentioned so freely.. This is his 2nd marriage & we been through a lot to be together..
I did not stop him from doing anything, except that he is to watch his time..
I am wondering if he actually not want this marriage all the while..
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See is my deductions correct?
No marriage = No Divorce
Marriage = Divorce = Alimony.
To TS, when are you signing the divorce papers with your husband? 5 months ago when you walk down the asile with your friends envying you, did you expect 5 months later you will be close to signing the divorce papers?
To guys out there, if you die die wanna marry the girl you think you "love" right now. Don't be afraid to sign the pre nup agreement because you cannot guarantee what's going to happen 10 years down the road. See TS one good example, 5 months only. If possible, don't marry just stay together.
I MUST STRESS LOVE DOES NOT EQUAL MARRIAGE
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Yeap....marriage is like a poker game....
Ya, because the wife do not know what the husband has and likewise the husband also do not know what the wife has, then finally show hands, and that is it, game over -
According to buddha dharma, now is the dharma ending era where the initial state will witness some emotional imbalance such as your husband reaction of lady-like. You behave like man-like and confronted him, you should sayang him and asked for some romance. Didn't you promise him to be romanticaya...