Two of my friends fighting over a girl
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I have two friends, A and B, who like the same girl. She is very sweet, pretty and nice. But my two friends suddenly became loggerheads over her. The girl is a nice girl, she decided not to hang around both of them because she doesn't want to cause any disharmony but my two friends now cannot get along.
B is currently in very bad state because his parents recently went thru a divorce. B likes the girl very much but he also want to save his friendship with A. But A is hurt and is not happy with B, A felt betrayed and offended. A does not want to forgive B. B feels very bad because he is now being rejected by the girl and lost his friendship to A, not to mention his family problems.
That day when we bunch of friends went out to the mall to hang out, we can see that both A and B were challenging each other to talk to the girl. This caused a lot of disharmony among us.
What should I do to help A and B?
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Originally posted by InLuv1stTime:
I have two friends, A and B, who like the same girl. She is very sweet, pretty and nice. But my two friends suddenly became loggerheads over her. The girl is a nice girl, she decided not to hang around both of them because she doesn't want to cause any disharmony but my two friends now cannot get along.
B is currently in very bad state because his parents recently went thru a divorce. B likes the girl very much but he also want to save his friendship with A. But A is hurt and is not happy with B, A felt betrayed and offended. A does not want to forgive B. B feels very bad because he is now being rejected by the girl and lost his friendship to A, not to mention his family problems.
That day when we bunch of friends went out to the mall to hang out, we can see that both A and B were challenging each other to talk to the girl. This caused a lot of disharmony among us.
What should I do to help A and B?
Ask the girl to declare she wants to be with neither, and ask the 2 guys to patch up since neither gets the girl.
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Originally posted by InLuv1stTime:
I have two friends, A and B, who like the same girl. She is very sweet, pretty and nice. But my two friends suddenly became loggerheads over her. The girl is a nice girl, she decided not to hang around both of them because she doesn't want to cause any disharmony but my two friends now cannot get along.
B is currently in very bad state because his parents recently went thru a divorce. B likes the girl very much but he also want to save his friendship with A. But A is hurt and is not happy with B, A felt betrayed and offended. A does not want to forgive B. B feels very bad because he is now being rejected by the girl and lost his friendship to A, not to mention his family problems.
That day when we bunch of friends went out to the mall to hang out, we can see that both A and B were challenging each other to talk to the girl. This caused a lot of disharmony among us.
What should I do to help A and B?
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Originally posted by InLuv1stTime:
I have two friends, A and B, who like the same girl. She is very sweet, pretty and nice. But my two friends suddenly became loggerheads over her. The girl is a nice girl, she decided not to hang around both of them because she doesn't want to cause any disharmony but my two friends now cannot get along.
B is currently in very bad state because his parents recently went thru a divorce. B likes the girl very much but he also want to save his friendship with A. But A is hurt and is not happy with B, A felt betrayed and offended. A does not want to forgive B. B feels very bad because he is now being rejected by the girl and lost his friendship to A, not to mention his family problems.
That day when we bunch of friends went out to the mall to hang out, we can see that both A and B were challenging each other to talk to the girl. This caused a lot of disharmony among us.
What should I do to help A and B?
You are not involved?
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HE INVOLVED BECOME A, B AND C
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u shd not chup ur leg into their affairs.
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Just help B get over this period of his life lor.
Whats between A and B, let them sort it out by themselves. Thise two sillies should hug each other and laugh out loud.
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THE GAL HAPPY 2 MEN FIGHT BECOS OF ME
I SO HAPPY CAN SEE FREE LIVE SHOW
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I guess you should stay neutral over BGR issues.
Let the gal decide who to accept.
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u shld 3 finger the gal lols
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Must depend who the girl likes. She dont like both oso no use.
But it would be good for you instead to look at options how to prevent them from losing their long-term friendship. -
A and B should mutually exclude themselves from each other's circle. Friends like them if gone.....no big deal.
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No matter how they fight, the one to decide is still that girl
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This girl must be really desirable.
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A and B are both my best friends. Now they both don't get along make me feel very sad. :( Now I have no buddy friends to hang out with.
To answer some of your questions, I am not involve with the girl because I am in love with Nicole Seah.
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Originally posted by InLuv1stTime:
To answer some of your questions, I am not involve with the girl because I am in love with Nicole Seah.
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You cannot change what has happen.
A and B needs time to cool off first.
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Typical story....A & B will have to be matured enough to handle 三角 relationship....or else they shall become enemy....there's nothing you can do to help....its all up to them....
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From my teenage years of experiences, these type of cases will end up all never get the gal, I was chased from A to Z, but never get one of them, only chop them until blur blur
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Originally posted by angel7030:
From my teenage years of experiences, these type of cases will end up all never get the gal, I was chased from A to Z, but never get one of them, only chop them until blur blur
u very hao lian
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Act only lah, aunty, dun take me too serious, if you are smart enuf, my comments is just to change TS way of thinking and that 2 to 3 boys going after one gal is common.
Actually, if I really wan to be hao lian, i can say hor, even Milo also want me, where in this world got milo go after gal
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Yah lor sometimes got a few guys after the same gal....what then? Some friendly competition is good...the gal has more choice !
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But then, i do not wish many guys going after me, I will intro them to my other gal frens who are shy, lonely and waiting for a bf. Like this, love will be evenly spread and not concentrate on one gal alone, end up, that gal take someone and the rest of the guy go into depression, no good for us. So, i tend to give guy more choices, including foreign gals are available for them to pick and choose.
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Always good business huh?