GF Pregnant. Needs Some Advise Here.
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I would keep her if she is willing to forgo the luxuries for the love of her child.
I would dump her if she is willing to kill her own baby for the love of money.
The true worth of a woman is in her own morals.
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Originally posted by goodheart:
She is already stupid to be involved with a guy like you.I am sure she won't be stupid enough to give you all her insurance money if she dies
If she dies, she won't give me the insurance money?
By the way, I seen that coming 4 years ago before investing my money to buy life insurance for her. Her life insurance is in my name because I'm paying it for her on a regular basis. She on the other hand has no right or whatsoever to change the beneficiary and that would be only me because all contracts has been done in black and white at the laywer's office.
By the way, I love money too much so before there is a leak, a stopper is already in place.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
If she dies, she won't give me the insurance money?
By the way, I seen that coming 4 years ago before investing my money to buy life insurance for her. Her life insurance is in my name because I'm paying it for her on a regular basis. She on the other hand has no right or whatsoever to change the beneficiary and that would be only me because all contracts has been done in black and white at the laywer's office.
By the way, I love money too much so before there is a leak, a stopper is already in place.
well done.When she dies suddenly 1 day, I won't be suprised that you hire someone to kill her and than pretent its an accident to claim the insurance money
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
I would keep her if she is willing to forgo the luxuries for the love of her child.
I would dump her if she is willing to kill her own baby for the love of money.
The true worth of a woman is in her own morals.
He only wants money, don't want wife and kids.
1 day when he is about to die he will realise there is nobody he could give all his money to and his entire life of hardwork all the money that he earn will be given to a outsider.
Now thats pathetic
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Originally posted by goodheart:
He only wants money, don't want wife and kids.
1 day when he is about to die he will realise there is nobody he could give all his money to and his entire life of hardwork all the money that he earn will be given to a outsider.
Now thats pathetic
Yes I know.. I have friends like him.
They live a fast life.. and die a lonely death.
A friend of mine died of cancer.. but his own child won't even go see him at his death bed.
After he die.. his own children donated all his inheritance to charity.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Yes I know.. I have friends like him.
They live a fast life.. and die a lonely death.
A friend of mine died of cancer.. but his own child won't even go see him at his death bed.
After he die.. his own children donated all his inheritance to charity.
At least your friend still support his child not like TS wants to abort and kill his child
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Originally posted by goodheart:
well done.When she dies suddenly 1 day, I won't be suprised that you hire someone to kill her and than pretent its an accident to claim the insurance money
I'll not hire someone to kill her because I still need her companionship and I love being with her but I won't be surprise if the baby sees the light, I'll get someone to suffocate the baby to death.
Call me a devil. I don't mind because that is my real inner self. My main concern here right now is how to get rid of the baby and stay status quo. I'm sitting in my room expressing my inner self online which I've been trying very hard to conceal and I'm afraid that she might know the real me.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
I'll not hire someone to kill her because I still need her companionship and I love being with her but I won't be surprise if the baby sees the light, I'll get someone to suffocate the baby to death.
Call me a devil. I don't mind because that is my real inner self. My main concern here right now is how to get rid of the baby and stay status quo. I'm sitting in my room expressing my inner self online which I've been trying very hard to conceal and I'm afraid that she might know the real me.
I am sure she already know the real you.You must be hoping that she will die of a miscarriage and than you get her insurance money and that your parents will also die so they will stop being your liability
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Originally posted by goodheart:
I am sure she already know the real you.You must be hoping that she will die of a miscarriage and than you get her insurance money and that your parents will also die so they will stop being your liability
You will be surprise that I do not find my parents a liability at all because they loved me, raised me, put me to school and took care of me which I in turn take care of them with no complaints. Without them, there won't be me. I truly love them and hold utmost respect for both my parents.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
You will be surprise that I do not find my parents a liability at all because they loved me, raised me, put me to school and took care of me which I in turn take care of them with no complaints. Without them, there won't be me. I truly love them and hold utmost respect for both my parents.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
You will be surprise that I do not find my parents a liability at all because they loved me, raised me, put me to school and took care of me which I in turn take care of them with no complaints. Without them, there won't be me. I truly love them and hold utmost respect for both my parents.
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Originally posted by goodheart:
At least your friend still support his child not like TS wants to abort and kill his child
Too bad.. insurance don't cover a dead embryo.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
You will be surprise that I do not find my parents a liability at all because they loved me, raised me, put me to school and took care of me which I in turn take care of them with no complaints. Without them, there won't be me. I truly love them and hold utmost respect for both my parents.
Yes ofcors.. you are their liability.. and they loved you enough to not think of you as one.
Unfotunately.. their love for you only taught you how to love only yourself.
Unfortunately.. they never teach you to be able to love another.. just like they are able to love another being.
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Originally posted by goodheart:
A person who does not mind killing an innocent baby does not know whats true loveThanks for sharing but True love between me and another women does not exists.
If you take the time to read stats regarding divorce, you will find that the lack of money is always the cause so tell me without money, can "True Love" substain? The answer is pretty obvious.
I did hope that she will kinda fall down and a natural miscarriage occurs and at least I can show some crocodile tears that we have just lost our baby and everything goes back status quo but what are the chances this gonna happen?? Very low I think not unless I did that intentionally but it will definately reveal my true inner self.... I even think of ways like mixing a high level of Vitamin C into her meals but I'm not sure if that will guarantee a miscarriage.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
Thanks for sharing but True love between me and another women does not exists.
If you take the time to read stats regarding divorce, you will find that the lack of money is always the cause so tell me without money, can "True Love" substain? The answer is pretty obvious.
I did hope that she will kinda fall down and a natural miscarriage occurs and at least I can show some crocodile tears that we have just lost our baby and everything goes back status quo but what are the chances this gonna happen?? Very low I think not unless I did that intentionally but it will definately reveal my true inner self.... I even think of ways like mixing a high level of Vitamin C into her meals but I'm not sure if that will guarantee a miscarriage.
Just walk away .. don't have to stain your hands with blood.
You didn't marry her.. she didn't force you to give her money.
Live and let live.
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You can't love her.. because you think she is with you for the materialistic pursuit.
You want to live a flashy life.. then all you will attract are gold diggers. True love does not exist in the realm you are right now.
Try seeking a mate without the use of your flashy tools..
Take public transport.. eat the street side stalls... live a humble life.. and you will find someone who is down to earth. Someone worthy of your love.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Just walk away .. don't have to stain your hands with blood.
You didn't marry her.. she didn't force you to give her money.
Live and let live.
Don't you get it until this point? If she outlives her usefulness, she will already find herself out of my door with her luggage all packed.
Right now she is still one of my assets that makes money in my company. Without that money making ability, you think she is able to stay by my side for 6 years? If she leave now, her department will be without a leader and everyone in the office will know what kind of person I really am and everyone will lose morale and in turn lose revenues.
In front of all my staff and her, I hold her hands and take care of her very well... all because of her big mouth, everyone in the office f.ucking knows that she is pregnant with my baby and everyone was looking at her that she got the best BF in the world. They were like congratulating me but I don't see any blessings at all. I want the baby dead.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
Don't you get it until this point? If she outlives her usefulness, she will already find herself out of my door with her luggage all packed.
Right now she is still one of my assets that makes money in my company. Without that money making ability, you think she is able to stay by my side for 6 years? If she leave now, her department will be without a leader and everyone in the office will know what kind of person I really am and everyone will lose morale and in turn lose revenues.
In front of all my staff and her, I hold her hands and take care of her very well... all because of her big mouth, everyone in the office f.ucking knows that she is pregnant with my baby and everyone was looking at her that she got the best BF in the world. They were like congratulating me but I don't see any blessings at all. I want the baby dead.
Your case similar to the other thread.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Try seeking a mate without the use of your flashy tools..
Take public transport.. eat the street side stalls... live a humble life.. and you will find someone who is down to earth. Someone worthy of your love.
That's what I did. I first came to Taiwan with only S$8000 in my haversack and that's when I met her.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
Don't you get it until this point? If she outlives her usefulness, she will already find herself out of my door with her luggage all packed.
Right now she is still one of my assets that makes money in my company. Without that money making ability, you think she is able to stay by my side for 6 years? If she leave now, her department will be without a leader and everyone in the office will know what kind of person I really am and everyone will lose morale and in turn lose revenues.
In front of all my staff and her, I hold her hands and take care of her very well... all because of her big mouth, everyone in the office f.ucking knows that she is pregnant with my baby and everyone was looking at her that she got the best BF in the world. They were like congratulating me but I don't see any blessings at all. I want the baby dead.
well, you can simply spin a lie saying that she have an affair outside and you found that the baby is not yours so you decided to sack her.
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
Your case similar to the other thread.
I don't think it's the same. It says HUSBAND WANTS DIVORCE AFTER 5 MONTHS.
What's the point of getting married and then divorce?
Am I right to say Marriage = Divorce?
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Originally posted by goodheart:
well, you can simply spin a lie saying that she have an affair outside and you found that the baby is not yours so you decided to sack her.
Sack her with a lie that she's has an affair outside? That would be almost impossible. Wherever I go, she tags along like a leech 24/7.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
Am I right to say Marriage = Divorce?
I think it's wrong.
Majority of Singapore marriages don't end up in divorce.
Divorce Rates In Singapore
Divorce rate in Singapore is about 10%, means 1 out of 10 marriages end up in divorce.
Comparing the divorce rate in singapore with other countries we see that the divorce rate in singapore is quite less than some other developed countries:
Divorce rate per 1,000 population:
Thailand: 0.58
China: 0.79
Singapore: 0.8
Korea: 0.88
Finland: 1.85
Canada: 2.46
Australia: 2.52
New Zealand: 2.63
Denmark: 2.81
United Kingdom: 3.08
Russia: 3.36
Puerto Rico: 4.47
US: 4.95So divorce rates in thailand is about 16.16% of the divorce rates in USA.
Divorce rates in Singapore are quite low.
Interethnic marriages in singapore are somewhat more likely to end in divorce than were marriages within an ethnic group. During the 1980s the divorce rate for Malays fell, while it rose for the other ethnic groups. In 1987 there were 23,404 marriages in Singapore, and 2,708 divorces, or 115 divorces for every 1,000 marriages.
The figures included 4,465 marriages under the Muslim Law Act, which regulated the marriage, divorce, and inheritance of Muslims, and 796 divorces under the same act, for a Muslim divorce rate of 178 divorces for every 1,000 marriages. Marriages under the Women's Charter totaled 18,939, and divorces under that law were 1,912, for a non-Muslimdivorce rate of 100 per 1,000 marriages.
The differential rates of divorce for ethnic groups may have suggested greater differences than were in fact the case. Situations that for Malay families resulted in prompt, legal divorce were sometimes tolerated or handled informally by Chinese or Indian families for whom the social stigma of divorce was greater and the barriers to legal separation higher.
For all ethnic groups, the most common source of marital breakdown was the inability or unwillingness of the husband to contribute to maintaining the household. This sometimes led to desertion, which was the most common ground for divorce.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
Don't you get it until this point? If she outlives her usefulness, she will already find herself out of my door with her luggage all packed.
Right now she is still one of my assets that makes money in my company. Without that money making ability, you think she is able to stay by my side for 6 years? If she leave now, her department will be without a leader and everyone in the office will know what kind of person I really am and everyone will lose morale and in turn lose revenues.
In front of all my staff and her, I hold her hands and take care of her very well... all because of her big mouth, everyone in the office f.ucking knows that she is pregnant with my baby and everyone was looking at her that she got the best BF in the world. They were like congratulating me but I don't see any blessings at all. I want the baby dead.
OK. So all these are water under the bridge.
Your staff already knows.
Dead baby is not damage control.
Damage control is accepting responsibility.. and make her work hardER to take care of her baby.
Your baby IS an asset... people LIKES to work for a person with family to take care of.
Your baby ADDs to your image as a FATHER.. a FAMILY MAN.
The image of a family man is reliable,.. because he has responsibilites.
You want respect ? You will get it when you show everyone what a GREAT father you are to the child.
If the baby dies and she leaves you... You'd just come across as a heartless SCROUGE.
Where'd your EQ go ?