GF Pregnant. Needs Some Advise Here.
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IT IS A SIN TO LET YOUR GF HAVE ABORTION
YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW
GOD IS WATCHING WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO
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Singapore: You ask me, I ask who?
Taiwan: You ask me, I ask heaven.
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I hear sometimes the dead baby follows the parents as a spectre.
Don't worry, you have more than 5 years to repent, it's a lifetime of repentance.
Karma
While it's pretty obvious why abortion is considered to generate bad karma for the mother and the abortionist it may not be so obvious why it generates bad karma for the foetus.
The foetus suffers bad karma because its soul is deprived of the opportunities that an earthly existence would have given it to earn good karma, and is returned immediately to the cycle of birth, death and rebirth. Thus abortion hinders its spiritual progress.
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YOU ARE TERRIBLE AND HORRIBLE MAN
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A lady and her husband due to unexplained situation aborted her baby at one time in their life. Perhaps it was due to financial reasons but the reason was never revealed. After a few years later, they decided to try for a baby but with no avail. Chinese believed that abortion needed to be done in a careful manner with prayers to ease the infant spirit especially if the fetus has already formed its shape. However, the lady and her husband failed to perform any prayers for their unborn child at that time as they did not know that rituals needed to be done.
On one afternoon while the lady waited for her friends for tea at a local restaurant, she could suddenly feel something brushing against her leg. As she was wearing skirt at that time, she thought that the wind must be blowing but after second thoughts, she looked under the table to see if there was anything. She saw nothing. Again, she suddenly felt the brush and peered under the table. Nothing was underneath and when she felt the brush for the third time, she suddenly thought of her unborn child. Could that brush be her unborn child? She thought to herself “Child, if you are really my child then brush my leg again” and as she finished thinking, she felt a brush on her leg. Excitedly, she thought to herself again “Child, if you are really my unborn child, reveal yourself” and she unveiled the table cloth to see a very cute little girl peering up at her with her black brown eyes clinging on to her feet.
Soon, she brought back her unborn child to her house where she pampered her ghost daughter with toys she bought from stores. As days passed by, her husband realized her oddity and thought that the stress of wanting to be pregnant has gotten into her. It did not occur to him at all that his wife was playing with their ghost daughter and refused to believe in ghost until he met the young Buddhist monk at a local temple. At this point, the young Buddhist monk immediately felt that something was wrong with his family and asked to be brought to their house.The young Buddhist monk immediately felt a presence and could see the ghost daughter hiding behind her mother with the young Buddhist monk explained to the couple the importance of going to the temple. Yet again, the husband did not believed the young Buddhist monk. Not until one night he woke to find his wife missing. When he found her in the bathroom, he saw that she was laughing and playing in the bathtub with someone invisible. The next day, he contacted the young Buddhist monk to seek for help. The young Buddhist monk immediately arrived at their house and both of them managed to convince the lady and her ghost daughter to visit the temple.
On the way there, the young Buddhist monk could see that the lady was piggy-back riding her ghost daughter and asked the lady if she always felt backache. The lady replied yes. The young Buddhist monk thought to herself, “Little Child, why are making your mother to piggy back you?” At that point of time, the little child turned her head 180 degrees to look at the young Buddhist monk and told her that it was none of her business. The young Buddhist monk immediately apologized and the little child turn her head back front.
As soon as the lady stepped into the temple, she realized that her daughter was missing and as the chief Buddhist explained to the couple the situation she heard her daughter crying telling the lady that they meant to harm her. The lady panicked and screamed to everyone that she was not about to let anyone harm her daughter again and ran away from the temple.
After this incident, the young Buddhist monk never saw the couple again although she heard that the lady has already gone crazy.
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BE DON'T BE A SELFISH BANANA
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Originally posted by Disman:
are you a man
u are a disgrace to men
u bang her get all the fun
yet u want her to bear the pain all by herself
u called yourself a man
your gf eyes paste stamp to know u
be a man be reponsible
since u had shotgun her
I seriously do not assume myself as a disgrace among the male species for which I provided excellent accomodation, food, good job for her, car to drive, etc... which made all her friends envy her. Now she is trading all these with a baby.
I'm a very fair person so I shall let her choose between the two options. If abortion, all things stay status quo whereas if she chooses latter, she will lose whatever she has in a blink of an eye and will definately face problems rasing a kid in Taiwan which living standard is higher than Singapore.
I've made myself very clear to her that I want the companionship and NOT MARRIED like a family with wife and kids. Well most of her friends have babies and she is very eager to have one. It could be the main reason that triggered her heat of the moment action which have in turn put me in dilemma. Totally unnecessary and waste of time.
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All women have maternal instinct at a certain age.
Do what you think is right, you have to bear the consequences come what may.
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Falsemove123,
GET A VASECTOMY.
Got guts to kill a baby.. no guts to get a small outpatient procedure done ?
Vasectomy will solve all your future worries.
She want baby she can keep her baby..you should not force her to kill her own child....
All you have to do is pay the money... you don't want to pay , don't worry... the baby can still survive..all they need is breast milk and a lot of love...
Diapers, and other baby stuff.. the mother can go to thrift stores or get second hand items....
Yes your own child will live like a pauper.. so let it be.
The joy and unconditional love from a child is priceless...
Men like you will never be able to pleasure from parenthood.. no matter how much money you have. So in this aspect.. I pity you.
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
All my friends who made their girlfriends pregnant, all went for shotgun marriage.
You are the first case I come across that suggested abortion. It is common in Taiwan?
I don't see my case as a rare one and to the best of my knowledge, it's not too common here in Taiwan for women to go for abortion as what others mentioned.
Even if it is in Singapore, without monetary gains, I'll most definately opt for abortion in a heartbeat not unless I'll stand to gain. I do not deny the fact that all I care about is nothing but money and I'm definately not ashame to admit the fact that my true love is money.
Since my true love is money, how can I marry another women who will most definately take my true love away???
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Haiz........
Superficial people.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
I don't see my case as a rare one and to the best of my knowledge, it's not too common here in Taiwan for women to go for abortion as what others mentioned.
Even if it is in Singapore, without monetary gains, I'll most definately opt for abortion in a heartbeat not unless I'll stand to gain. I do not deny the fact that all I care about is nothing but money and I'm definately not ashame to admit the fact that my true love is money.
Since my true love is money, how can I marry another women who will most definately take my true love away???
You contradict yourself.
If true love is money. Then you should have remained single and unattached to any woman.
If true love is money.. you should not be buying her car, accomodation and other luxuries.. just to KEEP her.
When you buy her the luxuries.. you are giving away your true love money.
No money is not your true love... your true love is YOURSELF.
Indeed.. the baby has no place in your heart.. let alone your bank transaction.
But the baby will be the true love of the mother. You can deprive yourself of loving a child... but you have no right to deprive another person love of a child.
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Originally posted by βÎτά:
For killing an unborn baby, you will have bad karma all your life.
For killing an unborn baby even borned baby, I will not have any remorse. Do I have the heart to kill it? Yes I have.
I have to make myself very clear. Baby is a liability to me. If this baby is an asset that generates money, to me that is a total different thing. I see things only in terms of investments and returns. In babies, I'm not able to see any return on investment.
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
For killing an unborn baby even borned baby, I will not have any remorse. Do I have the heart to kill it? YesI will.
I have to make myself very clear. Baby is a liability to me. If this baby is an asset that generates money, to me that is a total different thing. I see things only in terms of investments and returns. In babies, I'm not able to see any return on investment.
Your penis is also a liability to you.. the unexpected pregnancies.. the Sexually Transmitted Diseases....
Why you don't chop your penis off ?
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Maybe she can put her child up for adoption and than stay status quote
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
For killing an unborn baby even borned baby, I will not have any remorse. Do I have the heart to kill it? Yes I have.
Your parents approve or disapprove?
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Originally posted by Falsemove123:
For killing an unborn baby even borned baby, I will not have any remorse. Do I have the heart to kill it? YesI will.
I have to make myself very clear. Baby is a liability to me. If this baby is an asset that generates money, to me that is a total different thing. I see things only in terms of investments and returns. In babies, I'm not able to see any return on investment.
Your parents are also a liability to you, I trust you have severed all relationship to them, unless of course your parents are multi-millionaires, then it's another story because you have money to gain from it.
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Man does not live by bread alone (in your case money).
Money is not omnipotent.
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Hold on I'm here in Aunt Agony expressing my true inner self and my situation only. This is me and I can deny the fact that the only thing I care about is money. If she suddenly die and insurance company pays me few million dollars, I may feel a little sad because I'm used to having her around making me breakfast, etc... but after seeing the money, I'll not feel sad anymore. I know I can find a new replacement.
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Originally posted by βÎτά:
Your parents are also a liability to you, I trust you have severed all relationship to them, unless of course your parents are multi-millionaires, then it's another story because you have money to gain from it.
Haha. Well said. He must be cursing his parents wishing they will die an early death so that they will not use his money. -
Originally posted by Falsemove123:
Hold on I'm here in Aunt Agony expressing my true inner self and my situation only. This is me and I can deny the fact that the only thing I care about is money. If she suddenly die and insurance company pays me few million dollars, I may feel a little sad because I'm used to having her around making me breakfast, etc... but after seeing the money, I'll not feel sad anymore. I know I can find a new replacement.
She is already stupid to be involved with a guy like you.I am sure she won't be stupid enough to give you all her insurance money if she dies
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
Your parents approve or disapprove?
I don't see the need to raise any alarm.
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Well, if you've been faithful and been treating her as best as you possibly can why are you afraid of a divorce if you guys do eventually get married? Obviously all relationships head in one direction, and that's marriage.
Also, what for, all this faithfulness and loyalty for 5 years? If it's not going to develop into a marriage in the future. Now you knock her up you want to capitalise. If you're hellbent on the idea that she got herself knocked up just because of your assets, then be an asshole, and break up with her like any other irresponsible man. Not try to earn some cash out of this, or cause possible permanent harm and ruin someone else's life. (IE. inducing miscarriage)
Let HER keep the baby, and YOU can leave.
Please add 'no relationship' in that mentality of yours and stop wasting her time. Nothing else to say, good luck with this issue.
No relationship = No marriage = No divorce. Win win for you, since you're just looking for sex. I don't buy your companionship excuse.
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
Your parents approve or disapprove?
He probably doesn't even approve of his parents being alive because they are a liability who uses his money