Originally posted by Reavengeance:Hello BleezeB,
I sympathize with your plight, and I understand that these unrequited feelings can be very excruciating for you. Given the nature of the many years you have held this candle for her, and how you have confessed before and with her knowing that, and you still managing to be friends, is indeed a admirable feat of both perseverance and devotion!
If you're open to my humble opinions or suggestions, here's what i kindly suggest! ;)
1) Given the many years you know her, how well do you know her? how much does she confide in you? Knowing her beyond a general friendship level would allow you good insights as to the chances you may stand/may not stand for this situation.
2) Are you aware of any person she takes interest in? Any crush/candle that she holds up for a particular person? It would be good to know what you are up against (in a manner of speaking) and in doing so know what characteristics and qualities she looks for in a partner.
3) As yet, given the nature of this predicament, i would recommend against making any hasty moves yet, without fully knowing where you stand, because taking the dive and asking at this stage without prior-preparation emotionally or cautious weighing of the odds, you may be crushed and hurt by the answer she may give.
I suggest first weighing out the options and knowing what you're gonna get into, before acting on it, be it taking the dive and asking, or slowly working your way and earning her love and trust.
4) Talk to your friends and people close to you that you trust, you will realize how important family, friends and loved ones can be by providing you the support, listening ear, wise council and comfort for times like these.
All in all, do weigh your options and find out as much as you can before deciding a path to take on. There is no right or wrong way /method of winning over the one you love, though in every case it is dependent on what the characteristic of the person is, so do consider carefully!
I do sincerely wish you all the best in this endeavor, and i take off my hat to you for your dedication and loyalty to this someone you love. She must be a real kindred spirit for you to gravitate to her for so long, and she sure is one blessed person to have someone hold onto her for 7 years! So good luck mate!
Regards
Raziel
yeah thx ! to me she is the best
Originally posted by DRC:just curious
Why did she reject you in the first place?
cause i am not her type..
heard from her friend that i am not her type that why kena rejected...she did'nt even give me a reason..after i confess that time..she keep give me good words like dun want to hurt me ....
anyone got any other ideas to help? :(
frankly, it is meant to be, it has already be.