shd i confess to her again?
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THX for help
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Originally posted by BleezeB:
There is this girl that i really like. I got to know her during secondary 1. I start wooing her at secondary 2. At secondary 3 i officially confess to her however i got rejected with good man card. We remain in contact.
After that we got into different polytechnic. During poly life we still meet up but is also with other friends quite often. Now we finish our poly study. Recently i got real close with her again due to the long break she had before UNI and for me is NS.
We used to don't talk to each other when we are with others as they will teased us. We don't even sit next to each other. However recently all these are gone. We can sit next to each other and talk to each other. Although other friend still tease at us but we don't really care now.
All these years i still have the same feeling for her. It been 7 years but i am not sure what to do. I wanted to confess to her again but i am afraid of losing her as a friend permanently.
She is single with no guys wooing her.
If need more info. Just tell me what info i will tell you all everything you all need.
if ppl start asking for the names and the bio data and the schools both of u went to.. are u really gonna say it here openly??? lol...
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eh that one of course not .. name and schl for wad siol -.-
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Wel. You can try to fish for some hints if she likes you or not. If the hints says yes then confess to her again. Go for it
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well can start dating and see how it goes. also to consider how to maintain the relationship esp if u are in NS and she is in uni
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Life is not like the movies.
Boy meet girl, boy likes girl, confess, happy together.
Not like that.
First establish a relationship. Start dating, doing things together, going places together, spending time together. Start travelling together.
Travelling together is good test for a relationship. You will be able to see how the two of you work with each other for a common goal.
Attraction, bonding, does not mean the relationship will be a lasting happy partnership.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Wel. You can try to fish for some hints if she likes you or not. If the hints says yes then confess to her again. Go for it
how do i fish for hint?
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Originally posted by Boyboyb:
well can start dating and see how it goes. also to consider how to maintain the relationship esp if u are in NS and she is in uni
how do i start dating her?
starting with a normal lunch can? then slowly progress
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Good luck!
I'll give you a week's worth of my good luck if I could.
*pat on back*
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Originally posted by BleezeB:
how do i fish for hint?
Just ask some indirect questions.. Like how you feel about me. But i guess chances are slim. So long already, i guess the girl treats u like her good friend. But you can try
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it take a lot of courage to confess
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just say: "i have been very sincere since i met you, and before i leave, just wish you the very best ...with the one who may not be better than me..."
leave without turning your head back - for good.
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no money no honey
life still goes on
the best thing tried to improve on your social status
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just curious
Why did she reject you in the first place?
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no money
no sweet talk - humourous
no style/handsome
blah blah
not her perfect lover
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIkXQ87ERoM&feature=related
maybe u r not 愛情的騙å�
most gals loved honey words/sweet talks
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ts go and listen to the songs
might help you
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ts might be your love one loved to go party
没关系/å¼ å®‡
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one can confess during beach parties without druggy hallucinations
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Hello BleezeB,
I sympathize with your plight, and I understand that these unrequited feelings can be very excruciating for you. Given the nature of the many years you have held this candle for her, and how you have confessed before and with her knowing that, and you still managing to be friends, is indeed a admirable feat of both perseverance and devotion!
If you're open to my humble opinions or suggestions, here's what i kindly suggest! ;)
1) Given the many years you know her, how well do you know her? how much does she confide in you? Knowing her beyond a general friendship level would allow you good insights as to the chances you may stand/may not stand for this situation.
2) Are you aware of any person she takes interest in? Any crush/candle that she holds up for a particular person? It would be good to know what you are up against (in a manner of speaking) and in doing so know what characteristics and qualities she looks for in a partner.
3) As yet, given the nature of this predicament, i would recommend against making any hasty moves yet, without fully knowing where you stand, because taking the dive and asking at this stage without prior-preparation emotionally or cautious weighing of the odds, you may be crushed and hurt by the answer she may give.
I suggest first weighing out the options and knowing what you're gonna get into, before acting on it, be it taking the dive and asking, or slowly working your way and earning her love and trust.
4) Talk to your friends and people close to you that you trust, you will realize how important family, friends and loved ones can be by providing you the support, listening ear, wise council and comfort for times like these.
All in all, do weigh your options and find out as much as you can before deciding a path to take on. There is no right or wrong way /method of winning over the one you love, though in every case it is dependent on what the characteristic of the person is, so do consider carefully!
I do sincerely wish you all the best in this endeavor, and i take off my hat to you for your dedication and loyalty to this someone you love. She must be a real kindred spirit for you to gravitate to her for so long, and she sure is one blessed person to have someone hold onto her for 7 years! So good luck mate!
Regards
Raziel
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ts
this is my story
6 yrs ago - jasmine a pure and beautiful malaysia pr confess to me a fat, white and useless spore man - a few times
now dark and thin africa man
becos i tulan (scared) of divorce and due to some family and financal problems
i ask blur and tactfully reject without hurting her pride
now i pray she married to a good husband and lived blissfully with her husband and ask god to pray for her
becos i felt guilty towards her.
this is my type of LOVE.
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i dare to write becos i speak the truth
now i 72. something
gain 1. something
1.805 m
ts think what sort happiness and future can u provide for her
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whom don't liked to be love
but love cannot be forced
must 2 willling party
love is blind
there is no right or wrong
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Originally posted by BleezeB:
There is this girl that i really like. I got to know her during secondary 1. I start wooing her at secondary 2. At secondary 3 i officially confess to her however i got rejected with good man card. We remain in contact.
After that we got into different polytechnic. During poly life we still meet up but is also with other friends quite often. Now we finish our poly study. Recently i got real close with her again due to the long break she had before UNI and for me is NS.
We used to don't talk to each other when we are with others as they will teased us. We don't even sit next to each other. However recently all these are gone. We can sit next to each other and talk to each other. Although other friend still tease at us but we don't really care now.
All these years i still have the same feeling for her. It been 7 years but i am not sure what to do. I wanted to confess to her again but i am afraid of losing her as a friend permanently.
She is single with no guys wooing her. Both of us never go into a relationship before. We are both single till now. Never had first love before.
If need more info. Just tell me what info i will tell if can :)
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