stepmom issue..
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It's like this. I'm 28. She's 38 and a foreigner (Taiwanese). She looks a hell lot younger for her age... probably because she drinks birds nest since she was 18 on a daily basis (this she told me). Anyway, she's my stepmom and she's only with my dad due to $$$. .. i know it... cos she a bit 'gong' type. My dad puts her at home to help out with the chores and what not together with the maid.
I'm not sure if the problem here is with me... but seriously, i just feel that it's prettty awkward to see your stepmom walking around the house wearing not so appropriate outfits.. as in sometimes she wears skimpy clad outfits, transparent clothings whereby you can see her bra lining, g-string outline, etc. I admit, she's pretty fair, tall, really fit, solid hourglass body and really good looking for her age. She has those drop dead sexy MILF looking appearance and i just somehow feel that sometimes due to my dad's absence (he flies abroad often since he's a pilot), she talks a lot with me when i'm home or at night when i'm watching TV on the sofa. She's been getting pretty close with me... close in the sense that she sits really close with me, puts her arms around my shoulders (body damn close some more to my chest) and more recently, asking me to give her a back massage (which i laughed it off). I normally manage to avoid those situations by giving excuses like 'going to kitchen to get a drink', or going to toilet or making up excuses to go to my room. This has been going on for the past 3 months... and i cannot be telling my dad about this.. it just feels so awkward, plus he'll probably say, "she's just trying to bond with you, so give chance lar". Chance lan la.. i'm thinking.. it's just so wrong.
One part of me tells me this is so sick, another part of me is telling me, she's a real hot lady, might as well b**g her and pretend nothing happened. I would be lying if i didn't admit that recently i've been fantasizing a lot about her in her sexy outfit. If this shit continues, i think it's best if i move out of the house.
Everytime when she's close i get an erection and I KNOW FOR A FACT she can see that. And i try to 'diffuse' the situation by saying something disgusting like, "i'm going to fart now so excuse me" or like "my armpit stinks can smell?" or i practically dig my nose to make me look disgusting, etc etc.. but sadly it doesn't work.
Worst thing happened last night.. it was about 2am.. i fell asleep on the sofa with the TV on.. i wasn't in deep sleep but alert enough to know someone was around me. I could see that she came out and sat down quietly on the sofa in some sexy nightie without any undergarments i can assure you of that (can see her cleavage), and woke me up to go to my room to sleep. I then pretended to 'wake up' from sleep, and then i realise her hands were on my hips .. it was the most awkward moment in my entire life.. then dumbfounded.. 10 seconds later, i just pushed her hands away and hurried to my room saying 'goodnight'.
Really what should i do? Seriously.. serious replies only.. pls don't reply things like 'might as well threesome' blah blah blah.. etc.. I'm in a dilemma here. Help me out. And no, i will not have an affair in this kind of situation or some 1 night thingy. I just feel that the only way out of this is to make an excuse to move out of the house... which is really the last resort. Even my maid can see this shit happening and is giving me the 10 cents face look. Help?
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3 words
tell your dad.
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geng ni de papa jiang
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what are you waiting for?
she needs sex.
Give her a good fuck.
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all the best!
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i will give you .....
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as my chinese friends would say each time nearing the exams......
jiayou!~ -
Her sexy nightie is not because of you, it is just her way.
So don't.
She is not hinting anything.
So don't.
But if she gives you a clear come on.
Also don't.
Because there is no way you can keep it a secret if you bonk her.
No way you can bonk her only once, and never do it again.
Then there is the maid. How do you keep her quiet.
So don't.
You're only human, so whatever happens, is not unusual. Just bear with the consequences.
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Well....
I do not know what to say....
Here is my analysis :
1. She dresses sexily....is not to seduce you or anything like that....it is just casual home wear........same like how some boys / men sometimes are shirtless at home.......
2. She talks to you and watch TV together with you....is not to seduce you either.....it is to communinate with you and get to know you more.....especially since she is your step-mom...
Based on the above 2 conditions, and also because she is your step-mom, if you commit any mistakes and you do something rash, you will turn your family life upside down.
Now here is the solution :
1. Try to understand she is your step-mom and thusly a family member (although a newcomer and is not blood-related)
Try to see her as family. Usually this should turn off the sexual radar of any men. Can you do it. Try to sink it into your mind that she is a relative and is a family member. This should change the way you view her.
2. Another thing is, actually she may be too casual at home. Sometimes wearing little clothes may be inappropriate but then again, how does anyone convey the message to her.
Try to think of a way or a strategy for someone or something that can make her to dress more conservatively at home. I cannot think of any ideas at the moment. Can you think of something. Try to think of an idea.
Well maybe you can use the maid as an intermediary. Can you talk to the maid and ask her to talk to your step mom, to ask your step mom to dress more conservatively at home, because of the presence of adult male. BUT, remember to tell the maid not to say that it is something which you ask her to do it. This one is very important.
3. You have done correct action by avoiding uncomfortable situations and walking away when you are discomforted. Please continue to do it. What I mean is self-control and self-discipline. Dont do anything rash or you will regret it your whole life. I also advise you NOT to talk to your dad. How can you say that you have sexual lust to your dad's wife. Be careful not to damage the father-son relation. This one you should handle by other means without emburdening your father or jeopardizing the father-son relations with a test.
4. Last but not least, like you said, move out.
Actually since you are 28 yrs old, it may not be a bad idea to move out. If you go move out to rent someplace somewhere, it is also a good opportunity for you to live alone in a bachelor pad, for more freedom and independence. You can also give a good excuse by saying so (saying you are old enough and wanna be more independent)
But this one is up to you.
My advise is give it some more time, since maybe you are still adapting. Maybe gradually your sexual radar would be turned off. But you know yourself better. You should take actions according to how you are responding and adjusting also.
I would say if step 1,2,3, is insufficient for you, then you should definitely do step 4 (move out). Well it is not a big deal, consider it an opportunity for you to move out.
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She is only human, not a saint.
Your father is away most of the time.. if she wants to seduce.. she don't have to seduce you.. she can seduce your neighbour.. the pool man .. the garang guni man.
Bring your girlfriend home and see how she reacts.
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Go ahead and bang her. Nothing wrong for father and son to share the same woman.
Anyway, when your dad pass away in future, all his assets including this woman will be yours.
Moreover, you already say she is with your dad for his money. Please punish her by banging her real hard
But imagine if she gets pregnant with your son. Your son will than become your father's son which makes him your younger brother instead of your son.
Now that will be interesting.
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nobardie thinks this is a CSB?
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I think fireice is CSB and she is the stepmum
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To those who ask me to speak to my dad about it, yes i am considering, although it's going to be really awkward. I really cannot find the words how to even start.
To those who ask me to give her a good f**k, no i'm not so selfish and silly .... if she is �嘉欣 then different story lar :)
Mancha / Veggie Bao : I agree with what you both say about her dressing sexily may be her nature and perhaps the closeness to me is nothing but her way to express her love for the family...BUT NOT WHEN SHE GETS SO CLOSE UNTIL HER BOOBS REST ON MY ARM RIGHT or when she asks me to massage her shoulder in her inappropriate outfits? Well perhaps you are thinking it was not on purpose, but when she did more than once, i'm pretty sure perhaps she had other motives.
Yes i have tried my best to 'dehornycise' myself. As sick as it may be, i have resorted to pcc before going into the livingroom. But i can't be pcc-ing 24/7 right until stock finish and i spurt out blood right?
JoJoBeach : My head is already so messed up because of this situation and the last thing i need is a girlfriend. This incident has already affected my work and my daily eating routine until i lost 3kg in a week.
Perhaps in the best interest of everyone and in all fairness, it's a wise option to move out. Moving out will definitely be tough on dad and the maid but i guess if it's for the best, i have to do it pretty soon.
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u got ur leticia as witness.
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dude face the fact that you have a hot stepmom and so what if she's acting a little nutty. some guys get hit on all the time so move on and avoid all unnecessary situation and even if one day SHE IS TOTALLY NAKED infront of you just walk away like a real man becos you're 28 and mature enough to recognize that she's your dad's woman. dun let your d*ck do the thinking dude. she's your new mom and you should welcome her to the family despite the fact that she's a little nuts. just laugh it off and tell this story to your grandchildren someday...
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Originally posted by Marktanprd:
o those who ask me to speak to my dad about it, yes i am considering, although it's going to be really awkward. I really cannot find the words how to even start.
To those who ask me to give her a good f**k, no i'm not so selfish and silly .... if she is �嘉欣 then different story lar :)
Mancha / Veggie Bao : I agree with what you both say about her dressing sexily may be her nature and perhaps the closeness to me is nothing but her way to express her love for the family...BUT NOT WHEN SHE GETS SO CLOSE UNTIL HER BOOBS REST ON MY ARM RIGHT or when she asks me to massage her shoulder in her inappropriate outfits? Well perhaps you are thinking it was not on purpose, but when she did more than once, i'm pretty sure perhaps she had other motives.
Yes i have tried my best to 'dehornycise' myself. As sick as it may be, i have resorted to pcc before going into the livingroom. But i can't be pcc-ing 24/7 right until stock finish and i spurt out blood right?
JoJoBeach : My head is already so messed up because of this situation and the last thing i need is a girlfriend. This incident has already affected my work and my daily eating routine until i lost 3kg in a week.
Perhaps in the best interest of everyone and in all fairness, it's a wise option to move out. Moving out will definitely be tough on dad and the maid but i guess if it's for the best, i have to do it pretty soon.
The fact that she managed to get married to your father for $$$ shows she is not as stupid or as naive as you think.
Gold diggers are masters in manipulating men.
Have you considered the possibility that she is trying to BOOT you out of the house ? Her seductive tactic is the same she used on your father, how do you think he fell for her among all her competitors ? ... Like father.. like son.
Women all knows stupid men often use their dicks for brains..
If you take her sexual bait.. she will complain to your father that you have ULTERIOR motives on her.. and it will be an excellent chance to kick you out. Your father may also DISOWN you. Then everything your father owns belong to her . No need to share with you.
Don't be foolish, when you move out.. you lose. Go ahead and spend your father's money... if you don't she will.
Keep your enemy close.. go out with her .. shopping.. socialising and catch her when she flirts with other men.
If your father plans on having another child with your stepmom.. you'll see.. she'll try her best to kick you out... that's survival instinct.. women are very territorial.
Video her shameful behavior .. give it to your dad or post it on youtube.
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Maybe she want to get you into trouble so your dad will chase you out of the house.
Then she will have the house all by herself and her boyfriend ?
For you, just invite or get your girlfriend to go to your house often.
And avoid at all cost to be alone with her.
Just stay in your room and close the door.
Dun do anything to her or else she may get you a free stay in changi.
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this is either jipoon action-romance movie de storyline or hk big family fight for money kind de drama sia.
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well she will find other outersider to do her if she really itchy.
you dont let yr dad wear a green hat, other will do it.
put a spy cam and record alll the happening and show yr dad. the best thing is she leave yr family.
anyway yr dad choose to be a "Gong Chee Bye" himself to be with such woman. i dont pity him.
i see this kind of porn in jap porn, story telling ???
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dad ok one lah
can find another one.
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TS can find fireice to be his gf. fireice also 38 years old and got no life everyday stay at home wear until very sexy and surf sgforum. Very suitable for TS
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Originally posted by goodheart:
TS can find fireice to be his gf. fireice also 38 years old and got no life everyday stay at home wear until very sexy and surf sgforum. Very suitable for TS
our real taiwan gal is angle7030, but i dont think she 38 years old. -
Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
our real taiwan gal is angle7030, but i dont think she 38 years old.
TS only wants 38 year old virgin girl so fireice is very suitable -
TS, just ignore the call to bonk yr step mother! Don't listen to them.