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I managed to crack the addiction. I stopped watching porn every day or week, the most I do is once a month or two months. It was like a chain reaction thing. After I stop porn, I stopped playing games, I start to be more alive. I started trying out different things for kicks.
Like the reverse bungee over at Clark Quay. $30 per pop, but worth EVERY SINGLE CENT. HAHA.
Like Wakeboarding over Marina Country Club. $110 per hour, but worth it after you managed to actually float on the water HAHA.
Next up I might either be trying Skydiving or Rock climbing haha.
But there's a problem that came up.
I craved for sex.
I admitted that to my current girlfriend, but she's the conservative type, the kind to wait till marriage. So that's O.U.T.
I tried learning from my friend who was really natural with girls, always seemingly getting girls into bed. But I felt that it was not me, so that's O.U.T.
I tried sourcing from a Famous Local Sex Forum ;) But my morals are holding me back from trying it out.
I listened to uncles talking about how much fun they had in pubs and clubs. But I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't really like to Karaoke. so that's O.U.T.
I feel very frustrated nowadays. Hmm... Any suggestions?
Ockz
go geylang and release la. 50 bucks or self relieve.
Sex is not everything in life. U will be boring when u have too much.
buy a sex doll thats realistically human n even way exagerated in proportions...
Originally posted by Itedino:go geylang and release la. 50 bucks or self relieve.
Sex is not everything in life. U will be boring when u have too much.
True, but when you have none, you would Really, Really, Really, Really want some. HAHA
Originally posted by Creature X:buy a sex doll thats realistically human n even way exagerated in proportions...
Japan is coming up with one really soon!!! :D HAHA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0IIVF7PGBs
me: " so wad makes u decide to come here"
PRC: " i didnt"
me: " wa, ur parents force u here or ur bf is here"
PRC: "neither, ur SG gahment invited us here"
me: " huh, wad do u mean"
they offer us, ALL Expenses paid for our fees in NTU, including lodging and we even get pocket money
on top of that, they have send me the INVITATION letter to apply for PR after we grad"
- PRC on PAP MOE.
Well, if you really treasure your gf AND have morals as you mentioned, you shouldn't even think be thinking of looking for it outside!
Think before you act; don't get caught up in the excitement/novelty.
You alright with your gf finding out and possibly leaving you just for a f*ck?
While I empathise with your issue and applaud your overcoming your porn 'addiction' as you say, I think now there's another issue for you to work with!
Take it as a challenge for you to develop your mental strength.
You managed to overcome your addiction right?
Thumbs up! ;)
P.S. Why don't you try those fake pu**ies or fleshlight etc??
Originally posted by MissZ:Well, if you really treasure your gf AND have morals as you mentioned, you shouldn't even think be thinking of looking for it outside!
Think before you act; don't get caught up in the excitement/novelty.
You alright with your gf finding out and possibly leaving you just for a f*ck?
While I empathise with your issue and applaud your overcoming your porn 'addiction' as you say, I think now there's another issue for you to work with!
Take it as a challenge for you to develop your mental strength.
You managed to overcome your addiction right?
Thumbs up! ;)
P.S. Why don't you try those fake pu**ies or fleshlight etc??
Dun agreed with u. What develop mental strength. It is natural for a man cock to stand when he see the girl he like or want to have sex. Why go against the nature of flow? No wonder so many gay and lesbians appear.
This is also not a addiction, it is satisfaction. Girl also need it if not there wun be sex toy selling at so many places in singapore. Mostly is for girl also.
One permanet method, go to NUH or SGH to sterlize yourself and later go to thai temple to be a monk. That is what i call Liu Gen Qing Jin ( 6 Senses clear)
Originally posted by MissZ:Well, if you really treasure your gf AND have morals as you mentioned, you shouldn't even think be thinking of looking for it outside!
Think before you act; don't get caught up in the excitement/novelty.
You alright with your gf finding out and possibly leaving you just for a f*ck?
While I empathise with your issue and applaud your overcoming your porn 'addiction' as you say, I think now there's another issue for you to work with!
Take it as a challenge for you to develop your mental strength.
You managed to overcome your addiction right?
Thumbs up! ;)
P.S. Why don't you try those fake pu**ies or fleshlight etc??
One point to comment, he want satisfaction from her gf. It is not wrong. U dun let him fuck and dun let him go out find gal to satisfied himself. It not fair leh. Somemore he paid for it and do not have real feelings for the other girl.
If her gf is really care of him going out to have sex and dun let him to touch other girl.
To be professional, alternative method like help him to Blowjob or Masturbate for him.
Is it too much???
Originally posted by Creature X:buy a sex doll thats realistically human n even way exagerated in proportions...
akin like fucking a ladyboy who got fake virgina. HAha. Just dun utter any sound will do.
Originally posted by Itedino:
One point to comment, he want satisfaction from her gf. It is not wrong. U dun let him fuck and dun let him go out find gal to satisfied himself. It not fair leh. Somemore he paid for it and do not have real feelings for the other girl.If her gf is really care of him going out to have sex and dun let him to touch other girl.
To be professional, alternative method like help him to Blowjob or Masturbate for him.
Is it too much???
It is not fair for him to cheat on her. If he is single, I've got nothing to say.
So you yourself do not mind if your SO has sex with someone else if you can't satisfy him/her? Bearing in mind he/she could pass on diseases to you?
You are, of course, entitled to your own point of view.
He himself has enough respect for her dignity NOT to force her.
At the end of the day, he has to decide what is more important to him and what type of person he wants to be.
Originally posted by Itedino:
Dun agreed with u. What develop mental strength. It is natural for a man cock to stand when he see the girl he like or want to have sex. Why go against the nature of flow? No wonder so many gay and lesbians appear.This is also not a addiction, it is satisfaction. Girl also need it if not there wun be sex toy selling at so many places in singapore. Mostly is for girl also.
One permanet method, go to NUH or SGH to sterlize yourself and later go to thai temple to be a monk. That is what i call Liu Gen Qing Jin ( 6 Senses clear)
It is natural, of course. I never said it's wrong of him to be horny. But it's what you do with it. That's what I meant by 'developing mental strength'.
For humans, unlike animaIs, can actually THINK of the pros and cons before acting.
I don't think anyone has actually died from not getting satisfied.
I was referring to his 'porn addiction' as he had stated.
And there are sex addicts. David Duchovny is one good example.
Woah... I expected something, but not this man haha.
Anyway, I'll probably do something else, like jogging. HAHA
Too shagged to think of Sex. But I still have some cravings haha. Too bad I don't have a fuck buddy hur hur~
Perhaps I could find one here. HAHA
OckZ
Originally posted by Ockz:Woah... I expected something, but not this man haha.
Anyway, I'll probably do something else, like jogging. HAHA
Too shagged to think of Sex. But I still have some cravings haha. Too bad I don't have a fuck buddy hur hur~
Perhaps I could find one here. HAHA
OckZ
I tried fuck buddy before, very fast get bored when you fuck the same person week in week out. Eventually we broke up because our relationship too focused on sex.
I use to go and have sex wif casual galfrens but these days I slowed down a lot. Want to seek a long term commitment wif galfren to turn into marriage.
Maybe yer galfren is rite...sex is not the focus of the relationship.
Originally posted by Ockz:Woah... I expected something, but not this man haha.
Anyway, I'll probably do something else, like jogging. HAHA
Too shagged to think of Sex. But I still have some cravings haha. Too bad I don't have a fuck buddy hur hur~
Perhaps I could find one here. HAHA
OckZ
you can try chopping it off, it will stop all craving, if scare, i can do it for you
To the family next door, Armin Meiwes seemed the perfect neighbour. He mowed their lawn, repaired their car and even invited them round for dinner.
Other residents in the small German town of Rotenburg also believed there was nothing odd about the 42-year-old computer expert, whose light burned late into the night inside his creaking mansion. Yesterday, however, Meiwes appeared in court charged with killing - and then frying and eating - another man.
In one of the most extraordinary trials in German criminal history, the self-confessed cannibal admitted that he had met a 43-year-old Berlin engineer, Bernd Brandes, after advertising on the internet, and had chopped him up and eaten him.
It was, he said, something he had wanted to do for a long time. "I always had the fantasy and in the end I fulfilled it," Meiwes told the court on the first day of his trial for murder in the nearby city of Kassel.
Yesterday German prosecutors described how Meiwes had fantasised about killing and devouring someone, including his classmates, from the age of eight.
The desire grew stronger after the death of his mother in 1999, prosecutor Marcus Köhler said.
In March 2001 Meiwes advertised on the internet for a "young well-built man, who wanted to be eaten". Brandes replied.
On the evening of March 9, the two men went up to the bedroom in Meiwes' rambling timbered farmhouse. Mr Brandes swallowed 20 sleeping tablets and half a bottle of schnapps before Meiwes cut off Brandes' penis, with his agreement, and fried it for both of them to eat...
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2003/dec/04/germany.lukeharding
Craving is a good thing.. It's the only reason why we're all here.. for the survival of our species =P There's nothing wrong with since it's a human need. what's with that taboo.. You should learn how to seduce her ..
The reason why yjou crave sex is because you replace soft porn with imaginary porn.
You don't surf porn sites anymore but you think of sex more now.
Bungee and skydiving (with parachute) is costly, you can't keep it up (no pun intended).
You can try annoying the PAP, join Dr Chee Soon Juan's party. Link arms, chain yourself to railings, march with him and get arrested. It will be fun, going to jail. Ask Dr Chee. He can't sleep well as a prisoner, and he kpkb purposely and got valium. He slept smiling.
Don't wank in the cell , though.
Originally posted by mancha:The reason why yjou crave sex is because you replace soft porn with imaginary porn.
You don't surf porn sites anymore but you think of sex more now.
Bungee and skydiving (with parachute) is costly, you can't keep it up (no pun intended).
You can try annoying the PAP, join Dr Chee Soon Juan's party. Link arms, chain yourself to railings, march with him and get arrested. It will be fun, going to jail. Ask Dr Chee. He can't sleep well as a prisoner, and he kpkb purposely and got valium. He slept smiling.
Don't wank in the cell , though.
What is wank?? wink wink with Dr Chee is ok, wank for him or at him meaning??
Chay! cannot wank for him ley. I don't think he is, or is he?
so, what is wank?
Be involved in social/voluntary services? Get your mind off women for a while? Find a new religion and be involved in its activities ?
Originally posted by angel7030:so, what is wank?
Shoot hand gun.
Originally posted by mancha:Shoot hand gun.
Goodness me, I thot hand gun is prohibited in Singapore, you guys are shooting each others?