Hi Guys.. I Need Help Here.. My Girlfriend And I Broke Up.. She Wants to broke up with me.. saying she wanted to be single, she said she dont have much feelings for me.. we been tgt for 1 yr 3 months, broke up on the day after her birthday.. i was so sad and depressed.. cause during those days, she known a guy for 4 days, and she is interested in that guy. broke up with me after knowing that guy for about a week.. after we break up for 8 days. she is tgt with that guy.. until its been 1 month since we broke up. i read all post and i inititated no contact till now. hoping she will miss me and contact me.. but she didnt contact or txt me at all.. like she nv even miss me ?? i still got check her fb sometimes.. i can't help it.. the feelings still there.. is not easy to get over with.. both of them , their facebook profile keep having those loving messages and stuffs.. and now she put into a relationship with that guy.. she said she wanted TO B E SINGLE !? is she lying to me ?! That time we talk which is our last talk where the break up comes.. she said if i love her i should let her go ! cause she wanted to be single so i let her go cause i still love her.. but now i still think of her and want her back.. she is my 1st love and i still have feelings for her.. guys . what should i do to make her miss me and regret it ??And i just saw her facebook uploaded the both of them, their pictures.. the kissing and hugging parts.. fucking fucked up.. the guy is even worse looking than me.. i really had nothing to say.. any guys can advices or help out ??
eh, no offence but I doubt many pple will bother reading a whole chunk of words..
she lying to u
as she really gt no feeling with u ma
get over with it
Nothing you can do except get a new gf.
Don't forget to update your fb with your new love.
The best revenge is to be successful in life.
First love is always harder to let you and the memories associated with first love are very strong. Even after 10 or 20 years, you will still reminiscene the experience in first love. My advice to you is, move on. Find something productive to do to keep you busy. For a good start, you could volunteer yourself as charitable organisation. They need many people for the donation drives.
I also experience a lot of breakup and patch back with the 1st girlfriend. Now she's still my gf, but the feeling is no more there. I suggest that you write down all your feelings, thoughts and love story into a journal, and keep that journal somewhere in your room. Once you've done it, a part of you containing the memories and love will be in the journal. Let it be a reminder that true love needs time to find and 1st love does not mean true love.
It is a painful lesson for you, but I believe that it will be even more painful for your ex-girlfriend as she had committed into a rebound relationship; entering into a relationship with somebody whom you know not long enough would cause devastating harm.
Move on, buddy.
Best Regards,
Chin Seng
She's moved on, do the same.
All you need to do now is to live your life better than your past relationship with her. There's no point in dwelling in the past. Make sure that she regrets for breaking up with you and going steady with another guy. Change your looks and try to be more attractive. Sometimes, such break-ups in life just makes you stronger and tells you that you need to improve.
when u grow up, u will just look back at all these and laff..........
You can only blame on yourself for not treasuring her or over aggressive. or Maybe just a fucking bitch that like to lie
Thanks Singaporeans.. Any More Advices ?? Seriously .. Seeing Them Writing Those Fucking Disgusting Mushy Words On Their Wall And Post.. Is Like THey Trying To Show How Proud Is Their Love To Everyone .. Is Like " i Got my loves Ones U LOSERS don't HAve'' Damn It..
Guys Just Wanna Ask A Questions.. Do U THink This Girl Will Regret ?? And What Is The Chances That She Will Contact Me Back Again ?? CAuse I nv initiate Contact to her at All For This 1 month 1 week.. I Hope For More Advices To Move On EAsier.. And Thanks To Those Who Replied.. I Am grateful to u..
Originally posted by MilkyZ:Thanks Singaporeans.. Any More Advices ?? Seriously .. Seeing Them Writing Those Fucking Disgusting Mushy Words On Their Wall And Post.. Is Like THey Trying To Show How Proud Is Their Love To Everyone .. Is Like " i Got my loves Ones U LOSERS don't HAve'' Damn It..
Guys Just Wanna Ask A Questions.. Do U THink This Girl Will Regret ?? And What Is The Chances That She Will Contact Me Back Again ?? CAuse I nv initiate Contact to her at All For This 1 month 1 week.. I Hope For More Advices To Move On EAsier.. And Thanks To Those Who Replied.. I Am grateful to u..
My brother i know it is sad. I can confirm that she having fun with his bf now perhaps in bed. She din think of u and wun give a damm for u. Her heart already change. Wake up la. There are so many girls in the world waiting for u to know them.
OK. my advice to u is if you really aim for her is to be her friend again. Dun go touch her or hold her hand k. Just be one of her normal friends. Start back from friend. Sorry to say this. This bitch is not worth your love at all. She can do this to anyone. Bitch later turn into slut.
The reason why they keep "I love you, you love me" posting mussy messages on facebook showed the fact that both of them are pretty insecure about their relationship. It could be also due to the honey-moon phenomenon (couple appearing extremely lovely) for a temporarily period. Once the honeymoon phase is over, committment phase kicks in.
I believe she will not be able to last long with her current boyfriend. Base on estimation, she will initiate contact with you roughly 5 months or 11 months later, which will be around her next breakup or birthday. At that time, she could be dump by her current boyfriend and thinking about you.
What you should do now is to look forward adding meaning activities in your life. I can see that you are still hoping for her to return back to you. Please don't habour any hope... My only hope for you is for you to emerge stronger!
Best regards,
Chin Seng
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Find friends who have frends between 50 ~ 150. Chat with them, date them out to know them better. Then if you both shared interest, ask her to be your girlfriend. Meeting new people is the first step of securing a better future
If you don't meet new people = never have the chance to meet your love one.
fk u and grow up la
emo for what fuck use
she wun come back even if u emo
u emo, u cry, u die, she also wun care 1
such is life
stand up, and walk by urself
Originally posted by MilkyZ:Hi Guys.. I Need Help Here.. My Girlfriend And I Broke Up.. She Wants to broke up with me.. saying she wanted to be single, she said she dont have much feelings for me.. we been tgt for 1 yr 3 months, broke up on the day after her birthday.. i was so sad and depressed.. cause during those days, she known a guy for 4 days, and she is interested in that guy. broke up with me after knowing that guy for about a week.. after we break up for 8 days. she is tgt with that guy.. until its been 1 month since we broke up. i read all post and i inititated no contact till now. hoping she will miss me and contact me.. but she didnt contact or txt me at all.. like she nv even miss me ?? i still got check her fb sometimes.. i can't help it.. the feelings still there.. is not easy to get over with.. both of them , their facebook profile keep having those loving messages and stuffs.. and now she put into a relationship with that guy.. she said she wanted TO B E SINGLE !? is she lying to me ?! That time we talk which is our last talk where the break up comes.. she said if i love her i should let her go ! cause she wanted to be single so i let her go cause i still love her.. but now i still think of her and want her back.. she is my 1st love and i still have feelings for her.. guys . what should i do to make her miss me and regret it ??And i just saw her facebook uploaded the both of them, their pictures.. the kissing and hugging parts.. fucking fucked up.. the guy is even worse looking than me.. i really had nothing to say.. any guys can advices or help out ??
You treated her like dirt wat.
Now she found another guy treat her better right ?
Learn your lesson and move on lor...
Remove her from your friends list lah... why torture yourself ?
She won't come back already lah... there's so many guys out there to choose from.
Go and find someone else and don't take for granted again lah.
go .get a hobby,setup a business.she left u cuz u couldnt perform at home and at werk.
high chance if u got married and had 10 kids with u she would still leave u...as do tthe other male gender side.
after u have a successful business,,,,drive a maserati and have an ang mo supermodel atheletic wife!
or wife that looks like a great pornstar!
she didnt leave you for someone she only known for a week....believe me, she knew that guy A LOT longer than 1 week. :(
Originally posted by mancha:Nothing you can do except get a new gf.
Don't forget to update your fb with your new love.
Haha... nice one :)
I broke up with my bf of 3 yrs to marry my hubby whom
I have known only for 3 mths
my ex-bf cried in front of me at 6am below my house
beg me not to leave him but I just couldn't suffer under him any more
few yrs later when we contact by phone, he was happily married with few kids
u suffered under ex boyfrend??did he smell like sardines???greasy pork???
ex-bf want me to look slim
so I always go home very hungry looking for food after midnight
he buy alot of tight belts for my dress which make red mark on my waist
was very comfortable & painful too
so I decide I had enough
good choice!!!!had u starved yerself of good ole sporean food in the past....u would have hated yerself today.