Is she angry with me or just fooling around??
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As the title states, need opinions from you ladies and the more feminine aware of the male population(which i'm not as i'm already asking this).
Really childish of me to get myself into such a situation but here goes the story:
Here's the thing. We had just finished a rather long school day ending with a rather boring chemisty class, while going back to our lockers, for some reason (maybe it's because i stayed up all night the previous day mugging,too tired and alittle irritated perhaps?), i uttered, quote "you love to stomp around don't you?". Now nothing super serious sounding at first impressions. Not really, on the contrary it was a diaster.
Why stomp? well she does walk(more of stomp) wherever she goes(wears shoes one size too large). Find it alittle irritating yet at the same time sooo cute(the part i regretted not saying).To the girl with some insecurities about herself (which teenager would not have one eh??).
This would not be much of an issue if we were just classmates. Thing is we both have feelings for each other(i'm a guy and the other's a she just in case). Its like the cold war right now. She stays about a metre away from me nowadays whenever we sit beside each other. Rather silent and glancing at me from time to time in a not so good way. Keeps coming up to me yet suddenly turns away once she's really close to me. All are polar opposites for the day to day interactions between us. Its as though she's waiting for an apology. Saying goodbye to her today felt weird.Yet she's all so cosy with me at certain times today(maybe she's just testing me???).
Did i commit a cardinal sin by damaging a girl's self-esteem?? Is she angry? and should i apologise. Gahhh all this drama for one sentence........
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Have considered that as a factor(don't have the heart to ask her). But does one have such split personalities in a space of two days?
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if a guy said that to me, i will stomp him to death la..
seriously u suggesting that she is godzilla??
if u dont like to hear all the noises she make with the shoes that is not her size, u could be a gentleman and ask if she would love to go to the mall with u and get her right-sized shoes...
goodness...
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u frightened her la bro and yet she finds u cute at times
teeny bitsy weeny puppy love
good to look back when u become an adult
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Originally posted by Gerberad:
if a guy said that to me, i will stomp him to death la..
seriously u suggesting that she is godzilla??
if u dont like to hear all the noises she make with the shoes that is not her size, u could be a gentleman and ask if she would love to go to the mall with u and get her right-sized shoes...
goodness...
women are so sensitive!
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Originally posted by Gerberad:
if a guy said that to me, i will stomp him to death la..
seriously u suggesting that she is godzilla??
if u dont like to hear all the noises she make with the shoes that is not her size, u could be a gentleman and ask if she would love to go to the mall with u and get her right-sized shoes...
goodness...
gone case i guess?!!. Its almost a week now and she's still angry at me. idiot!! why can't i keep my mouth shut.....
abit late to apologise eh??
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sh ecant know u n have 10 kids with u yet!
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Originally posted by yukun:
As the title states, need opinions from you ladies and the more feminine aware of the male population(which i'm not as i'm already asking this).
Really childish of me to get myself into such a situation but here goes the story:
Here's the thing. We had just finished a rather long school day ending with a rather boring chemisty class, while going back to our lockers, for some reason (maybe it's because i stayed up all night the previous day mugging,too tired and alittle irritated perhaps?), i uttered, quote "you love to stomp around don't you?". Now nothing super serious sounding at first impressions. Not really, on the contrary it was a diaster.
Why stomp? well she does walk(more of stomp) wherever she goes(wears shoes one size too large). Find it alittle irritating yet at the same time sooo cute(the part i regretted not saying).To the girl with some insecurities about herself (which teenager would not have one eh??).
This would not be much of an issue if we were just classmates. Thing is we both have feelings for each other(i'm a guy and the other's a she just in case). Its like the cold war right now. She stays about a metre away from me nowadays whenever we sit beside each other. Rather silent and glancing at me from time to time in a not so good way. Keeps coming up to me yet suddenly turns away once she's really close to me. All are polar opposites for the day to day interactions between us. Its as though she's waiting for an apology. Saying goodbye to her today felt weird.Yet she's all so cosy with me at certain times today(maybe she's just testing me???).
Did i commit a cardinal sin by damaging a girl's self-esteem?? Is she angry? and should i apologise. Gahhh all this drama for one sentence........
You threw a negative remark.. now give her a positive one to neutralise it lor.
She throws you the hot.. you give her the cold.. guilty lah.
Say some nice things to her when you can.. and all will be forgiven ok.
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Originally posted by yukun:
gone case i guess?!!. Its almost a week now and she's still angry at me. idiot!! why can't i keep my mouth shut.....
abit late to apologise eh??
i already gave u an idea of how to resolve this problem in my previous comment. -
ahh but she's already gonna get new ones;
said rather LOUDLY in front of the class hangout room when everyone was there today, saying she's going shopping with her friend for new shoes....
gosh...... i'm dead meat ain't i?? (definately really.... mad at me)
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Don't be a boy. Man up.
Say you're sorry. You may not fully agree with her reasons for being offended but if her friendship matters to you, you'll not wait for HER to make the first move.
Try this:
I'm a total idiot. I say things sometimes. Stupid things. It bugs me that I may have made you angry. It bugs me more that I may have made you sad. I've obviously hurt you by saying that 'STOMPING' thing. I miss talking to you. I'm sorry.
Okay. I actually wrote that with a straight face.
Almost.
It doesn't matter. If you miss her that much, then repeat word-for-word what I wrote above. If she doesn't turn into a puddle then she's a heartless STOMPING b1tch anyways and you're better off finding less leaden-footed ladies.
Damn. I'm good.
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Originally posted by yukun:
Have considered that as a factor(don't have the heart to ask her). But does one have such split personalities in a space of two days?
Yes, it's possible.
Before period, no cramps. On the day itself + three or four days, cramp everyday, moody, get angry for no reason.
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Originally posted by Thonglet:
Don't be a boy. Man up.
Say you're sorry. You may not fully agree with her reasons for being offended but if her friendship matters to you, you'll not wait for HER to make the first move.
Try this:
I'm a total idiot. I say things sometimes. Stupid things. It bugs me that I may have made you angry. It bugs me more that I may have made you sad. I've obviously hurt you by saying that 'STOMPING' thing. I miss talking to you. I'm sorry.
Okay. I actually wrote that with a straight face.
Almost.
It doesn't matter. If you miss her that much, then repeat word-for-word what I wrote above. If she doesn't turn into a puddle then she's a heartless STOMPING b1tch anyways and you're better off finding less leaden-footed ladies.
Damn. I'm good.
Nice!!.
Righto, just need the perfect time tomorrow when we two are alone.....
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Originally posted by yukun:
As the title states, need opinions from you ladies and the more feminine aware of the male population(which i'm not as i'm already asking this).
Really childish of me to get myself into such a situation but here goes the story:
Here's the thing. We had just finished a rather long school day ending with a rather boring chemisty class, while going back to our lockers, for some reason (maybe it's because i stayed up all night the previous day mugging,too tired and alittle irritated perhaps?), i uttered, quote "you love to stomp around don't you?". Now nothing super serious sounding at first impressions. Not really, on the contrary it was a diaster.
Why stomp? well she does walk(more of stomp) wherever she goes(wears shoes one size too large). Find it alittle irritating yet at the same time sooo cute(the part i regretted not saying).To the girl with some insecurities about herself (which teenager would not have one eh??).
This would not be much of an issue if we were just classmates. Thing is we both have feelings for each other(i'm a guy and the other's a she just in case). Its like the cold war right now. She stays about a metre away from me nowadays whenever we sit beside each other. Rather silent and glancing at me from time to time in a not so good way. Keeps coming up to me yet suddenly turns away once she's really close to me. All are polar opposites for the day to day interactions between us. Its as though she's waiting for an apology. Saying goodbye to her today felt weird.Yet she's all so cosy with me at certain times today(maybe she's just testing me???).
Did i commit a cardinal sin by damaging a girl's self-esteem?? Is she angry? and should i apologise. Gahhh all this drama for one sentence........
I dunno wat is the big deal???
You didn't call her fat or old, rite?
So why is she so angry?
I oso dunno.
Apologise? For wat....woman ah...the more you apologise to them, the more they trample over you. Apologise only when you need something from them. Haha.
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Haha.. I am waiting for an update on this story. Very interesting puppy love story. Reminds me of the things I did years ago.. :)
And Thonglet, nice wordings :)
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She must have been offended.
Seriously, some guys are sensitive themselves; what more a lady/girl?
Apologise to her; tell her it was just a joke(I hope) and that you actually find it cute(as you stated).
Do it with sincerity.