Cheaters, Adulterers...come in.
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So I've been listening to alot of my friends(girls) who complain to me about their boyfriends/husbands cheating on them....with some other person...thus ruining their relationship/marriage....and breaking the trust etc...
What I would really like to hear though, is the honest opinions and view points of the guys who committed these acts....
This isn't meant to be a "witch hunt"...just want to hear the opinion from men who cheated/still cheat on their spouses or girlfriends....and how they rationalize the "risk involved"...in terms of losing the person that they love....why/ how they come to the conclusion to commit the act.
Anyone out there wanna share their input?
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"aiya if i wipe my mouth clean, whos going to know?"
and no, i dont cheat!
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theres a 2006 remake of the 10 comandments on tv tonight.hopefully it not a story about 10 commandoes doin jobs.
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For every relationship, there's two side of the story. If the guy go out with another girl for a lunch/dinner, it doesn't mean he is cheating on his gf.
First step is to understand the definition of cheating. Ask the girls what constitute cheating.I have gf, and I always go out with my peers and colleague for lunch. It happened that most of them are female. Does it direct translate to I'm cheating on my gf just because I went to have lunch?
TS, remember to listen to two side of the story.
The definition of cheating in a relationship is having another sexual relationship with another person. So this is clearly cheating.
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actually the simplest reason is
"i horny ma"
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Most asian feel that flirting is a form of cheating... while americans feel that flirting is a form of getting to know each other~
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lust overrides rational thinking
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the grass is greener over there?
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the boobs is bigger over there?
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Originally posted by Clandestine:
So I've been listening to alot of my friends(girls) who complain to me about their boyfriends/husbands cheating on them....with some other person...thus ruining their relationship/marriage....and breaking the trust etc...
What I would really like to hear though, is the honest opinions and view points of the guys who committed these acts....
This isn't meant to be a "witch hunt"...just want to hear the opinion from men who cheated/still cheat on their spouses or girlfriends....and how they rationalize the "risk involved"...in terms of losing the person that they love....why/ how they come to the conclusion to commit the act.
Anyone out there wanna share their input?
I dont know since I am not the same type with these men, but all I can say is that I believe they married too young (emotionally speaking) so they are not mature enough to settle down and be committed to 1 person.
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Originally posted by Veggie Bao:
I dont know since I am not the same type with these men, but all I can say is that I believe they married too young (emotionally speaking) so they are not mature enough to settle down and be committed to 1 person.
I agree with your views. Married too young and the personality is still not developed. Years later, they actually realised that their personalities are actually incompatible.
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i seen my fair share of girls cheating
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
"aiya if i wipe my mouth clean, whos going to know?"
and no, i dont cheat!
but sometime, when i wipe my mouth, still got one or two rice on my lip. Then peoples see already also laugh -
Every man gf/wife is another man admirer. You can only trust a dead man.
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
The definition of cheating in a relationship is having another sexual relationship with another person. So this is clearly cheating.
Agreed. And this is the definition that is being referred to here. Thanks for making it clearer.
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Originally posted by Veggie Bao:
I dont know since I am not the same type with these men, but all I can say is that I believe they married too young (emotionally speaking) so they are not mature enough to settle down and be committed to 1 person.
Lets say age isn't the factor here....and the concept of adultery being referenced here isn't limited to young couples...but also includes older ones....married or unmarried....
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
I agree with your views. Married too young and the personality is still not developed. Years later, they actually realised that their personalities are actually incompatible.
In this scenario...the options are available to end the relationship that they feel they have "out grown" in terms of personality growth. Why then, instead of ending that relationship and pursuing better options, do some think it's better to pursue first.....end later?
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Originally posted by laurence82:
i seen my fair share of girls cheating
Agreed. The term "Adultery" isn't gender specific and does apply to both.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Every man gf/wife is another man admirer. You can only trust a dead man.
Lol. Agreed x 100.
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Any guys out there who have cheated on their other halves.....or think that cheating isn't wrong but a way of life/ natural occurence.....would like to express their views?
I understand why some would feel uncomfortable talking about it given the unsympathetic social stigma attached to the term "cheater".....but still....your input on how your psyche actually works would be welcomed.
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Refer back to TS...
You'll have to post in Malaysia Forum... I read from the papers they say that rich and high status malaysian thought it is as almost right to have a mistress.....
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
"aiya if i wipe my mouth clean, whos going to know?"
and no, i dont cheat!
You won't dare knowing that jeolous miss bonker divorcee would tear you too pieces. Anyway, yer tongue has dip into that dirty mouth bonker, who would want to kiss you? Yuck.You wipe your mouth and drink listerine won't clean all the shit from yer mouth because you hide in the monsoon drain everyday wif that rift raft miss bonkers.
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are u stalking me or wad? how come u noe i am logging in then u standby here waiting for me liao? fk leh, u are like those justin bieber fans, except u are uglier, and way more disgusting. thanks for loving me, but please go find someone else. not everyone is like u, desperate for any woman u see on the street. as shown in ur cousin wife thread.
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
are u stalking me or wad?
how come u noe i am logging in then u standby here waiting for me liao?
fk leh, u are like those justin bieber fans, except u are uglier, and way more disgusting.
thanks for loving me, but please go find someone else.
not everyone is like u, desperate for any woman u see on the street.
as shown in ur cousin wife thread.
I wonder who is stalking who. U some more want to fk me. I am not homo like u. I know u cannot stand Miss Bonker bad breath but don't sexually harass me.
Don't flatter urself, I only want to tell the people here the truth about you. You pose as a homo guy, like last time you did to me, try to pose as a gal. I am warning to everybody about your traps.
The cousin wife story is a magical fictional tale, so convincing until dumb fool like u can believe.
I know Justin Bieber just came to town, so u very excited, giggle like a small gal. But dun go to yer sex fantasy and imagine me as yer justin bieber. Yuck.
I can imagine u going back home n stare at yer brother in excitement, suddenly imagining him as Justin Bieber. Eeeeee....dunno whether yer brother get molested by u.