Originally posted by angel7030:Costing a bomb can get him out of NS is ok, but if still cannot, then really waste. Today, with so many of your soft and nerdy singaporeans young guys, I feel so sad for singapore, if they cannot take the hardship and the social aspect of NS life, guess they will not be able to fit into the working society, what then, had singapore education and parenting become?? a shift is greatly needed here
PES F are normally given to Schizioprenic and people with psychotic disorder.
Just a warning private psychiatrist are very expensive.
Originally posted by Addict taintedlove:mancha ~~ I don't understand what do you mean by " See any Private Psychiatrist First Class can lah. Free some more. "
angel7030 ~~ LOL sorry. Yup Raffles is expensive but the medical is superb good. I just hope it can get him out of NS for awhile to relax himself. I don't think there's alot of ppl who are like my brother. Working and serving the nation is totally 2 different aspect. My bro fit into the working society pretty well and that's what I think is a blow to him. After he graduate from his design course he got so quite a number of company called him to join them. Even mediacorp had interviewed him. That's when he's on the path to his ambition so he can't take it after receiving the enlistment letter.
sgboy ~~ Okay I will tell him bout it. Oh I rmb 1 thing which I had this buddy who is superb " ON ". He become very depressed or sad after his parent pass away. He wouldn't want to come to camp and even go awol after the SAF ward psychiatry said something to him. I think his friends or someone brought him over to Mount Alvernia and from that day I didn't see him till ORD. I try putting me in his shoes and after the few nights of thoughts. I found out that people with depression are like they wouldn't want to go to places that hurt them deep down the bottom of their heart. For example my buddy. If that time he have not gone into NS he could save his dad from a heart attack at home which no one notice during the daytime. So NS is a place that left the hurt over there that he can't take it when his back in camp. As for my bro he's going to have a bright future and NS ruin it.
Wow there's so much Private practices in each hospital. So I just call and book any there's has the closer date? Yea I think thats the Novena medical instead of Newton.
Dr Language ~~ Yea he once told me about guard duty. He said he can't take it as the Sergeant screw him all the time. He said " I believe I can knock down 1 of the guy and snatch the rifle and shoot him down and end his life together with him ". I got so shocked after he said that. He's not a violent person at all and had not gone into any gang society.
Almond Cookies ~~ Yea from the CMPB. He's going down today :) hope he had a good chat. Yup he told me he got betray by the counsellor once because he told her something and the counsellor told his psychiatrist. PES E should be good for him since there's no reservice? Am I right? Yea he's excused from firearms.
Originally posted by Addict taintedlove:Hmm I heard from a friend of mine. He say there a hospital just started not long ago can called something start with " Newton Medical " ? I search on google but didn't seems to find it in SG. Is there really this hospital?
MooKu ~~ okay thanks alot for the help :)
sgboy ~~ Yup he was downgraded Perm. Yea He can't take MC all the way but sometimes if he really going crazy they should be able to help him. Wow I didn't see this Gleneagles Hospital before. Thanks for the info too :) I saw some of the Consultation start from $150. He's seeing a counsellor now and heard from him the counsellor is a very nice person.
mancha ~~ I don't understand what do you mean by " See any Private Psychiatrist First Class can lah. Free some more. "
Kannonjoe ~~ Hi :) I don't understand him now. He's seldom talks to us and just lay on his bed for the whole day and amazing is he didn't even sleep. If it was me I could have fall asleep within 1 hour i guess? He used to be very cheerful and and lots of friends which I envy so much. His fb is flooded by lots of ppl every single day. But now he no longer going out anymore and he quit buying and talks bout those branded stuff. Ya now I remember him telling my mom he hear weird voices like someone is talking to him.
Almond Cookies ~~ hahas I'm not good in searching things over the internet that's why i came here to ask. To my knowledge I do know there's Mount Alvernia and Elizabeth.
Originally posted by Addict taintedlove:angel7030 ~~ LOL sorry. Yup Raffles is expensive but the medical is superb good. I just hope it can get him out of NS for awhile to relax himself. I don't think there's alot of ppl who are like my brother. Working and serving the nation is totally 2 different aspect. My bro fit into the working society pretty well and that's what I think is a blow to him. After he graduate from his design course he got so quite a number of company called him to join them. Even mediacorp had interviewed him. That's when he's on the path to his ambition so he can't take it after receiving the enlistment letter.
sgboy ~~ Okay I will tell him bout it. Oh I rmb 1 thing which I had this buddy who is superb " ON ". He become very depressed or sad after his parent pass away. He wouldn't want to come to camp and even go awol after the SAF ward psychiatry said something to him. I think his friends or someone brought him over to Mount Alvernia and from that day I didn't see him till ORD. I try putting me in his shoes and after the few nights of thoughts. I found out that people with depression are like they wouldn't want to go to places that hurt them deep down the bottom of their heart. For example my buddy. If that time he have not gone into NS he could save his dad from a heart attack at home which no one notice during the daytime. So NS is a place that left the hurt over there that he can't take it when his back in camp. As for my bro he's going to have a bright future and NS ruin it.
Wow there's so much Private practices in each hospital. So I just call and book any there's has the closer date? Yea I think thats the Novena medical instead of Newton.
Dr Language ~~ Yea he once told me about guard duty. He said he can't take it as the Sergeant screw him all the time. He said " I believe I can knock down 1 of the guy and snatch the rifle and shoot him down and end his life together with him ". I got so shocked after he said that. He's not a violent person at all and had not gone into any gang society.
Almond Cookies ~~ Yea from the CMPB. He's going down today :) hope he had a good chat. Yup he told me he got betray by the counsellor once because he told her something and the counsellor told his psychiatrist. PES E should be good for him since there's no reservice? Am I right? Yea he's excused from firearms.
It's not betrayal.
If It's important issue, psychiatrist at MMI must know.
If he's Excused from firearms then good.
PES E are still liable for reservist.
PES E only mean his condition is serious enough to warrent a PES E.
More serious than PES C mental condition.
Yes hearing voices can indicate psychosis.
Come on, don't be that biased to say that NS ruin one's life... Not mentioning about your buddy that if he did no go into NS, his father's life will be saved.. There's no logic in saying that.. Does that mean if your buddy is not in NS, he will be with his father 24/7 and not a second out of sight? I understand what you are thinking but don't be that biased to the extent. What's the point of your buddy going AWOL, at the end of the day, he will be caught sooner or later and after serving his sentence, he is still liable for his NS remaining period. Many of us also went through quite a lot for the 2 years and ORD.. Your brother just have to bear with it. I would say is your brother's mental issue.. since he will become alright if he is out of NS.. some people will even say that he's just trying to bluff his way through even though he may be really mentally affected... As his family, instead of trying to find ways to get him out of NS, why not talk to him, care for him and walk through this 'hard' period. Even if he is given PES F and discharged from NS, do you think is a good thing? Next time when he apply for jobs, his employers will ask for his National Service status... is he going to say PES F, result: Mental Issue - Depression? No one will give him a job... especially nowadays job stress is an issue.
Originally posted by Addict taintedlove:
sgboy ~~ Okay I will tell him bout it. Oh I rmb 1 thing which I had this buddy who is superb " ON ". He become very depressed or sad after his parent pass away. He wouldn't want to come to camp and even go awol after the SAF ward psychiatry said something to him. I think his friends or someone brought him over to Mount Alvernia and from that day I didn't see him till ORD. I try putting me in his shoes and after the few nights of thoughts. I found out that people with depression are like they wouldn't want to go to places that hurt them deep down the bottom of their heart. For example my buddy. If that time he have not gone into NS he could save his dad from a heart attack at home which no one notice during the daytime. So NS is a place that left the hurt over there that he can't take it when his back in camp. As for my bro he's going to have a bright future and NS ruin it.
Wow there's so much Private practices in each hospital. So I just call and book any there's has the closer date? Yea I think thats the Novena medical instead of Newton.