I want a relationship so bad =(
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hi xiaogougou,
I do hope that you have sort out your issues.
I am a firm believer of marriage, thus encouraged relationship too. However, one need to learn to live with people before able to appreciate your partner. Once, a senior told me (when I was a teen) that unless we can cope with loneliness, we are not ready for relationship. If we insisted, we will end up having broken relationship, and still not know where has gone wrong.
Believe me, go get a life, attend some social function, and enlarge your circle of friends, and that will also indirectly enlarging your opportunity to meet new female friends. Observing from how those girls behave in a non-threatening activities will also help you sized up which is suitable for your life partner.
All the best to you.
Regards,
Old man.
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non threatening activites...my goodness, since when we gals got threatening activities leh?? bo bian, old liao cannot think properly, must be.
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actually just advise TS - get a life.
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Hi Angel,
Yes, old man liao. May you have grace with old man. Perhaps the better word is 'casual, social activities'. Will that do? :)
By the way, I will continue to grow old. I do hope you will not. :)
Bless you Angel.
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<implying angel to stop growing... meaning death..
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Originally posted by Mel.greywolf:
Hi Angel,
Yes, old man liao. May you have grace with old man. Perhaps the better word is 'casual, social activities'. Will that do? :)
By the way, I will continue to grow old. I do hope you will not. :)
Bless you Angel.
Dear Sir,Everyone must grow old one of these day, including me, and you have all my respect for the time that had past in your life, be grateful that you is able to grow to nice golden age with a graciousness of a human, there are many who cannot even walk, talk, think or worst, died young.
There is no immortality, accept the old, because ultimately, we all will grow old, wither and be gone for good. No that peoples do not agree with me, just that humans like to evade the sensitive bad side of our true life, they also want the good thing, good ole times and good comfort zone, and that is when they met up with bad times, they get so depressed and start to have mental problem and all those nonsense.
Since young, i knew that I hv to grow old and pass away one day, that is why i am alway happy and see bad thing happening in my life as easy as eating roti prata.
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Sit infront of the PC, use fingers punch at the keyboard, how much effort that requires. Use two fingers only or all eight fingers and thumbs does not make any difference. In the cyberworld age does not count. Does not matter if you are young or old.
The only thing that matters is, you make sense or not.
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still PC meh, I saw ah pek using ipad and voice command liao, dun even need to type and use finger.
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Ts, What u are being now is the meaning of life. There is no meaning, and it is folly to assume tht one can find life. As for wanting a relationship, one who cannot relate to what one is (accepting of oneself) is most likely to want another to save oneself or to add oneself. Intuitively, it feels like loneliness. Loneliness is a negative state ... and when that aspect is not reconciled within oneself - one may have many things in life - money, friends and what-not, even a friend, spouse or ... it will never go away. There are merely traps. Clinging and possessiveness would b e the mainstay. It does not matter whether it is money, things or ... it is all the same. It is an alienation ffrom one''s being (ie, well-being) These are props and the anxiety of losing things or .... will have onself in a psychological morass cos one would try to preserve that sense of self (derived/acquired outside of oneself) and inevitably that self-preservation imprisons one. It is fine to hanker for things, friends or ... but one has to be cognizant of the pitfalls and the concomitant anguish and anxiety that would shadow such a stance(s).
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Have you been in love may I ask?
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In Love with what?? ice cream? house? horse? painting?...or another man?
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aiyah angel, no good advise to people don;t be a kaypoh ji lah
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what is kapoh ji?
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better be prepared...sometimes there are no u-turns so never rush into anything
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man the fuck up, you can do it
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Originally posted by de_middle:
better be prepared...sometimes there are no u-turns so never rush into anything
ya, hyundai, prepare to have one.U turn is only a rules, there are actually alots of U turns in your life, just becareful, looking around before you make the turn, i see lots of car making illegal U turn, and that is life, so I believe that there are many U turns in life
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Originally posted by angel7030:
what is kapoh ji?
it means pretty girl. so repeat again after me"angel is a kaypoh ji"
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i am sure you are a decent, nice guy. girls will like that in a lifetime partners esp hardwoking , career minded individuals for the security. work on these, i am sure you will get hitch in no time.
but then some girls go for bad boys with an attitude, for the thrills, fun, excitement. most r/s dont last for long....
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While you desire to have relationship, i desire to be out of one but cannot. Dun be desperate. You might nt know what you are going to have.
Many of my friends prefer to stay single......no commitment is the best. I always advise them on not to get married and have kids. Life in SG is too stressful unless you ba long long all the way. How to have kds and take care of them?
Recently, my blood pressure went in pre-hypertension stage. My kid is driving me mad all time when i am back from work or from school. (Partaking a part time master programe). There are times where i purposely go home around 1130pm or midnight. My wife is mildly retarted and has OCD...which increase my blood pressure.
I really hope you stay single and if you need to have company for the night, theres always services out there to satisfy you.
Really hope i am single. Regretting my marriage for the last 3 years.....
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Originally posted by CeciliaLoh:
i am sure you are a decent, nice guy. girls will like that in a lifetime partners esp hardwoking , career minded individuals for the security. work on these, i am sure you will get hitch in no time.
but then some girls go for bad boys with an attitude, for the thrills, fun, excitement. most r/s dont last for long....
but it is also the look "decent, nice guy" that fail them....
its all in the heart...than the FACE book
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
but it is also the look "decent, nice guy" that fail them....
its all in the heart...than the FACE book
most would prefer 'decent, nice guy' over naughty , flirtatious, whatever.
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Nice guy finish last....Or rather bad boy is more alluring....
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Originally posted by KoCoNuT:
While you desire to have relationship, i desire to be out of one but cannot. Dun be desperate. You might nt know what you are going to have.
Many of my friends prefer to stay single......no commitment is the best. I always advise them on not to get married and have kids. Life in SG is too stressful unless you ba long long all the way. How to have kds and take care of them?
Recently, my blood pressure went in pre-hypertension stage. My kid is driving me mad all time when i am back from work or from school. (Partaking a part time master programe). There are times where i purposely go home around 1130pm or midnight. My wife is mildly retarted and has OCD...which increase my blood pressure.
I really hope you stay single and if you need to have company for the night, theres always services out there to satisfy you.
Really hope i am single. Regretting my marriage for the last 3 years.....
Before you get marry, what did you said or think?? People like you are what causes social in justice, know how to Fcuk but do not know how to take care of family, problem for you mean no love, sian, sick, tiring, regretful etc etc.
Yo Joe, if I am yr professor of your Master, i will fail you once and for all. Wonder how you get yr degree?
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Originally posted by CeciliaLoh:
most would prefer 'decent, nice guy' over naughty , flirtatious, whatever.
Nice guy alway turns up to be mommy boys, everything listen to mommy, it is hard to be their gf, as for naughty and playful, that is nature to we young peoples, but once we reach 30++ yo, we will be more committed to what we are doing, don't you people yourself were naughty and playful during your youth time?? -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Nice guy alway turns up to be mommy boys, everything listen to mommy, it is hard to be their gf, as for naughty and playful, that is nature to we young peoples, but once we reach 30++ yo, we will be more committed to what we are doing, don't you people yourself were naughty and playful during your youth time??
how do you know anything about life and yourself pass 30. unless you are not 22 butt 30? don;t listen to other bullcrap and cum here bullcrap lah