Originally posted by Gawddofwar:Nothing wrong with picking up girls on the net. Fuck dating sites, Facebook is your hunting ground.
Also if you have more female friends compared to male, it's not a good sign, you are entering friend zone.
Don't concentrate on one girl to be your girlfriend, allow yourself to have various potential dating partners, so you won't seem desperate.
Step 1: Multiple dating
Step 2: Filter for a exclusive relationship aka girlfriend
Step 3: Discover if she's a bitch or an angel
Step 4: If she's a bitch, get the fuck out
Step 5: Rinse and repeat till you meet an angel (Step 3)
Step 6: Get married, however during this stage Step 3 might occur - proceed to Step 4
Insurance: In any case a divorce is inevitable, get wife to commit adultery
Step 7: Win & repeat Step 1
Omg! no wonder Singapore tying knots rates is falling.
And how many times can u afford to repeat step 1, i wonder. By the time, u might be six foot underground. Why not get a nice gal and live happily ever after with a nice family.
Originally posted by elindra:I got to know my hubby when he was 29 also ma
At that time he was not earning much also and he don't hv a degree
But it's not like income will stay there forever
Anyway, most of my ex bfs r now all in their 30s n they are not married n not worried either. So take yr time. Seriously
Yes, take yr time, even after married, you go back to visit those ex bfs of yrs, what a blessing!
Originally posted by angel7030:Omg! no wonder Singapore tying knots rates is falling.
And how many times can u afford to repeat step 1, i wonder. By the time, u might be six foot underground. Why not get a nice gal and live happily ever after with a nice family.
Don't worry, I am a minority.
Originally posted by Gawddofwar:Don't worry, I am a minority.
not wrong with that. I have a close friend who choose to be together with the person she love. :) I still give them my blessings. Now they're happily together and learning each other's culture.
Talking about another country's culture, I'm taking Japanese language classes very soon.
Used to study japanese before but didnt complete it. Am hoping to finish it this time round.
Not just doing it for interest, but also hoping that it can boost my career options. Nowadays everywhere also degree holder, to have an edge, its seems like mastering another language is a form of competitive advantage. Saw quite a number of job adverts that jap language speakers can earn gross income of at least 50% more than the average degree holder leh.
Hopefully when I get my JLPT n1 will be able to get employment in a Japanese MNC or better still get a job overseas. But studying a language takes a lot of time, by the time I fully master it I'll be 30 something. Duno how much use it will help to boost my career by then.
Originally posted by angel7030:Omg! no wonder Singapore tying knots rates is falling.
And how many times can u afford to repeat step 1, i wonder. By the time, u might be six foot underground. Why not get a nice gal and live happily ever after with a nice family.
Omg, i cant even begin to tell you those guys that divorce more than once in the family court, how jia lat it is loh.
Imagine their assets already given half to the first spouse and now has to pay her monthly maintenance. Then now 2nd divorce happen, where the hell does the guy get so much $ to pay the 2nd spouse siah?
My judge told me before that the women's charter not just protect women interests but it protects men as well.
I almost wanna give him a double middle finger, but too bad the place is a court room
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:hais.
ur prob is u too eager liao.u can be eager, but dont show it.
I know u very eager for that Littlemissbonkers in that deep dark dungeon. So don't preach to people about eagerness.
Originally posted by ChoCoChips:hi welcome back.
happy barking like a dog.
Spare us yer sex fantasies. I know u like to make littlemissbonker bark like a dog when u do missionary position.
ChoCoChips got fans.
lol
Originally posted by ChoCoChips:learn to read leh
i say u are a dog.
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I know u like dogs, Mr Chocochips, bcause u miss littlemissbonker so badly tat u want somebody to bow forward in front of u on all fours so tat u can fook it.
Cannot tahan leh? Yer gambling addiction is getting the best of u, u want to release yer tension eh? Go to JB look for stray dogs, a lot of them there. Some more u can hide in the jungle n do yer biz wif them there.
Originally posted by angel7030:Aiya, Ah Xiao, today, being single is the fashion, only those outdate peoples go and get marry. If during my grandma days, if you said you are still single, people will laugh at you, today, if you said you are single, not attached, peoples said very normal lah. Me 22yo gal also single mah, my grandma said, last time for gal 22yo not married, meaning very old already, no body wants. But today, marrying at 22yo is a waste of my youth. Be cool lah, CNY, what is CNY in singapore, with so many foreigners, CNY become just a normal holidays, unlike my taiwan hometown, all celebrating and still hv the tradition and the feel of CNY.
Single forever..yeah!
angel the agony aunt,
u should go date all the lonely heart boyz in this forum and make them happy...
Originally posted by BadzMaro:ChoCoChips got fans.
lol
Yes the similanjiao chocochip got a lot of table fans.
He is obsess wif dogs bcause his parents all day bark at him like dogs due to his gambling habits.
He like to get spank by bonkers, tat is why he always talk about getting piak.
I at least try and finally success got galfren. Not like virgin Chocochip, always dig nose n spend time wif the monster divorcee bonkers.
See? see? He lose money oso want to see me drop my pants. Must be sex maniac tis cocochip cibaikia.
there is pros and cons in every situation, u cant have the cake and eat it (most of the time)..
u cant expect to have a wife that brings in the dough, yet is homely. because she is a human too, if u want her to cook, bake, clean , buy groceries, and fufill u, i dont think she would have enough time for all that, unless she doesnt sleep or is a superwoman.
if u get yourself a foreign bride, she might most probably be able to help u in all the household chores, but she cant bring in the dough for the first few years she is here. and probably if u want her to give birth, she might have to stay home to look after the kid.
the only good thing might be that, u get to choose the foreign bride. sg girls will choose u.
please dont take offence, with your standards and earnings, u are just a normal young urban professional single guys out there. u have no "speciality" over other guys, yet not that bad for u to resort to foreign brides.
upgrading yourself might be a plus to help u get girls, but there will be girls who will come after u for your standards and money then.. and girls u meet then will be more picky because they themselves might be as good as u, or even better than u.
u got to think thoroughly what kind of family life and wife u want in future. and go for it. because if u want to have kids in future , at 29 u should start a relationship. u dont want to be still earning a living to feed your kids at retirement age.
Originally posted by 4sg:angel the agony aunt,
u should go date all the lonely heart boyz in this forum and make them happy...
I beg yr pardon dear, I never promise those boys rose garden ya.
By the way, still boys meh?? well, life is short, play hard ya
Originally posted by Gerberad:there is pros and cons in every situation, u cant have the cake and eat it (most of the time)..
u cant expect to have a wife that brings in the dough, yet is homely. because she is a human too, if u want her to cook, bake, clean , buy groceries, and fufill u, i dont think she would have enough time for all that, unless she doesnt sleep or is a superwoman.
if u get yourself a foreign bride, she might most probably be able to help u in all the household chores, but she cant bring in the dough for the first few years she is here. and probably if u want her to give birth, she might have to stay home to look after the kid.
the only good thing might be that, u get to choose the foreign bride. sg girls will choose u.
please dont take offence, with your standards and earnings, u are just a normal young urban professional single guys out there. u have no "speciality" over other guys, yet not that bad for u to resort to foreign brides.
upgrading yourself might be a plus to help u get girls, but there will be girls who will come after u for your standards and money then.. and girls u meet then will be more picky because they themselves might be as good as u, or even better than u.
u got to think thoroughly what kind of family life and wife u want in future. and go for it. because if u want to have kids in future , at 29 u should start a relationship. u dont want to be still earning a living to feed your kids at retirement age.
Again, today, we our academics and career success, we gals do not wish to marry down, given a U degree, how on earth are we gals going to marry a ITE or poly guys, even if we agreed, our family might not agree to it, and more so, our fathers, who are also sg men, would want us to marry up instead of down.
ON the other hand, given today guys mentality, they also do not want to marry a gal that is above or same level as them, it will be a kind of lowering their men ego as the leader of the family, therefore they will much prefer those less educated or foreign gals so that they can show their machoism and male chauvinism to it extreme.
Originally posted by angel7030:
Again, today, we our academics and career success, we gals do not wish to marry down, given a U degree, how on earth are we gals going to marry a ITE or poly guys, even if we agreed, our family might not agree to it, and more so, our fathers, who are also sg men, would want us to marry up instead of down.ON the other hand, given today guys mentality, they also do not want to marry a gal that is above or same level as them, it will be a kind of lowering their men ego as the leader of the family, therefore they will much prefer those less educated or foreign gals so that they can show their machoism and male chauvinism to it extreme.
so sooner or later, most men will marry foreign less educated wives while women will seek local more educated men or foreign talents?
Originally posted by Gerberad:
so sooner or later, most men will marry foreign less educated wives while women will seek local more educated men or foreign talents?
seeking foreign wives is a risk, some make it well, some end up get cheated, so most sg guys rather remain single, takes single seat, single room, single scoop, single shot of expresso and single portion of foods.
For gals, once we are unable to marry up, we rather be single than to face a lower earning, less capable and educate man, lets be frank, forcing onself to marry will ultimately lead to divorce or break up. And most Singaporeans cannot take failure in life.
Originally posted by angel7030:
Yes, take yr time, even after married, you go back to visit those ex bfs of yrs, what a blessing!
We're all adults what
Still friends ma
Doesn't mean a relationship doesn't work out you can't be friends
Thanks for all the replies and suggestions. I really appreciate it. The nasty ones I like to just brush them off and dont let it affect me.
Yesterday I met up with 2 long lost buddies, same age, we practically gew up together. I felt rather down to learn that one of them is marrying at the end of the year and another has just began on a new relationship.
Not that I'm not happy for them, but its never a good feeling to know that u're left behind. The topics to talk about between us is changing, and you realize that less and less attention is put on you, you feel outcasted among the group.
Particularly at this age, when all other people around you are happily engaged while you are still single, the feeling of emptiness and loneliness just hits you twice and thrice as hard.
I know some will say why conform to society expectations or why give in to peer pressure. Yesterday my lady friend comforted me by telling me I'm a nice person, I look fine, I've got a decent education, I dont have to worry. But I like to say that I am just acting rationally as a human being at my age.
Some people can choose to be single but I cannot. It is not my choice to be single. I dont want to land myself in a state of denial. I dont want to procrastinate and have a large age gap between potential girls i can know. I have a lot of love to give and I long to be loved. I want to start my own family and have my own children. Its not something too much to ask for I think.
Originally posted by xiaogougou:Thanks for all the replies and suggestions. I really appreciate it. The nasty ones I like to just brush them off and dont let it affect me.
Yesterday I met up with 2 long lost buddies, same age, we practically gew up together. I felt rather down to learn that one of them is marrying at the end of the year and another has just began on a new relationship.
Not that I'm not happy for them, but its never a good feeling to know that u're left behind. The topics to talk about between us is changing, and you realize that less and less attention is put on you, you feel outcasted among the group.
Particularly at this age, when all other people around you are happily engaged while you are still single, the feeling of emptiness and loneliness just hits you twice and thrice as hard.
I know some will say why conform to society expectations or why give in to peer pressure. Yesterday my lady friend comforted me by telling me I'm a nice person, I look fine, I've got a decent education, I dont have to worry. But I like to say that I am just acting rationally as a human being at my age.
Some people can choose to be single but I cannot. It is not my choice to be single. I dont want to land myself in a state of denial. I dont want to procrastinate and have a large age gap between potential girls i can know. I have a lot of love to give and I long to be loved. I want to start my own family and have my own children. Its not something too much to ask for I think.
Hey, you are not any less of a person than yer frens. You are not handicap. You have two hands and two legs. You are a normal function person. So what have u to complain about?
It is not yer time yet to get married. Kapeesh?
Go enjoy life, meet more frens n get to know more people. Take initiative instead of complaining. I hear Chocochip complain all day long about the government and high prices like a barking dog but nothing get done for this ccb chocochip dude.
You will find the Miss Write so as long as you don't suffer an emotional breakdown. Yer state of panic, insecurity due to loneliness is scaring off potential partners. Be yerself and enjoy life.
Originally posted by xiaogougou:Thanks for all the replies and suggestions. I really appreciate it. The nasty ones I like to just brush them off and dont let it affect me.
Yesterday I met up with 2 long lost buddies, same age, we practically gew up together. I felt rather down to learn that one of them is marrying at the end of the year and another has just began on a new relationship.
Not that I'm not happy for them, but its never a good feeling to know that u're left behind. The topics to talk about between us is changing, and you realize that less and less attention is put on you, you feel outcasted among the group.
Particularly at this age, when all other people around you are happily engaged while you are still single, the feeling of emptiness and loneliness just hits you twice and thrice as hard.
I know some will say why conform to society expectations or why give in to peer pressure. Yesterday my lady friend comforted me by telling me I'm a nice person, I look fine, I've got a decent education, I dont have to worry. But I like to say that I am just acting rationally as a human being at my age.
Some people can choose to be single but I cannot. It is not my choice to be single. I dont want to land myself in a state of denial. I dont want to procrastinate and have a large age gap between potential girls i can know. I have a lot of love to give and I long to be loved. I want to start my own family and have my own children. Its not something too much to ask for I think.
Oh, no thank you for me,
The more desperado you are, the more longer you hv to wait.
Take it or leave it.