I want a relationship so bad =(
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
elindra jie jie, i dont think so loh.. my kiddish looks aside, what are the thresholds of a girl liking a guy older than her ?
A 23-26 year old girl will prefer a guy near her age rather than another thats in his 30s right?
Yes you are spot on about malaysian girls from which state. But we are singaporeans how to woo those far far away one wor. KL so far .. can woo also cannot maintain lah ..
But one drawback is that msian girls get attached very young one. You will find that its harder to find msian girls at their 20s who are still single than in spore loh.
Girls at 26 ~ 30... will look for a guy that is 5 years older than them due to maturity.
But of course, finanacial stability is the most important. Do you have a stable income? The phrase "no money, no honey" is true.This is post ar... Gawddofwar has offered real good advice.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
You are so certain got so 'zun' you'll be that suay meh ? I think viet wife you bring over she will be totally submissive to you because she cant speak the language here, she cant work, she has to totally rely on you.But mind you. A wife is not a slave leh. Girls have to be doted one.
Just now a female friend say I have a lot of respect for women. I take that as a compliment bah?
Yes, she's complimenting you.
Regarding about the viets thing.. I'm sure some at some moment, there sure must be a way of communicating. Simple english is good
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
elindra jie jie, i dont think so loh.. my kiddish looks aside, what are the thresholds of a girl liking a guy older than her ?
A 23-26 year old girl will prefer a guy near her age rather than another thats in his 30s right?
Yes you are spot on about malaysian girls from which state. But we are singaporeans how to woo those far far away one wor. KL so far .. can woo also cannot maintain lah ..
But one drawback is that msian girls get attached very young one. You will find that its harder to find msian girls at their 20s who are still single than in spore loh.
Not necessary.
My husband is 5 yrs older than me. I got married at 26. It really depends on the girl seriously.
My hubby has baby face also. Ppl still think he's in his 20s now
But it's ok I also hv baby face and just last week an aunty called me XIAO MEI -_- which school u in
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Your bank got chik ching or not? If your monthly salary is at least 5 digit, i suggest you don't get married forever, party your life away y'oll.
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Got a 40+ construction ah thiong come do my floor cement. First thing when I opened the door... he say "Uncle, we're doing the floor today". I'm 23.
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I am turning 30 soon liao, so maybe i can hope to find a gf that is minimum 25 years old, so what is this nonsense about I am a guy, I have plenty of time?
These 2 things self confidence and humour i know ah. Humour i have a lot. But the other, well .. theres some working on abt that gua ..
Ya i know no money, no honey. How stable is stable income?. I have a degree, i just earning what a normal degree holder earn loh. But I am not some rich guy, so I dun dare to put much hopes.
Its such a bummer feeling loh if you are being hiamed.
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Got a 40+ construction ah thiong come do my floor cement. First thing when I opened the door... he say "Uncle, we're doing the floor today". I'm 23.
Very Standard in Sg what. After serving NS you are a uncle, After giving birth you are an auntie.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
I am turning 30 soon liao, so maybe i can hope to find a gf that is minimum 25 years old, so what is this nonsense about I am a guy, I have plenty of time?
These 2 things self confidence and humour i know ah. Humour i have a lot. But the other, well .. theres some working on abt that gua ..
Ya i know no money, no honey. How stable is stable income?. I have a degree, i just earning what a normal degree holder earn loh. But I am not some rich guy, so I dun dare to put much hopes.
Its such a bummer feeling loh if you are being hiamed.
Did you even have a gf before?
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
I am turning 30 soon liao, so maybe i can hope to find a gf that is minimum 25 years old, so what is this nonsense about I am a guy, I have plenty of time?
These 2 things self confidence and humour i know ah. Humour i have a lot. But the other, well .. theres some working on abt that gua ..
Ya i know no money, no honey. How stable is stable income?. I have a degree, i just earning what a normal degree holder earn loh. But I am not some rich guy, so I dun dare to put much hopes.
Its such a bummer feeling loh if you are being hiamed.
I got to know my hubby when he was 29 also ma
At that time he was not earning much also and he don't hv a degree
But it's not like income will stay there forever
Anyway, most of my ex bfs r now all in their 30s n they are not married n not worried either. So take yr time. Seriously
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Got a 40+ construction ah thiong come do my floor cement. First thing when I opened the door... he say "Uncle, we're doing the floor today". I'm 23.
Wah kao .. hey you are still so darn young, why are you thinking about getting viet wife so early?I am so much older than you, i know i dont look it la, but I havent even thought of getting a foreign wife yet then you are thinking of it. Dont make me feel miserable leh.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
So I am turning 30 soon liao, so maybe i can hope to find a gf that is minimum 25 years old, so what is this nonsense about I am a guy, I have plenty of time?
These 2 things self confidence and humour i know ah. Humour i have a lot. But the other, well .. theres some working on abt that gua ..
Ya i know no money, no honey. How stable is stable income?. I have a degree, i just earning what a normal degree holder earn loh. But I am not some rich guy, so I dun dare to put much hopes.
Its such a bummer feeling loh if you are being hiamed.
Good! That's stable. Level unlocked. Proceed to second stage.A dating experts once said that to me, that you should spend 30% of your time meeting new people. I respectfully agree to what he said, and I really tried it out. the result was good.
I went to tagged.com and meet some new friends. 90% of the guys at Tag are preverts and sicko. But I'm sure you'll be able to date a girl at 25~ 28. I tried dated a few girls (18~ 20) and it seems good.
Usually is some dinner and movie~ but nothing developed further than that because of my work committment issues (i own a tiny biz). Now... no contact ler.. -
Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Wah kao .. hey you are still so darn young, why are you thinking about getting viet wife so early?I am so much older than you, i know i dont look it la, but I havent even thought of getting a foreign wife yet then you are thinking of it. Dont make me feel miserable leh.
Eh, i ask you qns can answer first? You got GF Before? If you have then it's pretty normal and you need not worry but if you don't have than really big prob liao.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Wah kao .. hey you are still so darn young, why are you thinking about getting viet wife so early?I am so much older than you, i know i dont look it la, but I havent even thought of getting a foreign wife yet then you are thinking of it. Dont make me feel miserable leh.
Don't feel this way bro!~
My hope of finding a sg partner are diminishing each day... everyday I went to town and city for meeting.. i can't help to think how materialistic our girls are.. *in fact, i might have developed a phobia of going to town just because i do not like how I think about girls* -
Originally posted by FlyingDijon:
Eh, i ask you qns can answer first? You got GF Before? If you have then it's pretty normal and you need not worry but if you don't have than really big prob liao.
Page 3 I think... he replied
How long since i dated a girl? Ermmm ... 1 month ?
How long since last gf ? About 2 years ..?
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NO prob lor, normal, 100% normal. Just got some social issue, go meet some ppl la, not everyone will bite one.
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Originally posted by FlyingDijon:
Eh, i ask you qns can answer first? You got GF Before? If you have then it's pretty normal and you need not worry but if you don't have than really big prob liao.
Aiyo bro, this is page 5, ppl in page 1 or 2 already ask me this. You can read in front ma, I dun like to reply repeated ques la.But just for yr sake, of course have got ex-gf before la. Wah lau eh .. at this age no gf before I zek tao become a laughing stock from jb til batam liao.
Yet thats not the point mah. 都说是 ex gf le. Already over le, now no gf, then is the sad part leh.
Darkness, tagged.com? I am also a member there leh, but i thought a lot of the ladies that post there are fake ones. How did u manage to date a few out? Give a few pointers leh.
I am also a member of this match.com. Everyday send me this 'your matches today' email one. Damn frustrating. But there are a lot of pictures of local girls inside. I cant really determine if this site is genuine anot because need to pay money one. I dont want i subscribe and pay $ liao the thing turns out to be a dud, i will really sian 1/2.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Elindra, I dont mean me lah.
I am smart enough to stay away from those girls whom I know will play the 'hard to get' game.
When a girl plays hard to get, she is testing how far you will go. However, you have to differentiate between "playing hard to get" and "just not interested".
Most above average girls usually plays hard to get to "filter" their suitors, girls always want you to work for it, those that give up too easily because they lack confidence always go home sulking "nah, she's too good for me, not worth the time."
Girls look for the alpha male who makes his own rules, if you find yourself backing away too easily - your not getting any pie.
When you are positive that they are playing this game, just apply the "ignore the fuck out of her" theory.
When you play the game right, you will know when it is the right time to be the guy to end the conversation and the one to not reply, not the other way around - waiting for her reply.
If you are confident you made an attraction, just apply this without holding back, she will reply (I can assure you).
Personally, I never thought about marriage so I cannot help you with the marriage part. I am only telling you... well, how to get laid and get into a relationship (maybe). Whatever nationality a woman is, she is ultimately still a woman, play your cards right and you will get them.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Aiyo bro, this is page 5, ppl in page 1 or 2 already ask me this. You can read in front ma, I dun like to reply repeated ques la.But just for yr sake, of course have got ex-gf before la. Wah lau eh .. at this age no gf before I zek tao become a laughing stock from jb til batam liao.
Yet thats not the point mah. 都说是 ex gf le. Already over le, now no gf, then is the sad part leh.
Darkness, tagged.com? I am also a member there leh, but i thought a lot of the ladies that post there are fake ones. How did u manage to date a few out? Give a few pointers leh.
I am also a member of this match.com. Everyday send me this 'your matches today' email one. Damn frustrating. But there are a lot of pictures of local girls inside. I cant really determine if this site is genuine anot because need to pay money one. I dont want i subscribe and pay $ liao the thing turns out to be a dud, i will really sian 1/2.
WTH? you meet people need use the net one arh? Like that very despo style leh. Girls don't like despo guys, all the dating site the girls either look like Susan Boyle or their age expire liao. You mean like you never make any female friend during your schooling days or working days? Female friends are really good because they are able to introdue more female friends that may suit you. If you feel like you look like some small kid than do something about it. eg. like working out to look good and keep fit or maybe taking more time to doll yourself up. And you say you have a degree salary so i presume it's a 4 digit salary, use your money to buy like some branded stuff to make you confident and make you look attractive and maybe you can dye your hair. When girls talk to you play the hard to get game, but be suave at the same time. I promise you will be hitch in two weeks. If it work out right i expect a big ang bao for being your love guru.
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Originally posted by FlyingDijon:
WTH? you meet people need use the net one arh? Like that very despo style leh. Girls don't like despo guys, all the dating site the girls either look like Susan Boyle or their age expire liao. You mean like you never make any female friend during your schooling days or working days? Female friends are really good because they are able to introdue more female friends that may suit you. If you feel like you look like some small kid than do something about it. eg. like working out to look good and keep fit or maybe taking more time to doll yourself up. And you say you have a degree salary so i presume it's a 4 digit salary, use your money to buy like some branded stuff to make you confident and make you look attractive and maybe you can dye your hair. When girls talk to you play the hard to get game, but be suave at the same time. I promise you will be hitch in two weeks. If it work out right i expect a big ang bao for being your love guru.
Bro, I am just asking Darkness if he can teach how he ask girls out from the net. Nothing wrong with that gua ..
Well, 90% of my friends are girls and I said earlier theres a female friend who promise to help me look out for potential gfs loh.
4 digit salary? 1k also is a 4 digit salary mah {=_="}
Well.. I am definitely going to change my dress code and adapt a different demeanour. I realise that once I dress more maturely, my female colleagues actually compliment me that I look good and smart. I hope to make myself a blend between a boy and dressing maturely bah. Act cool play hard to get I will try that a bit too.
Ang bao ah? Wait til I bull's eye a gf 1st loh. Maybe can treat some of u guys to a meal. One plate of chicken rice each.
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Aiyo bro, this is page 5, ppl in page 1 or 2 already ask me this. You can read in front ma, I dun like to reply repeated ques la.But just for yr sake, of course have got ex-gf before la. Wah lau eh .. at this age no gf before I zek tao become a laughing stock from jb til batam liao.
Yet thats not the point mah. 都说是 ex gf le. Already over le, now no gf, then is the sad part leh.
Darkness, tagged.com? I am also a member there leh, but i thought a lot of the ladies that post there are fake ones. How did u manage to date a few out? Give a few pointers leh.
I am also a member of this match.com. Everyday send me this 'your matches today' email one. Damn frustrating. But there are a lot of pictures of local girls inside. I cant really determine if this site is genuine anot because need to pay money one. I dont want i subscribe and pay $ liao the thing turns out to be a dud, i will really sian 1/2.
I teach you one skill lah.Those ladies with above 350+ friends, you can delete off them liao. Chance of dating them out is near impossible. You might have seen people with 1000+ friends? those anyone add one lah~ =.=""
Those that I date out ones are shy ones with less than 150 friends. Those are the real human beings. :) Send them a message to intro yourself to them. Best if you be genuine (tell them as much about you, show them that you're really want to make friends). If you want love, you will need to become their friend. If you want to become their friend, you need to show them genuinely that you're willing to make friends.
Constant communication. Once you've found those girls with less than 150 friends, the next time is to create a regular communication. When the girl feels comfortable abour you, she'll give you her number. SMS and MSN is good, but I personally prefer SMS. From there, keep texting her regularly for two weeks before further developing. After all, there's no harm having lunch with a girl and getting to know your friend.
Don't pester them because they might not feel comfortable going out with "stranger online friends". Do you best in grooming and act natural. Smile!!! If first lunch date is successful, then make a second date. Relationship this kind of thing must have feelings de. Best is ask her after the third/fourth date. See if she have feelings for you or not. <3
The rest next time I continue type~
I don't use match.com.Another one that is local dating website I use is lovestruck.com (finding who's having lunch nearby, and arrange a lunch date/meeting with them). Personally I feel that the subscription is quite expensive, but the people there are all genuine. So I am recommending you lovestruck for the genuine people.
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Originally posted by FlyingDijon:
WTH? you meet people need use the net one arh? Like that very despo style leh. Girls don't like despo guys, all the dating site the girls either look like Susan Boyle or their age expire liao. You mean like you never make any female friend during your schooling days or working days? Female friends are really good because they are able to introdue more female friends that may suit you. If you feel like you look like some small kid than do something about it. eg. like working out to look good and keep fit or maybe taking more time to doll yourself up. And you say you have a degree salary so i presume it's a 4 digit salary, use your money to buy like some branded stuff to make you confident and make you look attractive and maybe you can dye your hair. When girls talk to you play the hard to get game, but be suave at the same time. I promise you will be hitch in two weeks. If it work out right i expect a big ang bao for being your love guru.
Nothing wrong with picking up girls on the net. Fuck dating sites, Facebook is your hunting ground.
Also if you have more female friends compared to male, it's not a good sign, you are entering friend zone.
Don't concentrate on one girl to be your girlfriend, allow yourself to have various potential dating partners, so you won't seem desperate.
Step 1: Multiple dating
Step 2: Filter for a exclusive relationship aka girlfriend
Step 3: Discover if she's a bitch or an angel
Step 4: If she's a bitch, get the fuck out
Step 5: Rinse and repeat till you meet an angel (Step 3)
Step 6: Get married, however during this stage Step 3 might occur - proceed to Step 4
Insurance: In any case a divorce is inevitable, get wife to commit adultery
Step 7: Win & repeat Step 1
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Bro, I am just asking Darkness if he can teach how he ask girls out from the net. Nothing wrong with that gua ..
Well, 90% of my friends are girls and I said earlier theres a female friend who promise to help me look out for potential gfs loh.
4 digit salary? 1k also is a 4 digit salary mah {=_="}
Well.. I am definitely going to change my dress code and adapt a different demeanour. I realise that once I dress more maturely, my female colleagues actually compliment me that I look good and smart. I hope to make myself a blend between a boy and dressing maturely bah. Act cool play hard to get I will try that a bit too.
Ang bao ah? Wait til I bull's eye a gf 1st loh. Maybe can treat some of u guys to a meal. One plate of chicken rice each.
thx bro
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Originally posted by Gawddofwar:
Nothing wrong with picking up girls on the net. Fuck dating sites, Facebook is your hunting ground.
Also if you have more female friends compared to male, it's not a good sign, you are entering friend zone.
Don't concentrate on one girl to be your girlfriend, allow yourself to have various potential dating partners, so you won't seem desperate.
Step 1: Multiple dating
Step 2: Filter for a exclusive relationship aka girlfriend
Step 3: Discover if she's a bitch or an angel
Step 4: If she's a bitch, get the fuck out
Step 5: Rinse and repeat till you meet an angel (Step 3)
Step 6: Get married, however during this stage Step 3 might occur - proceed to Step 4
Insurance: In any case a divorce is inevitable, get wife to commit adultery
Step 7: Win & repeat Step 1
Women's Chartered side women. Even if she commit adultery, you still need to give her half of your asset unless the judge feels that her action does not deserve the maintainance fee. -
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Women's Chartered side women. Even if she commit adultery, you still need to give her half of your asset unless the judge feels that her action does not deserve the maintainance fee.They don't teach you brainstorming in school for nothing.
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
knn just date angel7030 out will do lah, she will bring you all the pain, excitment, fun, torture, drive, and you will shorten 10 years of lifespan through spending 1month with her, but you will grow up fast, and learn the spect of life.at the same time prepare lots of cash $$$$$$$$$$$$$$
she - �大油的。。。。。 (i think loh )
no offence hoh
Precisely, dun even need a month, just visit me, and you will walk out a new freshman. Ya, i drove a 2.4L