I want a relationship so bad =(
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asdasd
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I made an account just to reply to you as you are plain pathetic. I was searching for my ns stuff but you are just sad. So I am going to help you. Follow my list below.
Things you need to do for yourself:
1) Most important thing you need to work on now is your confidence. Do up your hair, wear perfume, go to the gym and good clothes (please ask friends' opinion). I will recommend Zara as a starter. But eventually, as long as you feel good, nothing else matters.
Walk with your back straight up, head held up, never look down. Always sit in a relaxed position, talk in a smooth and slow tone, not too slow but calm.
2) Start talking to the little people (cleaners, security guard, stall owners, etc). Make yourself known to the people of places you frequent.
Let me give you a situation, because you made an effort to know people of a place you frequent say - Mcdonalds. You enter the restaurant and people starts saying hi to you, you know the manager and staff. A chic at the corner might be dying to know who you are, popular people get laid, you have to start small and build your way up.
When you have the confidence to strike up conversation with people without shaking like a retard, you are ready to talk to women. Don't ask for their number first, just talk to them and get familiar with that feeling.
3) Build your "aura". Since you are 29, the bad boy aura doesn't really work as a charm since women your age matured quite a bit. BUT REMEMBER BAD IS GOOD IN THE EYES OF WOMEN, you can figure out how much bad you need. So I recommend the stable(income)/mysterious attitude. Mysterious does not mean you go home and do shit in your basement. I will give you an example of being mysterious.
When a women ask you what do you do for a living, answer "You can't handle it." There are various replies but you shall learn them yourself.
4) Read horoscope, I know most people are skeptical to this, but that is good for you. Since you might be the few that actually reads it, it gives you a headstart. Horoscopes are not 100% but they are 50% - 90%. ONLY read personality and behaivour horoscope, DO NOT READ DAILY HOROSCOPES.
Point being, daily horoscope gives you that mentality that what happens in the horoscope is actually going to happen to you. So you subconciously think it's going to happen to you and act that way. Do not under estimate your subconcious - you think you lose, you lose.
5) When you finally get a number or get a date, the initial interval for replies are hours. DO NOT REPLY IMMEDIATELY. Also, always be the one to end the conversation and act like you are busy. In the game of women, you have to act, women act pretty damm well, you just have to act better.
Ignoring a woman certain extend will drive her crazy, if you just got dumped the best way to get her back is to ignore the fuck out of her and give her time to miss you. Seriously, many do not agree but well it's your choice.
6) Different women has different taste, that is why read the horoscope. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE STAR YOU ARE BORN UNDER. Dress according to the type of woman you are dating or want to attract, some women like men with collar shirts, some like tank tops.
NOW....
I can write a book to teach you how to totally sweep a woman off, but these are good enough to get you started. It's totally up to you to believe me, I just stated some points for you.
THE WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR MEN GROWS AS THEY AGE (Total opposite of women, so cheer up)
Women look for 2 things in a guy - CONFIDENCE & SENSE OF HUMOUR. Work on both of these.
ps: You have a decent command of english, good point. Now go, I will come back and give you more tips if I have the time.
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long reply wor~ :-D
Use all the points mentioned by the guy above me and look for a foreign lady. Trust me, SG ladies not worth your time.
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Please don't get married. You don't have experience dating or spotting the right girl
Marry the wrong girl = divorce = EXPENSIVE
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Originally posted by alize:
Please don't get married. You don't have experience dating or spotting the right girl
Marry the wrong girl = divorce = EXPENSIVE
x2If you want.. you can date the girl for as long as you like.
It's really expensive to get a divorce in Singapore, especially our women's chartered is designed to rip man's wallet. -
let me share a quote.
Women will always cost, but marriage is the most expensive way to go. If you want to pay for it, go to Australia. For a hundred bucks you can order a whore over the phone. Half an hour later she arrives at your door... Fresh and hot, like a pizza.
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well said....
not all gals are realistic....i rather use "most"....
this system is overemphasizing with a pretence that all is well on the ground...
there is a greater fear of commitment now than ever with a lopsided gender policy
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
well said....
not all gals are realistic....i rather use "most"....
this system is overemphasizing with a pretence that all is well on the ground...
there is a greater fear of commitment now than ever with a lopsided gender policy
You're one of us.
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this is the most honest statement...
something needs to be done with an ignorant system..they thought they are doing great with such gender policy...
they know not what is brewing on the ground
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Why do you think the PMinisterial couple are still married?
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royal marriages are built on fairy tales and public image
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the truth is on the ground
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all high flown idealistic policies to spruce up marriage commitments and fertility has all failed...
their stethoscope has not touched on the notes from underground
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
I so much want to love someone and want somebody to love me too.
I always pretend to a different person in front of everybody, but deep down I am very hurt and sad.
I am 29 years old but I look like I am a 16-18 year old boy.
Everytime I see other people happy together, my heart feel very sour and sorrowful, and I just want to find one corner to hide and cry.
I always hold back tears and dont know where and who I belong to.
Where is my happiness? Nobody is willing to love me mah? {T_T}
knn just date angel7030 out will do lah, she will bring you all the pain, excitment, fun, torture, drive, and you will shorten 10 years of lifespan through spending 1month with her, but you will grow up fast, and learn the spect of life.at the same time prepare lots of cash $$$$$$$$$$$$$$
she - �大油的。。。。。 (i think loh )
no offence hoh
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I know the divorce situation very well because I've worked in Family Court before.
Every single day I see couples divorce. All past relationships are left behind, all thats remains is a fight for maintenance, the house, the car, the kid.
The drama that enacts everyday is surreal. Its like a TVB episode unfolding before your very eyes. All the shouting, finger pointing, crying, begging.
Ya i have to agree the woman's charter is really detrimental towards guys. Judgement tend to favour the women. When the woman is vicious, its very scary. I find myself having to console despondent fellows after a divorce hearing.
Really, its very depressing to be seeing this everyday. Its a miracle that I could still harbour positive aspirations towards marriage.
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Darkness, so did you marry a foreign bride?
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How long since you dated a girl, and how long since you had a gf?
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How long since i dated a girl? Ermmm ... 1 month ?
How long since last gf ? About 2 years ..?
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Let me guess, you dated someone Sh****n Tan is it?
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Whos that?
What toking you?
You toking what?
What you toking?
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Originally posted by Gawddofwar:
I made an account just to reply to you as you are plain pathetic. I was searching for my ns stuff but you are just sad. So I am going to help you. Follow my list below.
Things you need to do for yourself:
1) Most important thing you need to work on now is your confidence. Do up your hair, wear perfume, go to the gym and good clothes (please ask friends' opinion). I will recommend Zara as a starter. But eventually, as long as you feel good, nothing else matters.
Walk with your back straight up, head held up, never look down. Always sit in a relaxed position, talk in a smooth and slow tone, not too slow but calm.
2) Start talking to the little people (cleaners, security guard, stall owners, etc). Make yourself known to the people of places you frequent.
Let me give you a situation, because you made an effort to know people of a place you frequent say - Mcdonalds. You enter the restaurant and people starts saying hi to you, you know the manager and staff. A chic at the corner might be dying to know who you are, popular people get laid, you have to start small and build your way up.
When you have the confidence to strike up conversation with people without shaking like a retard, you are ready to talk to women. Don't ask for their number first, just talk to them and get familiar with that feeling.
3) Build your "aura". Since you are 29, the bad boy aura doesn't really work as a charm since women your age matured quite a bit. BUT REMEMBER BAD IS GOOD IN THE EYES OF WOMEN, you can figure out how much bad you need. So I recommend the stable(income)/mysterious attitude. Mysterious does not mean you go home and do shit in your basement. I will give you an example of being mysterious.
When a women ask you what do you do for a living, answer "You can't handle it." There are various replies but you shall learn them yourself.
4) Read horoscope, I know most people are skeptical to this, but that is good for you. Since you might be the few that actually reads it, it gives you a headstart. Horoscopes are not 100% but they are 50% - 90%. ONLY read personality and behaivour horoscope, DO NOT READ DAILY HOROSCOPES.
Point being, daily horoscope gives you that mentality that what happens in the horoscope is actually going to happen to you. So you subconciously think it's going to happen to you and act that way. Do not under estimate your subconcious - you think you lose, you lose.
5) When you finally get a number or get a date, the initial interval for replies are hours. DO NOT REPLY IMMEDIATELY. Also, always be the one to end the conversation and act like you are busy. In the game of women, you have to act, women act pretty damm well, you just have to act better.
Ignoring a woman certain extend will drive her crazy, if you just got dumped the best way to get her back is to ignore the fuck out of her and give her time to miss you. Seriously, many do not agree but well it's your choice.
6) Different women has different taste, that is why read the horoscope. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE STAR YOU ARE BORN UNDER. Dress according to the type of woman you are dating or want to attract, some women like men with collar shirts, some like tank tops.
NOW....
I can write a book to teach you how to totally sweep a woman off, but these are good enough to get you started. It's totally up to you to believe me, I just stated some points for you.
THE WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR MEN GROWS AS THEY AGE (Total opposite of women, so cheer up)
Women look for 2 things in a guy - CONFIDENCE & SENSE OF HUMOUR. Work on both of these.
ps: You have a decent command of english, good point. Now go, I will come back and give you more tips if I have the time.
Pretty much sums up everything though I'm skeptical about the horoscope bit
The CONFIDENCE & SENSE OF HUMOUR is pretty much what it is
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Originally posted by xiaogougou:
Darkness, so did you marry a foreign bride?
no I did not. but judging from the current situation and it's direction.... it's sooner or later kinda of decision that I'll have to make (i.e. foreign bride). It's not that our local girl is not up to the standard... it's just that it's so much easier to find a homely wife in viet than sg. -
But you have to be aware that a vietnam bride cant work leh. She cannot provide additional income for the family like a sg gal can.
You are not worried about other ppl gossiping behind your back meh ..?
Like you are a loser have to resort to marry a vietnam bride .. yr wife is use $ buy back one.
Singaporeans can be so harsh and insensitive with their words loh. Even to their own kind.
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Different family culture will interpret it differently wor!
The one that you just mentioned is generally public opinion~ =.=" My family is all understanding de~ and perhaps our "asian thing" influence, we actually prefer a more homely partner! -
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Different family culture will interpret it differently wor!
The one that you just mentioned is
generally public opinion~ =.=" My family is all understanding de~
and perhaps our "asian thing" influence, we
actually prefer a more homely partner!Exactly. fuck care those insensitive ppl. you happy, can already.