Originally posted by xiaogougou:Nelstar, I am also short. 1.62m also. Thats why I say I look like a small boy.
The difference is: your friend is happily married, I'm not.
I'm not blaming my looks, but why wont I be sad over it?
Girls that are young, although I look similar to their age, but I'm not. They wont like me cos i am too old for them. Girls of my age will look at me as a small boy.
Why wont I be despondent over it?
Angel, 22 year old is still so young, why are you comparing it with me 29 yr old, going to 30? Your point makes no point loh.
My eyes almost roll to the back of my head loh.
Uncle, My plan is to cheer you up, smile lah.
Age should not be a barrier, do not marry or get into relationship just because of peer pressure or simply, for convienences sake, you will regret once thing dun work out. Relax and be yourself, takes whatever come along, if fated to be single, so be it, single got it good pts too, can go here and there, if you ask most married uncles, they most likely will cherish being single again.
Life is like this, once you have not taste the cherry, you so wanted to taste, once you tasted it, you might regret tasted it.
As a man, short or tall, big or small, long or short, he must learn to hv confident in himself, we gal look for confident in guy, the manly style, not those sissy or someone who get lousy so easily over small problem or some guys who get angry for nothing. Handsome, good looking and sizes could be a factor at the initial, by all these dun last, we look for a guy who can be with us, love us, care for us, and protect us for ever, not the handsome who go around and sleep with other girls, the big sizes but no brain and the rich but got 10 mistresses ya
i am 182cm and i wanna be 4cm shorter.cos my gf is 165cm and her chin always hit my shoulder and complain pain pain pain when we wlak side by side.
self confident is a must TS.no self confident jus fk off and go fk spider for life till the day u die
Ask yr gf to wear boxing face mask lah
Being short and youthful looking does not prevent relationship. Not all women are looking for looks.
Maybe initial stages are harder, but after "getting to know you" phase is over, i think it is how much you connect emotionally with them.
Being despondent does not help. Neither does it change anything.
MRT track lor
Originally posted by angel7030:MRT track lor
�好笑。 {=_="}
When I was 16 years old, I look like 12. I did not get the girl I liked.
I also knew I would miss out on all the good things in life, so I just became thick skinned and started dating, loh.
At first, I looked stupid and made many mistakes. I did not meet the girl I liked, and luckily I did not cos I changed. 4 different girls my age called me a little kid. Just learn on the way, practice makes perfect and you will be able to treat the right girl right, good right. What are you afraid of.
Bro, please leh. You were 16, now i am 29, turning 30 le leh. Ex gf I also have.. But that was then, and this is now.
If i minus 10 years my age, I also �怕�,乌龟怕�锤 lahhhh. But now i very 怕怕 oredi.
越想越 sian. 法克~
Lose face abit also won't die what. I know you are tired lah, but still must take risks and suffer pain to go forward. Why not consider younger girls? I can tell you if you find someone of uni age, they will look up to you and be very loyal to you.
The girl who will love you with all her heart is waiting for you.
You scared of what?
scared of rejection or scared to even try?
Why are you scared?
Is this some kind of ifeelinferiorcosmybabyface=smallprick?
Actually horr ... I got a lot of �浪漫 ideas. But they are seriously childish loh. Dont dare to use.
Ya loh, 我怕到�命 =P
Ok since your phobia is getting the better of you, you need to see IMH to overcome it.
They have specialist who deal with traumatic experiences and phobia. Professional services may help.
Yucks, those IMH doctors or counsellors are just 'jiak liao bi' one. They are like a bunch of politician liars.
Talking to them is a waste of time because at the end of the day they cannot do anything to help you. 他们�会讲废�。
I think i no trauma, see them already also will get trauma.
Need to depend on them, 倒ä¸�如é� 自己更好.
No need la, just go to SDN. They will pair you with someone suitable, you will never be scared of her.
It's cheap or free, they just want you to make a baby. Don't make also nvm.
Haha, SDN just opened at my ex workplace SCAPE loh.
What do you mean they will just pair you with someone? I thought their methodology is you go and join a specific event and 'HOPE' to meet someone of your interest in the event. I dun think SDN has pairing service leh. If have, should have tonnes of ppl queue up 了呱?
Also, people tend to go match making events with a checklist one. You dont fulfil a criteria in the checklist then you get strike off le. 我���呢.
i think even if you area married, you wont be happy
then might as well as dont married and drag other ppl into yr unhappiness
i believe even if you manage to befriend a GF later, she might leave you because i sence its yr attitude that is destroying you.
from the yr post all you can do is look down on yrselft and KPKB at the sky
我问天~���我问天~���
change yr attitude about life and yu might see a change in yr life.
When you get into one, you want out.
Originally posted by xiaogougou:Haha, SDN just opened at my ex workplace SCAPE loh.
What do you mean they will just pair you with someone? I thought their methodology is you go and join a specific event and 'HOPE' to meet someone of your interest in the event. I dun think SDN has pairing service leh. If have, should have tonnes of ppl queue up 了呱?
Also, people tend to go match making events with a checklist one. You dont fulfil a criteria in the checklist then you get strike off le. 我���呢.
So you go there with no checklist? If you don't stand for something, you fall for everything.
Originally posted by Hwaimeng:i think even if you area married, you wont be happy
then might as well as dont married and drag other ppl into yr unhappiness
i believe even if you manage to befriend a GF later, she might leave you because i sence its yr attitude that is destroying you.
from the yr post all you can do is look down on yrselft and KPKB at the sky
我问天~���我问天~���
change yr attitude about life and yu might see a change in yr life.
我问天~���我问天, after that, TS look at MRT track, then all problem solved
Originally posted by xiaogougou:Haha, SDN just opened at my ex workplace SCAPE loh.
What do you mean they will just pair you with someone? I thought their methodology is you go and join a specific event and 'HOPE' to meet someone of your interest in the event. I dun think SDN has pairing service leh. If have, should have tonnes of ppl queue up 了呱?
Also, people tend to go match making events with a checklist one. You dont fulfil a criteria in the checklist then you get strike off le. 我���呢.
Ah Xiao, you like this cannot, like that also cannot, be ah gua lah,
Originally posted by xiaogougou:Yucks, those IMH doctors or counsellors are just 'jiak liao bi' one. They are like a bunch of politician liars.
Talking to them is a waste of time because at the end of the day they cannot do anything to help you. 他们�会讲废�。
I think i no trauma, see them already also will get trauma.
Need to depend on them, 倒ä¸�如é� 自己更好.
Ah xiao, you seem unable to accept this and that, my advice is be a ah gua better, no one will bother you once you become a Ah Gua
Originally posted by angel7030:Ah xiao, you seem unable to accept this and that, my advice is be a ah gua better, no one will bother you once you become a Ah Gua
got... those aways visit the ah gua street.................................... looking for a cheap $20 release.................