What does this mean abt my ex-bf?

• Simple~Gal

  31 Mar 11, 12:14

  Your ex-bf just likes to create an inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community with the primary intent of "provoking other users into a desired emotional response." Tactical ignoring is a behavioral management strategy used in response to challenging behavior that seeks to receive attention or to gain a reaction. It is a commonly used strategy "when the person displaying the attention-seeking behavior still feels rewarded by a negative response."

   

  Er... what does this mean? my friends said my ex are like this. She put up all these sentences and let me to figure it out. btw i just broke up with my ex. And they all hate them ._.

   

  anyway, can someone please tell me what does this really mean? is it because im stupid to hang out with him?

• elindra

  31 Mar 11, 12:16

  Basically she is saying yr ex is a forum troll  and the best thing to do is ignore him

   Anyway, I think yr friend did a "copy & paste" on you

• Crumpler SG

  31 Mar 11, 12:19

  time to use some male syrup to stop this nonsense

• FireIce

  31 Mar 11, 12:23

  wow, ur ex is hitman?

• Nelstar

  31 Mar 11, 12:23

  Originally posted by Simple~Gal:

  Your ex-bf just likes to create an inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community with the primary intent of "provoking other users into a desired emotional response." Tactical ignoring is a behavioral management strategy used in response to challenging behavior that seeks to receive attention or to gain a reaction. It is a commonly used strategy "when the person displaying the attention-seeking behavior still feels rewarded by a negative response."

   

  Er... what does this mean? my friends said my ex are like this. She put up all these sentences and let me to figure it out. btw i just broke up with my ex. And they all hate them ._.

   

  anyway, can someone please tell me what does this really mean? is it because im stupid to hang out with him?

  let's just say, he is anti-social.

  

• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  31 Mar 11, 12:35

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  wow, ur ex is hitman?

  
  

• likeyou

  31 Mar 11, 12:39

  Yr bf got mental problem. That's what I can say.

• AYYX

  31 Mar 11, 13:04

  Your friends are simply trying to tell you......

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  ...... in a not-so-simple way that your choice of BF quite jialat...   

• likeyou

  31 Mar 11, 13:06

  The only thing ts can do is IGNORE yr ex.

  Or to the extreme, report police.

• angel7030

  31 Mar 11, 13:19

  Report police, u must be joking, it is not a crime to troll and seek attention lah, police will be

• mardiana

  31 Mar 11, 13:36

  if u want to irritate him more, u just ignore. over time he will get bored doing it ayway

• likeyou

  31 Mar 11, 13:37

  Originally posted by mardiana:

  if u want to irritate him more, u just ignore. over time he will get bored doing it ayway

  
  Sensible thing to do.

• Hwaimeng

  31 Mar 11, 17:03

  whahaha those experiance will teach you

• coffeebreak

  1 Apr 11, 11:34

  Originally posted by Simple~Gal:

  Your ex-bf just likes to create an inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community with the primary intent of "provoking other users into a desired emotional response." Tactical ignoring is a behavioral management strategy used in response to challenging behavior that seeks to receive attention or to gain a reaction. It is a commonly used strategy "when the person displaying the attention-seeking behavior still feels rewarded by a negative response."

  tactical ignoring.....  i like that...... i should try that next time as well ....

  basically... your friends are telling you to just ignore your ex. he is not worth it

• Hitman Submarine

  1 Apr 11, 15:01

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  wow, ur ex is hitman?

  
  thats not hitman with gal frend.....hitman at werk is hardly like dat but hitman with galfrend would be kamasutra till next century everyday too many mind blowing positions with galfrend!

  u are deeeply mistakened!

• BadzMaro

  1 Apr 11, 15:04

  *raises hand*

  Q) Met ur ex in forums?

  hehehe

• jojobeach

  3 Apr 11, 00:47

  In simple term,

  Your boyfriend is a troll lah... the more you respond/react, the more he is enabled to do more lah.

  He wants attention lah.. postitive ones he cannot get ( love, admiration, approval) .. so he try to get negative attention lah ( hate,  dislike, disapproval).  Anything that will make people pay attention to him lah.

  He is attention crazy lah, he needs to grow up. Understand ?

   

• jojobeach

  3 Apr 11, 00:48

  edit: double post.

• Clarissa@sg

  3 Apr 11, 12:10

  Mayb he is a codependent Boyfriend. He needs attention.
• benqepson

  3 Apr 11, 17:52

  maybe he needs his mama.

• angel7030

  4 Apr 11, 09:54

  ya, his mama's son

• Simple~Gal

  5 Apr 11, 12:51

  o.o wow. i never knew people do that. luckily i broke up with him. thanks guys ^^

• AYYX

  5 Apr 11, 13:17

  You're welcome. We're glad for you as well.  

• gigabyte14

  5 Apr 11, 15:19

  broke up liao

  still think so much for fk

• likeyou

  5 Apr 11, 16:14

  ts bf is very childish! Inmature.