Feeling so empty and lonely.Anyone here is like this?

• Summer120706

  29 Mar 11, 20:43

  Life feels so meaningless at times. How you deal with that?

• Summer120706

  29 Mar 11, 20:44

  Does buying a pet dog help?

• Ascorbic Acid

  29 Mar 11, 20:48

  Originally posted by Summer120706:

  Life feels so meaningless at times. How you deal with that?

  
  Find someone to talk to.

  Feeling life is meaningless may be an indication of depression.

  Better seek some professional consuelling.

• voltrons.

  29 Mar 11, 21:01

  life got ups and downs. perhaps this period of time is your down zone. so dont filled your minds with negative stuffs.

  well, i guess you are feeling like abit anti social and reluctant to head out with frens. Then being at home you dont know what to do. Yet looking at your friends being so full of life. is this what you are feeling now?

• The Samurai Warrior

  30 Mar 11, 10:58

  Originally posted by Summer120706:

  Life feels so meaningless at times. How you deal with that?

  I used to know a nerd at school. He is oso like u, feel very meaningless. His parents always fight n the mother always run away. He tried to commit suicide several times. He always lock himself in his room. He wuz a loner. He have very few frens.

  Then he turn to god. He went to church. He got active in youth activities n ministries. He made many many frens, gals n gurls alike. His social calender from monday to sunday, always busy. His studies start to pick up. He got a scholarship. Then he started working. He tried to find a life partner. Several gurls rejected him. He didn't giv up, instead he strive on. Just last year, I heard he found a galfren.

  I am not saying tat christianity is gud bcause I am a buddhist. But I am saying life is a journey. U have to fight hard for wat u want. Sometime u dun get it but mebbe its for a better cause. Mebbe god or fate out there has something installed for u. Be prepared to fail but neva neva give up. U cannot achieve anything by sitting at home or hiding in a cave, u have to go out n take the initiative to make things happening. Sometime it is a headache but if u strive n work hard, results will start to bear fruit.

• Ascorbic Acid

  30 Mar 11, 11:08

  Originally posted by Summer120706:

  Life feels so meaningless at times. How you deal with that?

  
  You can pray to Jesus for help.

• ayeyo

  30 Mar 11, 12:29

  get a virtual pet

• ayeyo

  30 Mar 11, 12:30

  Originally posted by The Samurai Warrior:

  I used to know a nerd at school. He is oso like u, feel very meaningless. His parents always fight n the mother always run away. He tried to commit suicide several times. He always lock himself in his room. He wuz a loner. He have very few frens.

  Then he turn to god. He went to church. He got active in youth activities n ministries. He made many many frens, gals n gurls alike. His social calender from monday to sunday, always busy. His studies start to pick up. He got a scholarship. Then he started working. He tried to find a life partner. Several gurls rejected him. He didn't giv up, instead he strive on. Just last year, I heard he found a galfren.

  I am not saying tat christianity is gud bcause I am a buddhist. But I am saying life is a journey. U have to fight hard for wat u want. Sometime u dun get it but mebbe its for a better cause. Mebbe god or fate out there has something installed for u. Be prepared to fail but neva neva give up. U cannot achieve anything by sitting at home or hiding in a cave, u have to go out n take the initiative to make things happening. Sometime it is a headache but if u strive n work hard, results will start to bear fruit.

  very good advice.

• ayeyo

  30 Mar 11, 12:33

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• The Samurai Warrior

  30 Mar 11, 14:32

  Originally posted by ayeyo:

  if you google "depression + forum", you will find many forums where lonely people congregate to share their stories.  you are not alone......

  cheers

  
  Those r suicide forums - better not go there. They organize suicide tours.

• Nelstar

  30 Mar 11, 14:36

  Originally posted by Summer120706:

  Does buying a pet dog help?

  Please leave animals out of equation. Seriously, when you are happier or found a life, you probably disown the dog.

  

• ayeyo

  31 Mar 11, 01:03

  Originally posted by The Samurai Warrior:

  
  Those r suicide forums - better not go there. They organize suicide tours.

  suicide forums ? 

  i refer to those mental health or self help forums lah...  but those are for more serious cases..  so if one is still ok just occasionally feel moody, then my advice is not to dwell in forums too much.  forums in general accumulate many negative n critical thoughts of people... just look at this forum... haha

  like one forumnite said earlier, it's better to occupy ourselves with positive things to do...  griping n complaining only make things worse......  IMO

• benqepson

  3 Apr 11, 17:47

  Go travelling. It might help.

• Fcukpap

  3 Apr 11, 17:51

  change your life

  do what you have not done before

   

• Amyrleex

  3 Apr 11, 19:01

  i feel the same way too, the hole just gets deeper and deeper.. :(

• Yach

  3 Apr 11, 20:46

  Originally posted by Summer120706:

  Life feels so meaningless at times. How you deal with that?

  
  Thats why online gaming virtual realities are so popular :-)

• kuji-in

  3 Apr 11, 20:57

  well, i am organising an outing. pls PM me if interested.

  i will be going to johor for a short trip.