gf problem
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I have some bgr problems with my gf.. We are in our 8mth relationship. Recently we have been in unhappy moments when we go out with friends in a group.. It seems to be happening everytime and is just comes suddenly without any reasons.. One example is my frenz came my hse overnight. In the middle of the night, as my friends are hungry and they wanted to have supper, we went down to the nearby coffeeshop. Upon reaching, i ask my gf if she wanna eat.. Coz i knew i not hungry and c if she wanna eat.. Then she said in a sacastic manner "if i dun wan to eat y come down?" I was quite pissed by her sentence but went on to help her order what she wanted. We did not tok since then. When we went back hm, i felt she was quite pissed with mi. I did not went to ask her why as i felt quite unreasonable y she was pissed with mi as i did nothing. She is those anti social kind but all these kind of outings is mainly what she requested and it seems like she is unhappy at times. Sometimes i really dun feel like goin for such outings but i knew she like it so i went along. But it seems time n time again we ended up been unhappy with one another. It was also the same issue when we play online game tgt with some friends. She will keep say mi nvr go save her and stuff and which i really hate it. I felt i am not super pro and tried my best and is just game why need to take so seriously. The purpose of gaming is to have fun but ended up in quarrel and stuff. I was thinking of telling her all that but i knew solution will not be found as she will ended up telling is all her fault and etc. I seriously dunno what to do then. I can say when times when we have cold war, i will just keep quiet which makes her even angrier. I think that is something i should change. hope i can get some advice from u all guys. Anyway we are 20s, not small kids.
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Ur galfren a bit childlish.
I oso got one fren, his galfren like urs wan. Got one time we gather together at shopping mall (we bunch of frens - 9 people), my fren brought his galfren. We then talk talk and talk, but his galfren felt lonely, decided to walk out from the group and went shopping instead. My fren was so embarass by his galfren lack of hospitality for us.
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your group of friends come ton at your house... that group got involve girls anot? :)
If yes, then
( she's jealous la!), else
she's very very tired and don't want to go down eat and wanna rest at home, but no choice.. so follow you lo.
And you one whole group guys ar... keep chatting and playing and then hor you neglected your gf liao lah. that's why she angry with you.
or maybe you never show your friends how much you love your gf~
If you are reading this, then you might want to (or maybe don't want to hear this), because she might like other guys lah! You know? some guys play online game very pro 1... maybe she want you to become pro also leh? so next time she can show off to her friends~ aiya, you practice more!
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1) You pple dun understand each other enough.
2) Your girlfriend needs some growing up.
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As a gal with bf, i olso understand, sometime we gals got period, that is the time our character change, we can become very demanding. Given no much time together, and yet still go out with his friends and spent more time on group than our own loving time, i also hate it
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you must learn from my father: turn a deaf ear to what the woman says.
herein lies the difference between a young guy in his 20s and a man who is a husband and seasoned in life with a woman.
maybe you wld like to read the book "men fm mars, women fm venus"... if it helps
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you must learn from my father: turn a deaf ear to what the woman says.
herein lies the difference between a young guy in his 20s and a man who is a husband and seasoned in life with a woman.
maybe you wld like to read the book "men fm mars, women fm venus"... if it helps
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Originally posted by sentinus:
I have some bgr problems with my gf.. We are in our 8mth relationship. Recently we have been in unhappy moments when we go out with friends in a group.. It seems to be happening everytime and is just comes suddenly without any reasons.. One example is my frenz came my hse overnight. In the middle of the night, as my friends are hungry and they wanted to have supper, we went down to the nearby coffeeshop. Upon reaching, i ask my gf if she wanna eat.. Coz i knew i not hungry and c if she wanna eat.. Then she said in a sacastic manner "if i dun wan to eat y come down?" I was quite pissed by her sentence but went on to help her order what she wanted. We did not tok since then. When we went back hm, i felt she was quite pissed with mi. I did not went to ask her why as i felt quite unreasonable y she was pissed with mi as i did nothing. She is those anti social kind but all these kind of outings is mainly what she requested and it seems like she is unhappy at times. Sometimes i really dun feel like goin for such outings but i knew she like it so i went along. But it seems time n time again we ended up been unhappy with one another. It was also the same issue when we play online game tgt with some friends. She will keep say mi nvr go save her and stuff and which i really hate it. I felt i am not super pro and tried my best and is just game why need to take so seriously. The purpose of gaming is to have fun but ended up in quarrel and stuff. I was thinking of telling her all that but i knew solution will not be found as she will ended up telling is all her fault and etc. I seriously dunno what to do then. I can say when times when we have cold war, i will just keep quiet which makes her even angrier. I think that is something i should change. hope i can get some advice from u all guys. Anyway we are 20s, not small kids.
Ok. Big kids.
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Your gf needs attention. The novelty of the attention she received in the early stages of the relationship has worn off. Familiarity breeds contempt.
She is now feeling resentful at the slightest lapse. This is a cultivated habit. People are usually unforgiving to their family members for the slightest mistake, than they are to their friends. e.g. a plate is broken by the brother, she screams at him. A plate is broken by a visiting friend, never mind. The same principle here.
Ignore the sarcastic remarks, and try to figure out what her problem. And try to humour her, by joking, being a clown, making her laugh. Your smiling face can cool her down too. And say words of appreciation to her. Good of her to come down and accompany you, thank you for yesterday whatever, so treating her etc.
She wants attention.
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There is nothing wrong with wanting attention, very gal also want/need their bf or husband attention, the problem is the guys are not consistent in their love and character, sometime, they are so good, the othertimes, they are worst than your enemy. Girl being constant, it is the guy who keep manipulating.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
There is nothing wrong with wanting attention, very gal also want/need their bf or husband attention, the problem is the guys are not consistent in their love and character, sometime, they are so good, the othertimes, they are worst than your enemy. Girl being constant, it is the guy who keep manipulating.
Girls are not constant. If not they will need pads/tampons everyday.
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That's the physical part, my issue is pertaining to Love. Gal are just a stationary flowers, guys are the butterflies...fly here and there
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i think ur gf is super immature. such a small matter really... maybe she is expecting smth frm u but ur not giving her?
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like a supplementary card, i think yr gf miss that..just apply for her one, and u can see the change in her.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
like a supplementary card, i think yr gf miss that..just apply for her one, and u can see the change in her.
yes, you will see the change in her, and i can see a significant drop in your bank account funds, possibly going through the negative mark... -
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
yes, you will see the change in her, and i can see a significant drop in your bank account funds, possibly going through the negative mark...
not to worry, u can just set up another bank acc to divert you money and leave some for her to spend, as long as u give her a supplementary card, the trust and negative naggin or remarks will go away, that is the price you hv to pay for calmness and less trouble.My goodness, am i betraying my own gender weakness???
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Originally posted by angel7030:
not to worry, u can just set up another bank acc to divert you money and leave some for her to spend, as long as u give her a supplementary card, the trust and negative naggin or remarks will go away, that is the price you hv to pay for calmness and less trouble.My goodness, am i betraying my own gender weakness???
How many supp cards you collecting?
I got 7 from different people.
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