Originally posted by the Bear:and if managed, the medication isn't expensive too...
what the father is doing now is being a dumbass which will cost the people a lot more in terms of physical, mental, emotional and financial pain in the long run
If the father suffer from cardiac arrest and suffer stroke due to diabetes, and lose control of half his movement capabilities, then that is an extremely costly screw up.
1. Wheel-chair/bed-bound, needs someone or electronic wheelchair to take care
2. STILL need constant medication for cardiac problems and diabetes.
Don't let 1 manageable disease snowball into a freaking huge avalanche.
Originally posted by benqepson:old ppl prefer to settle their problems then let the children suffer esp money. They would rather die early than suffer for long periods . The medicine they consumed is to prolong their life only. And this medicine does not come cheap. The only way to solve quickly is by death.
Death is not the way out.
my dad is one in a million, but not in a good way. there is no such thing as slow talk with him. no matter how nice we tell him nicely abt his attitude or habits, all he does is shout and slam the door. he dont seem to care abt the family's well being.
it seems that he thinks he is so lucky that he is bullet proof, or indestructible in other words. his heavy smoking habits still cant give him cancer.
he has too many negative traits and his positive traits are like none. his negative is way too long to list down:
1) ungrateful
2) selfish
3) irresponsible
4) egoistic
5) stupid
6) ignorant
7) lazy
8) pathetic
9) hypocrite
10) hot tempered
etc...
me and my family have come to a point that our lives will only be peaceful without him around. in fact, its him who is depending on us and not us depending on him. still, he failed to realized that. it doesnt take a genius to think of this.
so now, he can continue without his medicines and gulp down all the sugary drinks he wants. at such age of 60 plus, he still wanna put his health at risk at his family's expense at the same time. his diabetes have been with him for over 20 years and he may soon succumb to it.
just to want to let you know, a good son dun complaint so much about his dad.
tats why every father is unique