There are many pple out there who will not give a damn respect on pple especially typical local dog manager.
Majority of them will never give you any respect when they are not happy or in everyday bad mood. They scolded you in front of other staff. How to give respect to this kind of dog damn manager?
Yes, even though you are a lady out there, you still need to respect guys. You cannot simply say I am a lady, I can disrespect you but you cannot disrepect me. If like that, then I go ask that lady: Go To Hell.
Originally posted by The man who was death:when you give your respect to someone, obviously that someone must have done something or the way he/she carry themselves must've earned your respect....otherwise you're just an idiot who respects anyone without even knowing why you're respecting them...
not really, someone handsome and good looking can also hv my respect without the need to do something or earn it, there are many idiotic people like you who respect big bosses just because they are rich and you are far under them, so do these bosses earn their respect, i doubt so, if without their status and you working under them, I dun think you respect them. So, you maybe said that respect is earned, but I prefer to say, respect is in the eyes of the beholden.
Originally posted by likeyou:Pple will respect you if you respect pple.
that is a layman talk, there tons of peoples out there, who you respect them, and they in turn never respect you, I think you can see that in our daily way of life, from MRT to workplace to public toilet and hawker centres etc etc...and that is what and how quarrel and fighting, hard feeling and disappointment of life come about, you respect someone, but that someone not only dun respect you, but make fun of you or sabotage you, therefore, it is not that you want to respect people, you need to reserve your respect to the right people.
Originally posted by likeyou:There are many pple out there who will not give a damn respect on pple especially typical local dog manager.
Majority of them will never give you any respect when they are not happy or in everyday bad mood. They scolded you in front of other staff. How to give respect to this kind of dog damn manager?
Yes, even though you are a lady out there, you still need to respect guys. You cannot simply say I am a lady, I can disrespect you but you cannot disrepect me. If like that, then I go ask that lady: Go To Hell.
That's why i asked, respect 1 kg is how much??
Originally posted by angel7030:
not really, someone handsome and good looking can also hv my respect without the need to do something or earn it, there are many idiotic people like you who respect big bosses just because they are rich and you are far under them, so do these bosses earn their respect, i doubt so, if without their status and you working under them, I dun think you respect them. So, you maybe said that respect is earned, but I prefer to say, respect is in the eyes of the beholden.
you respect someone just because they're good looking, what makes you different from the idiotic people that respect bosses just becos they're rich??
You seriously need to reserve your respect to the right people....
Some people even take your respect with granted. Sliently abused and make use of you without your knowledge.
Originally posted by The man who was death:you respect someone just because they're good looking, what makes you different from the idiotic people that respect bosses just becos they're rich??
You seriously need to reserve your respect to the right people....
why can't i respect something that look beautiful and nice, you also respect a lady without the need to know her, right? Therefore, i conclude that respect is nurtured, a built in personality and usually start from youngs
Originally posted by likeyou:Some people even take your respect with granted. Sliently abused and make use of you without your knowledge.
as long as you hv respected someone, care less if he/she respect you back, we should not carve for respect by respecting someone and in turn expect that someone to respect you back, that is wrong. Your respect of someone is your own well being, well brought and nurturing, I may not respect the silly old man, but i respect his age and that does not imply he needs to earn it.
Respecting bosses and senior peoples is another issue, there is an ulterior motive behind that respect, it is different from our own nature way of respecting people in the public. You respect your boss or someone who is higher or someone that can help you is a respect with an objectives. My kind of respect is different, a respect that do not expect anything in return is a true respect.