We all are taught to respect people around us. Men have to respect ladies to be considered a gentlemen.
But what if the ladies do not appreciate the respect men had given them? Does that justify men to stop respecting them? We all know women tend to take men's respect for granted. And if men dont respect them they also complained.
And speaking of respect, how you think we should respect people? By their actions, role in society? Or just because someone is higher than us in any way we must respect them? Boss, parents, elderly?
For me I seriously dont care who you are as long as you done something good and you dont treat people like shits, you have my respect. Some people still failed to understand that respect have to be earned.
some pple just take 'em for granted..
times r bad
Originally posted by SevenElaven:times r bad
What is the link?
Originally posted by Haruhi Suzumiya:
What is the link?
The link is we the seven eleven cosmic twins plan to unite and we shall conquer Singapore, force everybody to buy anything everything fr 7-11. We shall ban the ban mien recipe. We plan a coup wif all our 7-11 secret agents, they will launch the coup n restore order in spore.
Then we shall take Acid and make her into our wife. Then turn kengkia into our concubine. Muahahahahahaha.
people has a natural fear of power and what holds them at stake...they usually "respect" out of fear or following the crowds...and not because of what is true and right...
likewise i cannot respect the system that blindly protects women without a fair and balanced perspective given to men ....
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:We all are taught to respect people around us. Men have to respect ladies to be considered a gentlemen.
But what if the ladies do not appreciate the respect men had given them? Does that justify men to stop respecting them? We all know women tend to take men's respect for granted. And if men dont respect them they also complained.
And speaking of respect, how you think we should respect people? By their actions, role in society? Or just because someone is higher than us in any way we must respect them? Boss, parents, elderly?
For me I seriously dont care who you are as long as you done something good and you dont treat people like shits, you have my respect. Some people still failed to understand that respect have to be earned.
oh yeah. well said. for mee, i will not respect the ladies who doesn't appreciate the respect they get from men. isn't that's why there's this saying " treat others how you want others to treat you" ?
Agreed with TS, respect should be earned.
i deserve none
Respect is treating someone the way you want someone to treat you in the future.
In my opinion.
On respect.
My brother was baptised to be a christian a day before he died. He could not speak and was totally living on the air bag in Spore General Hospital. All of us were shock because my brother did not tell us that he want to be a christian. I am wondering did the priest seek my brother approval or was it just instruction from my brother immdeiate family and if that is what it was should not that instruction be in written and had my brother signature.
Well, it is good to get to know more saints and gods before you go, aint it? after all, he will have more choices up there.
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:We all are taught to respect people around us. Men have to respect ladies to be considered a gentlemen.
But what if the ladies do not appreciate the respect men had given them? Does that justify men to stop respecting them? We all know women tend to take men's respect for granted. And if men dont respect them they also complained.
And speaking of respect, how you think we should respect people? By their actions, role in society? Or just because someone is higher than us in any way we must respect them? Boss, parents, elderly?
For me I seriously dont care who you are as long as you done something good and you dont treat people like shits, you have my respect. Some people still failed to understand that respect have to be earned.
Can u tell me 1 kg of respect is how much??
If a lady dont appreciate the respect of a gentleman, then the gentleman should work hard and gain respect from her.
If a boss dont appreciate the respect of his employees, then we should work hard and try to prove to the boss.
True, respect should be earned. For for my case, it wont never exist in my company. My boss will never respect you out of fear and inferority. You die your business. i make you I can employ a cheap cheap labour and push down your salary.
Originally posted by Pohleong80:On respect.
My brother was baptised to be a christian a day before he died. He could not speak and was totally living on the air bag in Spore General Hospital. All of us were shock because my brother did not tell us that he want to be a christian. I am wondering did the priest seek my brother approval or was it just instruction from my brother immdeiate family and if that is what it was should not that instruction be in written and had my brother signature.
Many pple are like that.
When alive, they are non christian, when they going to die, suddenly they become christian.
Originally posted by likeyou:If a lady dont appreciate the respect of a gentleman, then the gentleman should work hard and gain respect from her.
If a boss dont appreciate the respect of his employees, then we should work hard and try to prove to the boss.
True, respect should be earned. For for my case, it wont never exist in my company. My boss will never respect you out of fear and inferority. You die your business. i make you I can employ a cheap cheap labour and push down your salary.
respect should not be earn, it should come about naturally, if you earn respect, you are actually carving for it or acting to earn it, but respect to a person is best when one is respected without he or themselves knowning that they are well respected
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:We all are taught to respect people around us. Men have to respect ladies to be considered a gentlemen.
But what if the ladies do not appreciate the respect men had given them? Does that justify men to stop respecting them? We all know women tend to take men's respect for granted. And if men dont respect them they also complained.
And speaking of respect, how you think we should respect people? By their actions, role in society? Or just because someone is higher than us in any way we must respect them? Boss, parents, elderly?
For me I seriously dont care who you are as long as you done something good and you dont treat people like shits, you have my respect. Some people still failed to understand that respect have to be earned.
if ladies don't behave in respectable ways, then men will lose respect for them. this applies to everyone.....IMO
even elderly who jump queue and take for granted he is correct, will not have my respect. the mother & child who jump queue or who are rowdy without consideration of others also will not have my respect. parents who abuse their children should also be condemned.
everyone's criteria differs. for me, the person's integrity comes first as to whether he deserves my respect. those who demand my respect because of position/ authority, will be the first ones to lose my respect.
imo the respect we give others is the respect we have for ourselves. it's virtue. refinement. everyone gets 50% basic human respect by default, from road sweepers, waiters, peers, family to bosses and ministers. it's common human decency cos basic human dignity requires respect.
anything more or less from then on is earned.
that being said till today i still find it quite difficult to give children, especially rowdy screaming toddlers the basic respect i so pledge.
oh well.
to be seen - stand up
to be heard - speak up
to be respected - SHUT THE FUCK UP
Originally posted by soleachip:that being said till today i still find it quite difficult to give children, especially rowdy screaming toddlers the basic respect i so pledge.
oh well.
if you say that you'll have to accept there's people that's not gonna give their seniors or elderly respect just becos they're older...
Originally posted by angel7030:
respect should not be earn, it should come about naturally, if you earn respect, you are actually carving for it or acting to earn it, but respect to a person is best when one is respected without he or themselves knowning that they are well respected
when you give your respect to someone, obviously that someone must have done something or the way he/she carry themselves must've earned your respect....otherwise you're just an idiot who respects anyone without even knowing why you're respecting them...
Pple will respect you if you respect pple.
Hey mate, Treat chicks nicely and spank them hard when they are naughty... They love that sh|T.... Respect has to be given to them when out in the public and when people are present. That has to be given & First respect yourself and stop asking for respect and DEMAND IT!