to sex or not?
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hi, i wanted to post my issue in a forum. tried hwz but my post got removed cos the moderator said its not the right place. so im here to share it. me and my bf has been together for 6 mths now. so far everythin is going well for us. recently we thought abt having intimate moments when he came to my hse. but time aft time nothing happened. so we chat on the phone and he was quite into having sex with me. idk what to reply but since i love him i said ok but only protected sex. he doesnt want. he asked me if i trust him and he promise not to impregnant me. i know the risk and that but hmm having unprotected sex is quite scarry for me... for a week he been asking abt my decision. i kept telling him i dont know... i heard abt withdrawal method but what if he cant control? i dont want to screw my life and at the same time i dont want to disappoing him as he is my bf and i love him alot. im not asking alot, just ask him to have protected sex. im quite confused now. am i on a mistake? i havent done intercourse before so im not too sure with alot of things. we had petting before and alot of times it went to almost sex but then nth happened cos i kept turning him down. any advises people?
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It's your decision, not his. Don't allow him to pressure you into anything especially unprotected sex. If he talks to you about 'trusting him' again, tell him to f**k off.
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Originally posted by cawca:
It's your decision, not his. Don't allow him to pressure you into anything especially unprotected sex. If he talks to you about 'trusting him' again, tell him to f**k off.
Agreed.Has already told her in the other thread.
Dont ever TRUST someone 100%, you are fallen into his sex trap.
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Originally posted by mardiana:
hi, i wanted to post my issue in a forum. tried hwz but my post got removed cos the moderator said its not the right place. so im here to share it. me and my bf has been together for 6 mths now. so far everythin is going well for us. recently we thought abt having intimate moments when he came to my hse. but time aft time nothing happened. so we chat on the phone and he was quite into having sex with me. idk what to reply but since i love him i said ok but only protected sex. he doesnt want. he asked me if i trust him and he promise not to impregnant me. i know the risk and that but hmm having unprotected sex is quite scarry for me... for a week he been asking abt my decision. i kept telling him i dont know... i heard abt withdrawal method but what if he cant control? i dont want to screw my life and at the same time i dont want to disappoing him as he is my bf and i love him alot. im not asking alot, just ask him to have protected sex. im quite confused now. am i on a mistake? i havent done intercourse before so im not too sure with alot of things. we had petting before and alot of times it went to almost sex but then nth happened cos i kept turning him down. any advises people?
U dont know meh? unprotected sex mehby got premature ejaculation and mehby got baby.
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Originally posted by Shepherd:
U dont know meh? unprotected sex mehby got premature ejaculation and mehby got baby.
premature ejac?
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Originally posted by mardiana:
premature ejac?
thats mehn when you stroke the stick the juice come out but the stick is not yet hard or you stroke the stick the juice come out but the stick is not soft thereafter. u donno meh? u never stroke before meh?
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Originally posted by Shepherd:
thats mehn when you stroke the stick the juice come out but the stick is not yet hard or you stroke the stick the juice come out but the stick is not soft thereafter. u donno meh? u never stroke before meh?
no idea sorry
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hey you can have unprotected sex with your bf without worrying of getting pregnant .have sex before 2 to 3 days of your periods .
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Originally posted by mardiana:
hi, i wanted to post my issue in a forum. tried hwz but my post got removed cos the moderator said its not the right place. so im here to share it. me and my bf has been together for 6 mths now. so far everythin is going well for us. recently we thought abt having intimate moments when he came to my hse. but time aft time nothing happened. so we chat on the phone and he was quite into having sex with me. idk what to reply but since i love him i said ok but only protected sex. he doesnt want. he asked me if i trust him and he promise not to impregnant me. i know the risk and that but hmm having unprotected sex is quite scarry for me... for a week he been asking abt my decision. i kept telling him i dont know... i heard abt withdrawal method but what if he cant control? i dont want to screw my life and at the same time i dont want to disappoing him as he is my bf and i love him alot. im not asking alot, just ask him to have protected sex. im quite confused now. am i on a mistake? i havent done intercourse before so im not too sure with alot of things. we had petting before and alot of times it went to almost sex but then nth happened cos i kept turning him down. any advises people?
Many guys also talk sex with me, from PMs to SMS to MSNs to whatever communication methods they can use, I did not even accept anyone of them, if I did, i will be no different from pros, worst, at least pros collect money, i got nothing.Gal to gal talk, my take is keep your sex or whatever intercourses till the day you marry to one that really love you and you really love him. Listen to me, you will never regret what i said, as a streetgal all this while, you can never outsmart me with boys.
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always use a "raincoat"
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Originally posted by Crumpler SG:
always use a "raincoat"
now raining.
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Originally posted by Crumpler SG:
always use a "raincoat"
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
now raining.
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Originally posted by mardiana:
hi, i wanted to post my issue in a forum. tried hwz but my post got removed cos the moderator said its not the right place. so im here to share it. me and my bf has been together for 6 mths now. so far everythin is going well for us. recently we thought abt having intimate moments when he came to my hse. but time aft time nothing happened. so we chat on the phone and he was quite into having sex with me. idk what to reply but since i love him i said ok but only protected sex. he doesnt want. he asked me if i trust him and he promise not to impregnant me. i know the risk and that but hmm having unprotected sex is quite scarry for me... for a week he been asking abt my decision. i kept telling him i dont know... i heard abt withdrawal method but what if he cant control? i dont want to screw my life and at the same time i dont want to disappoing him as he is my bf and i love him alot. im not asking alot, just ask him to have protected sex. im quite confused now. am i on a mistake? i havent done intercourse before so im not too sure with alot of things. we had petting before and alot of times it went to almost sex but then nth happened cos i kept turning him down. any advises people?
he want unprotected sex ah.. ..
Pregnant is not so bad lah..a product of love.
But infect HIV/STD your whole life finish.
He dare ask unprotected sex from you... he also dare ask other girls have unprotected sex lah.
You know you are clean.. but you sure he is clean or not.
Pull out method .. failure rate is 80%. Pre-cum got sperm hor.
You pregnant.. he ask you go abort. very damaging to your womb ok. You think he give a damn ? He is a selfish bastard, this kind of guy you also want ah...
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just ask him if his sperms got promise not to impregnant u or not lor...and if u can get a shout and clear reply from his sperms then let him do it lor...
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Try not to believe his words. Just 6 months only and he is looking into sex.
I feel as if he dun really love you. But more of after sex, it seems to me. For most of my friends they only did it after like 1 to 2 years into relationship with protected sex.
Why i say he dun love you. If he does he will wanna set up a family with you in future but not now. Also he will respect you, respect your choice. I feel as if like he is more like a jerk. Dun give in to him alright. There are plenty of good guys out there.
For the method below is only applicable if you really love him and "so called" cannot live without him.
Another way to test the guy if he got HIV/STD is to bring him go for check up first before you even allow him to have any unprotected sex. Since there is such thing called contraceptive pills for you to use(reminder: there are side effects after using it).
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dump the guy.he wants sex without condoms with u then he has to work for it to deserve it.
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DUMP HIM.RUBBISH LIKE THAT FRIEND ALSO GOT!!!WHICH RUBBISH DUMP U PICK HIM UP FROM ONE???!!!EEEEE YUR!!
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if he cant respect u on this or wait till u are ready, then he is not the one.
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Virginity is important.
Please have sex after marraige.
I am against premarital sex.
I am proud as a virgin guy.
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gd for u
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poor u........
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Originally posted by FireIce:
poor u........
wad.Virginity is very important for both gender.
Only after marraige then I shall engage in sex.
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Fireice do u understand that virginity is very important to both genders?
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i understand tt u probably need to prep another nick agn soon