Secret Admiration
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Sorry ts, did he know you?
Why dont you let him know you saw him in fb at ......and see what is his reaction?
If you keeps on living like this, one day, you will go insane.
Open up abit ya.
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ya, alot of peoples do not know that keeping secret is a stress, let it out, if you notice those top peoples who keep alot of confidential secret are alway having stress that lead to poor health like heartattack, stroke or chronic illness.
Remove the Secret, openly admire a person is the best, when I admire one, I just tell him/her
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
He is not married. He was interviewed before like last year.
He is 36, runs a training company, charity organization and chairman of youth executive club. An over achiever i guess. Think it is obvious why any woman would fall for a guy like that.
1) He runs a business.
Usually a man who runs a business is rational and good at managing things. Probably good at finance as he has been operating for a good 5-6 years. Which is one of the main reasons i m drawn to him as i m in business too but less the rational i guess. ha..
2) He set up a charity foundation
Which is very admirable and it has been something i always wanted to do or rather many of us wanted to do but lack the energy and courage, finding excuses and delaying it. He is a kind man, a very kind man who devotes some of his time travelling to cambodia providing education and encouragement to the children there.
3) He is a chairman of youth executive club
To be a chairman, people has to vote for you. This shows he is popular and likeable among his peers. He has mentored many younger people and it is apparent in his fb that people thank him for his mentorship.
4) Nitty Gritty
He spends time with his parents, brings them for dinner and shows at esplanade. Appreciate his grandma's cooking. It really reflect his filial side. He also has great appreciation for the government and what they has done for singapore. Seems like a grateful person.
I sincerely apologize if i bored you with my "obession"with this guy i hardly even know. It's crazy cos i can never say it to anyone in my world and this is the only space where i can express it and hopefully get some good advice.
It's funny if you believe, some people give you peace just by looking at them. His presence calms me and each time I see his pic, as if a quiet motivation for me. (though i tried not to do it so often, as he is not "real".)
Did you have such admiration for someone before? If you were me? What would you do?
U muz b looking 4 guy who have $monies$ type girl....... chey
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Hi likeyou and angel, I know it is can be insane!
How did you guys open up and express it? Share with me ya?
And no leomanz, many singaporean women today do not have to look for a guy with lots of $ which I am not even sure if he has. But judging a person based on that is baseless. Today's woman, especially Singaporean woman can make good money and keep it well if not better than our counterpart.
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
Hi likeyou and angel, I know it is can be insane!
How did you guys open up and express it? Share with me ya?
And no leomanz, many singaporean women today do not have to look for a guy with lots of $ which I am not even sure if he has. But judging a person based on that is baseless. Today's woman, especially Singaporean woman can make good money and keep it well if not better than our counterpart.
1 - You haven't explain if he knows of your existence or presence.
2 - To express, you just have to praise the person for their hard work and effort
3 - Being prudent with money has nothing to do with gender.
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
Hi likeyou and angel, I know it is can be insane!
How did you guys open up and express it? Share with me ya?
And no leomanz, many singaporean women today do not have to look for a guy with lots of $ which I am not even sure if he has. But judging a person based on that is baseless. Today's woman, especially Singaporean woman can make good money and keep it well if not better than our counterpart.
We tell the girls we like straight in the face......thats how we do it :-). -
Originally posted by Little Red Book:
Hi likeyou and angel, I know it is can be insane!
How did you guys open up and express it? Share with me ya?
And no leomanz, many singaporean women today do not have to look for a guy with lots of $ which I am not even sure if he has. But judging a person based on that is baseless. Today's woman, especially Singaporean woman can make good money and keep it well if not better than our counterpart.
huh? ask me to open, how can, i still virgin ok, ....Admiring is part of human emotion, it is good to admire someone who is good, well behave and nice looking, so if you see that person, just tell him/her, I like your look and the way you live, keep it up. I will very much like to take you as an example.
But becareful, admiring can lead to envy and jealousy which is harmful to one, overly admiring can also lead to depression, learn to admire people with no strings attach, you will be in much better to admire a person, the so call profession admiration
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To answer your question, No he probably doesnt know of my existence even though i added him as a fren on fb. He has 2000+ frens. I don't think he notice me.
You know I really wanted to praise him or strike a conversation with him but the problem is we don't know each other. I can't possibly send him an email saying Hi, I think you have done impressive work? Isn't that too obvious? haha....he probably ignored me! If I were to email it better be a 100% foolproof kind of thing so there is no room for rejection because I only have this ONE chance, ONE time. You know what i mean?
hai, and the truth is so what even if he know of my existence. Would a remarkable man like him like a common girl like me?
(P.S: Thanks angel, i get your notes on expressing. And i think my admiration is a positive one as I feel happy for his achievement each time he mentioned it. And always wish him well in my heart).
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
Hi likeyou and angel, I know it is can be insane!
How did you guys open up and express it? Share with me ya?
And no leomanz, many singaporean women today do not have to look for a guy with lots of $ which I am not even sure if he has. But judging a person based on that is baseless. Today's woman, especially Singaporean woman can make good money and keep it well if not better than our counterpart.
Very simple, just send him a note telling him you will be in town this afternoon, want to join me for quick bite downtown?
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
To answer your question, No he probably doesnt know of my existence even though i added him as a fren on fb. He has 2000+ frens. I don't think he notice me.
You know I really wanted to praise him or strike a conversation with him but the problem is we don't know each other. I can't possibly send him an email saying Hi, I think you have done impressive work? Isn't that too obvious? haha....he probably ignored me! If I were to email it better be a 100% foolproof kind of thing so there is no room for rejection because I only have this ONE chance, ONE time. You know what i mean?
hai, and the truth is so what even if he know of my existence. Would a remarkable man like him like a common girl like me?
(P.S: Thanks angel, i get your notes on expressing. And i think my admiration is a positive one as I feel happy for his achievement each time he mentioned it. And always wish him well in my heart).
Well it is ok to admire someone, i do admire alot of great peoples in this world, their achievement, their contribution and their sacrification for this world, typically these are positive admiration. As i said, good for us to emulate it.The problem is that you do not know his real personality, his private life and his way of living. You only know his achievement on paper and his physical look and you start to secretly admire him. What happen if he gets married, he commits a crime, he have a love affair, he break or divorce with his gf or wife..how do you feel.
I am seeing idolism here rather than admiration.
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waaa....angel7030 so serious!!!!
munch potayo chip n hommus sauce S I READ YER lifestyle of rich n famouse.
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sure, i am here with a few missions, and one of them is to treat people like you from further deteriorating further, understand!, now! hv you taken your medicines. I do not know why they alway assign me to this type of mission impossible stuffs
Dr Angel
Pysh, MD,, Bcc
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Gosh Angel, I wonder what you do in real life to be so skeptical about people. haha....
I do know a bit about him as I have been following his blog for 2 years you know. Also, he is still single as his frens would often tease him to find someone and get married soon and not be so career minded, etc.
I think my point here is to try to get to know him rather than stop admiring him. To know more of who he really is and what he is like. And moreover, I am not trying to be his wife or gf, just wanting to get to know him as a fren first. If like you said, you have admire someone before, you should know it is not as easy as saying "stop admiring" him and just stop. Only if it is that easy.....
Anyway, thanks for your comment.
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HI like you,
thanks for your constructive motivation.
I am thinking of dropping him a message on fb to start messaging him first rather than meeting him straight. Think he will straight away reject me and guys don't like woman who are tooo direct right? hehe...
Just that i have to think of a topic to strike off a conversation.......that will last....hmmm...
Cheers,
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Originally posted by angel7030:
huh? ask me to open, how can, i still virgin ok, ....
if you virgin, i cut my "sausage" make curry for all the forumers to eat... -
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
if you virgin, i cut my "sausage" make curry for all the forumers to eat...
I will be the first one to try..... -
Originally posted by Little Red Book:
Gosh Angel, I wonder what you do in real life to be so skeptical about people. haha....
I do know a bit about him as I have been following his blog for 2 years you know. Also, he is still single as his frens would often tease him to find someone and get married soon and not be so career minded, etc.
I think my point here is to try to get to know him rather than stop admiring him. To know more of who he really is and what he is like. And moreover, I am not trying to be his wife or gf, just wanting to get to know him as a fren first. If like you said, you have admire someone before, you should know it is not as easy as saying "stop admiring" him and just stop. Only if it is that easy.....
Anyway, thanks for your comment.
Gosh Red book, U r contridicting yr 1st post, you said you are going crazy kind of like head over heel overly admire your admirer, so we thot we should cool and calm you now, now that you said you are going easy with it, guess my job is done.Take care
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Originally posted by Yach:
I will be the first one to try.....
Sorry, it is reserve for my dogs