Secret Admiration
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I have this incredible admiration for a man on fb whom I hardly know for 2 full years!
It's crazy cos i never had a secret admiration for anyone, not even in schools!
Tell me what should I do?
LRB
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cool.
eerr........ is he married?
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He is not married. He was interviewed before like last year.
He is 36, runs a training company, charity organization and chairman of youth executive club. An over achiever i guess. Think it is obvious why any woman would fall for a guy like that.
1) He runs a business.
Usually a man who runs a business is rational and good at managing things. Probably good at finance as he has been operating for a good 5-6 years. Which is one of the main reasons i m drawn to him as i m in business too but less the rational i guess. ha..
2) He set up a charity foundation
Which is very admirable and it has been something i always wanted to do or rather many of us wanted to do but lack the energy and courage, finding excuses and delaying it. He is a kind man, a very kind man who devotes some of his time travelling to cambodia providing education and encouragement to the children there.
3) He is a chairman of youth executive club
To be a chairman, people has to vote for you. This shows he is popular and likeable among his peers. He has mentored many younger people and it is apparent in his fb that people thank him for his mentorship.
4) Nitty Gritty
He spends time with his parents, brings them for dinner and shows at esplanade. Appreciate his grandma's cooking. It really reflect his filial side. He also has great appreciation for the government and what they has done for singapore. Seems like a grateful person.
I sincerely apologize if i bored you with my "obession"with this guy i hardly even know. It's crazy cos i can never say it to anyone in my world and this is the only space where i can express it and hopefully get some good advice.
It's funny if you believe, some people give you peace just by looking at them. His presence calms me and each time I see his pic, as if a quiet motivation for me. (though i tried not to do it so often, as he is not "real".)
Did you have such admiration for someone before? If you were me? What would you do?
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Originally posted by FireIce:
cool.
eerr........ is he married?
I'm not married!!! -
haha....congratulations to you for not being married!
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errr... please tickle me...
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
He is not married. He was interviewed before like last year.
He is 36, runs a training company, charity organization and chairman of youth executive club. An over achiever i guess. Think it is obvious why any woman would fall for a guy like that.
1) He runs a business.
Usually a man who runs a business is rational and good at managing things. Probably good at finance as he has been operating for a good 5-6 years. Which is one of the main reasons i m drawn to him as i m in business too but less the rational i guess. ha..
2) He set up a charity foundation
Which is very admirable and it has been something i always wanted to do or rather many of us wanted to do but lack the energy and courage, finding excuses and delaying it. He is a kind man, a very kind man who devotes some of his time travelling to cambodia providing education and encouragement to the children there.
3) He is a chairman of youth executive club
To be a chairman, people has to vote for you. This shows he is popular and likeable among his peers. He has mentored many younger people and it is apparent in his fb that people thank him for his mentorship.
4) Nitty Gritty
He spends time with his parents, brings them for dinner and shows at esplanade. Appreciate his grandma's cooking. It really reflect his filial side. He also has great appreciation for the government and what they has done for singapore. Seems like a grateful person.
I sincerely apologize if i bored you with my "obession"with this guy i hardly even know. It's crazy cos i can never say it to anyone in my world and this is the only space where i can express it and hopefully get some good advice.
It's funny if you believe, some people give you peace just by looking at them. His presence calms me and each time I see his pic, as if a quiet motivation for me. (though i tried not to do it so often, as he is not "real".)
Did you have such admiration for someone before? If you were me? What would you do?
All the above meant nothing if:
1) He does not know your existence
2) He does not have time for you
Based on your description, the man is likely to have other interested parties and may not have time due to work,charity, club, family etc for you.
Anyway, it is normal to admire people.
Like how I admire Bruce Willis and his balding head. To be his age, remain cool even though his head is balding and hair is thinning is not easy.
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Originally posted by Nelstar:
All the above meant nothing if:
1) He does not know your existence
2) He does not have time for you
Based on your description, the man is likely to have other interested parties and may not have time due to work,charity, club, family etc for you.
Anyway, it is normal to admire people.
Like how I admire Bruce Willis and his balding head. To be his age, remain cool even though his head is balding and hair is thinning is not easy.
chay! so disappointed, I thot I was your secret admirer all along...change target liao..
Mine is Angelina Jolie
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
I have this incredible admiration for a man on fb whom I hardly know for 2 full years!
It's crazy cos i never had a secret admiration for anyone, not even in schools!
Tell me what should I do?
LRB
Litte Red Book, sound communist to me, r u PRC gal?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
chay! so disappointed, I thot I was your secret admirer all along...change target liao..
Mine is Angelina Jolie
but i'm taken wor...
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Originally posted by Nelstar:
but i'm taken wor...
Taken? to where? by Alien? -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Taken? to where? by Alien?All your base are belong to us.
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ts, take the initiative, ask him out for lunch.
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
He is not married. He was interviewed before like last year.
He is 36, runs a training company, charity organization and chairman of youth executive club. An over achiever i guess. Think it is obvious why any woman would fall for a guy like that.
1) He runs a business.
Usually a man who runs a business is rational and good at managing things. Probably good at finance as he has been operating for a good 5-6 years. Which is one of the main reasons i m drawn to him as i m in business too but less the rational i guess. ha..
2) He set up a charity foundation
Which is very admirable and it has been something i always wanted to do or rather many of us wanted to do but lack the energy and courage, finding excuses and delaying it. He is a kind man, a very kind man who devotes some of his time travelling to cambodia providing education and encouragement to the children there.
3) He is a chairman of youth executive club
To be a chairman, people has to vote for you. This shows he is popular and likeable among his peers. He has mentored many younger people and it is apparent in his fb that people thank him for his mentorship.
4) Nitty Gritty
He spends time with his parents, brings them for dinner and shows at esplanade. Appreciate his grandma's cooking. It really reflect his filial side. He also has great appreciation for the government and what they has done for singapore. Seems like a grateful person.
I sincerely apologize if i bored you with my "obession"with this guy i hardly even know. It's crazy cos i can never say it to anyone in my world and this is the only space where i can express it and hopefully get some good advice.
It's funny if you believe, some people give you peace just by looking at them. His presence calms me and each time I see his pic, as if a quiet motivation for me. (though i tried not to do it so often, as he is not "real".)
Did you have such admiration for someone before? If you were me? What would you do?
Wat is yer admiration going to materialise to? All those winning points u gave is not doing u any gud until u make the brave move to approach him.
U forgot point no (5) - He like u?
As for Point (1) - I know a lot of people running biz but not exactly tat successful. I know a fren drive a 5 series BMW who runs a lighting biz. But it is not exactly doing well and his BMW was bought second hand since BMW have bad resale value.
Point (3) - Even I wuz voted into a committee - doesn't mean I am popular. They brought me in bcause I was aggressive volunteer who work hard a lot not because I am popular or I am cery capable. Although I am much more capable than Ice Kosong n his gang (littlemissbonker n Cocochips).
Point (4) - But this one, you hit the nail, u so rite. People who r against PAP seem to suffer from certain personality disorder n r unemployed (no wonder they not happy wif PAP). For example - Ice Kosong - he spends his whole life in the Sg forum berating other people here, he is against PAP, he personally don't like women and women's rights and he is unemployed. So yes, people who support the govt tend to have better personality, caring and more gentleman.
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hope the surname is not khoo
bcos he has a kiampah face
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cut to the chase & just let him know
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Originally posted by FireIce:
hope the surname is not khoo
bcos he has a kiampah face
which khoo???
Anyway to be voted in as chairman of YEC do require some form of charisma.
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There are many girls in this world who are very happy just admiring the guy. They don't wanna make no moves.
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whoever tt is, im just glad we are not masturbating to the same person.
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Originally posted by Rock^Star:
There are many girls in this world who are very happy just admiring the guy. They don't wanna make no moves
Come on ts, tell him straight you admire him, tell him any chances? If verbally not nice, send via thru fb and see his reaction.Dont guess anymore, the more you guess the more you will get confuse.
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Don't tell me... he's Jack...?
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....neo?
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Originally posted by FireIce:
whoever tt is, im just glad we are not masturbating to the same person.
Huh!!!??? my goodness, time to change mod liao. -
Originally posted by FireIce:
whoever tt is, im just glad we are not masturbating to the same person.
FireIce, stop masturbating to my photo!!!
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haha...that's really funny fireice!
Nope he is not jack nor does he has a surname khoo. Who is that btw??
And thanks for analyzing and breaking down into points , Color money honey! Yes he is very gentlemanly, if you have seen him you will know what i mean.
I went to his charity event once in support of the yellow ribbon and he is like just a metre away from I am yet I lack the courage. I hated myself for being so timid! I saw him smile and laugh with others and i am just so hoping i m the one he is talking to. He did throw a few glances though, but we didn't talk.
I know, i am kinda of not realistic and i know it's just wishful thinking on my part. But did anyone of you have this feeling when you saw this someone and think he/she is just the "The One" you have been looking for half your life? It's crazy i know, I don't even know him. But through these 2 years of observation, i think i might just know him a little.
Yes I wanted to be brave but I have never ever approach any man in my life. How do i do it without appearing too forthcoming or desperate or needy?
LRB