Is he interested or not?
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can you just keep quiet and troll along...
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Originally posted by Janelle wongzl:
Hi all, thanks for the advices here.
@ Nelstar: Kinda not easy to start a phone conversation as our timings don't really
match. As in he does shift work, while Im bz with wrk n part time studies. In
my previous r/s also seldom on e phone with my ex.@angel: i do feel something for the guy and is definitely not getting into another love
affair to forget the previous r/s as i was e one who initiated e breakup.
Probably i'm kinda heartless as i don't feel sad nor cried after e breakup.
He had 1 ex-gf who broke off with him as e girl wanted to pursue her
education and career abroad. He I've the name+add+number of e plc he's
working at (he gave this to me just in case if i can't reach him on his mobile in
case of any emergency). He ever told me which block he's staying.@ color of money is honey: eh.. how to test him? Told him someone's trying to
matchmake me with another guy? My cousin told me to
invite him over to e upcoming chalet, whereby my
relatives & family will be there.Before we even met up, 2 of my relatives ever saw him before at NUH. He told me that his grandfather's bed was just beside my aunt-in-law's mom. He did tell me that his grandfather was admitted to hospital due to stroke. Surprisingly i received an sms from him few days later that he saw my aunt-in-law and uncle in e hospital. I was rather shocked as no one in my family nor relatives were admitted to hospital and at that time we did not know that my aunt-in-law's mom was admitted. He told me his grandfather's bed was just next to em. When i checked with my uncle, he told me that his mother-in-law was hospitalised. He told me that they took notice of the young lad beside em coz he kept turning and look at them. They commented he's a decent guy but at that time i can't comment much as i've not seen any of his pic nor met him up yet.
Anyway, he just booked in for reservist now and still receiving his smses asking how's my day? What he has done for e day and what's up for tmr etc. But I did not reply his sms last night, then i received a call frm him but nvr answer. Another sms from him around 12+am asking if i am fine. I did not reply and he never send anymore till early this morning ard 5+ 6am. He smsed saying he's quite worried as no news from me all of the sudden. He asked if am i sick? (coz i was caught in e rain few days ago) or did anything happen at home...Are these concerns for real?
So what is the issue here? You seem to like him. He seem to like you. Go forward wif the relationship. Nite shift is not a problem. Just call him at 10pm when he just started his shift to ask him how is he. -
what nite shift no problem, that is why i sadi you need to check it out, i got one gf of mine who also cheat her by thelling her he works nite shift, said nite shift got more allowances, but later we find out he is married, need to go home at nite.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
what nite shift no problem, that is why i sadi you need to check it out, i got one gf of mine who also cheat her by thelling her he works nite shift, said nite shift got more allowances, but later we find out he is married, need to go home at nite.
His night shift starts at home. Wife give allowances.
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He's interested in you, he just doesn't know how to expres in words when talking to you. I reckon he's just shy and probably had his times of not talking properly infront of girls. I used to be like that about 8 years ago when I was 17 or 18, didn't know to communicate with girls. I think he needs some self confidence built into him.
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Originally posted by burndog85:
He’s interested in you, he just doesn’t know how to expres in words when talking to you. I reckon he’s just shy and probably had his times of not talking properly infront of girls. I used to be like that about 8 years ago when I was 17 or 18, didn’t know to communicate with girls. I think he needs some self confidence built into him.
Do you have any tips for increasing confidence?I need some :-).
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Originally posted by Yach:
Do you have any tips for increasing confidence?I need some :-).
huh? u need confidence meh?? after all these communication with me, you still need confidence??? my left foot -
Originally posted by burndog85:
He’s interested in you, he just doesn’t know how to expres in words when talking to you. I reckon he’s just shy and probably had his times of not talking properly infront of girls. I used to be like that about 8 years ago when I was 17 or 18, didn’t know to communicate with girls. I think he needs some self confidence built into him.
THis guy is not new to relationship, he got a ex gf, who can also resurface back to him again, so what confidence are you talking about...let me tell you the true, the next communication he will talk is about sex and hotels. -
i do agree with angel on this that he's not new to r/s and shld have known wad to do... i wld rather TS jus wait and see what's his nxt move before you over interpret into his actions which could give you the wrong idea about him. Since you are not a in a rush for a r/s nth wrong with waiting a little longer right?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
huh? u need confidence meh?? after all these communication with me, you still need confidence??? my left foot
Huh what you mean?What did i talk with you about :o
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Originally posted by Yach:
Huh what you mean?What did i talk with you about :o
Oh, nothing, since u ignore it, then nothing lor. -
If you like him, tell him.
If you don't like him, stop smsing him.
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if you half like him and half dun like him...come to my pub
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Originally posted by angel7030:
if you half like him and half dun like him...come to my pub
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I seldom like to comment but let me provide u some insights as a guy (ok, I am a guy in his 30s) because I worried you over think and spoil what seems a good r/s with that guy. I find Singapore girls demanding and stupid - if I manage to chat with a girl for 1.5 years and she is cool and mature I would be very happy to date her but since she never express any feelings and I do not want to scare her off it would be the best not to rock the boat instead taking it one step at the time. First I ask her to be my valentine if she doesn't reject me - winner! but still that doesn't mean she wants to date me since we are both mature adults maybe she is treating me like her buddy? To show I am a serious, I am willing to be the man to pay for all the bills when we go out. I am not an idiot but I would like her to know everytime we go out it's a date and during dates I pay and I send her home. Finally, I show her I am a gentleman and wants to make sure she doesn't feel my touch is disgusting. All the signs seems to be there - do u still need to test him? If u really like him - do what all girls do - ask him for an official title but if yourself is not prepared to commit then perhaps rocking the boat is not that good right? Taiwan girls, I met are more mature and they seems to know the game - how old is TS may I ask?