I am having trouble figuring out whether this girl is interested in me or not.
When i was with her alone, she would suggest we go for dinner/lunch or outing. However, when i smsed her when is she free, she did not reply most of the time. I am wondering whether i stand a chance of her being my gf. I am also shy to keep on asking the same question "when are you free"
Also, whenever i was with her, we would behave like we were close to each other. We shared food and drinks together. Does it mean anything? Or just wishful thinking of myself that i stand a chance?
who pay for the food and drinks....................you, right ?
Haha. Nope. We go Dutch.
then let her take the initiative and ask u out
u dun irritate her by being æ»ç¼ 烂打
Haha. Problem is.. She only say say. She dun take initiatives leh. Sian. What to do?
nowadays persistence is also known as æ»ç¼ 烂打...
Why not you find one day when u both got a chance to dine together and ask her whether you and her can develop this friendship further? See what she reply ya.
hold her hand*.....the next round....
*Take your own risk
some gers are passive. ask her to date you? dream on.
Originally posted by MountainTortise:I am having trouble figuring out whether this girl is interested in me or not.
When i was with her alone, she would suggest we go for dinner/lunch or outing. However, when i smsed her when is she free, she did not reply most of the time. I am wondering whether i stand a chance of her being my gf. I am also shy to keep on asking the same question "when are you free"
Also, whenever i was with her, we would behave like we were close to each other. We shared food and drinks together. Does it mean anything? Or just wishful thinking of myself that i stand a chance?
she may be interested in you.....
but for now, she is just treating you as a good fren and she is not ready to commit anything further than tat...
do nothing for now..... you are ready but she is not ready, so just continue with your existing frenship... if she is ready, dont need to ask her... you will know
may be interested in you.....
Originally posted by Fcukpap:hold her hand*.....the next round....
*Take your own risk
Don't forget he already share food,share drink so he should go for broke and share bed oso
Originally posted by Fcukpap:hold her hand*.....the next round....
*Take your own risk
shout..."Molest!!!"
Ask her best friend.
If she don't talk to you and ignore you totally. You have the answer liao.
If the best friend say u got chance and she never ignore you. You got 70% chance.
As a gal, let me give you the perfect advice of our reaction, for the first few dates, we are only testing the ground, gal do not fall into relationship because to us, love is very important, unless you go for those cheapsake gals, then I have no say.
Sometime, we also act tough, as gal, we need to show our color too, therefore you find at times, we treat guy coldly and ignore them, then we see their reaction, and will know how much this or that guy really love us. As most of us are educated, do not think we can easily fall in Love, we think of all aspect, from looks to careers to $$ and characters, Love to us is not something like buying groceries at the wet market. And like me betray our gal feeling abit here, the more harder to chase a gal, the better is the gal, cos she study the situation, pick and choose carefully and never in a rash to say I love you kind of stuff, why good, becos this type of gal is like me, very caution and careful, if she become your gf or wife, she will be a good wife taking care of house and husband and as gf, a good one who can give sound advice to lead you to glory.
Originally posted by Nelstar:Ask her best friend.
If she don't talk to you and ignore you totally. You have the answer liao.
If the best friend say u got chance and she never ignore you. You got 70% chance.
If she ignored you, you can take her best friend
she just wants to be frens for now bah, i dnt know abt the future thou.
have you hang out with her friends too? maybe just observe how she interact with her friends lor, for all you know, she shares food and drinks with her friends too
Originally posted by Nelstar:Ask her best friend.
If she don't talk to you and ignore you totally. You have the answer liao.
If the best friend say u got chance and she never ignore you. You got 70% chance.
A good way to know. I agreed.
Becareful, some gals do not like people checking on her, if my best friends is asking me, I will ask her to care her own business and stop being kaypoh
Originally posted by angel7030:Becareful, some gals do not like people checking on her, if my best friends is asking me, I will ask her to care her own business and stop being kaypoh
Aiyo...Angel like a wooden plank.
Just ask casually lah....without letting her friend knows lah.
Now i understand why lots of sg guys are still single, cos they do not fully understand women feeling and way of thinkings, do not assume that you ask casually and nobody sense what you are looking for, for we girls, our best friends are also our recorder helping each other out, unlike you guy brotherhood which end up betraying each other, we, sisterhood are alway righteous and help each other, what you ask will be send by sms with second to our eyes.
I think I need to write a book on Understanding of sg girl for you guys, if not hor, at 40s, still blur blur
if gal also guy's best fren, high chance the best fren won't bother to feedback to tht guy
but
if guy ask gal's best fren, the next thing the best fren will do is tell tht gal. you know how gals are lah hor
Girls like to "share" food because they want this and also that. Like buy one get two.
SMS not always convenient to reply, sometimes don't know there is SMS, sometimes with other people, or some situation that cannot reply.
You think too much. Just go on as you are now. Don't wait for her, do other things.
She will call you when she is free and has no one to go out with.
Originally posted by angel7030:Now i understand why lots of sg guys are still single, cos they do not fully understand women feeling and way of thinkings, do not assume that you ask casually and nobody sense what you are looking for, for we girls, our best friends are also our recorder helping each other out, unlike you guy brotherhood which end up betraying each other, we, sisterhood are alway righteous and help each other, what you ask will be send by sms with second to our eyes.
I think I need to write a book on Understanding of sg girl for you guys, if not hor, at 40s, still blur blur
Ladies too complex to understand.
Their heart like a sea and weather.
Originally posted by angel7030:Now i understand why lots of sg guys are still single, cos they do not fully understand women feeling and way of thinkings, do not assume that you ask casually and nobody sense what you are looking for, for we girls, our best friends are also our recorder helping each other out, unlike you guy brotherhood which end up betraying each other, we, sisterhood are alway righteous and help each other, what you ask will be send by sms with second to our eyes.
I think I need to write a book on Understanding of sg girl for you guys, if not hor, at 40s, still blur blur
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