I know women hates men who are mummy's boy and men who always put their mums as their priority. I can understand that.
But does men who loves and shows appreciation for their mums means they are not "man" enough?
We tend to regret if we dont show the love and attention to our loved ones after they are gone.
I wonder why women cant understand that some men love their mums is because they feel indebted to them and without them, they would not have enough to eat.
If a guy loves him mom means he is not manly enough?
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Since love is a loose term.
Please define the type of love in the above.
(a) Love as in man-woman love
(b) Love as in parent-child love
(c) Love as in owner-pet love
Lastly, what is your agony?
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the immature woman will go for the "manly and macho" bad guy because he is "exciting" and thinks she can change him...
if he changes, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he is now no more "the man she fell in love with"
if he doesn't change, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he "doesn't love her enough to change"
either way, hooking up with an immature woman is like (in the words of my friend) masturbating with a cheese grater.. mildly interesting in the beginning but ultimately painful..
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alot of different spoof exist...
Just change the mother to father also can... change to sister or brother also can...
Simply admitting that 2 person have different thinking thus not compatible and move on...
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Originally posted by the Bear:
the immature woman will go for the "manly and macho" bad guy because he is "exciting" and thinks she can change him...
if he changes, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he is now no more "the man she fell in love with"
if he doesn't change, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he "doesn't love her enough to change"
either way, hooking up with an immature woman is like (in the words of my friend) masturbating with a cheese grater.. mildly interesting in the beginning but ultimately painful..
A Girl marry a Guy, hoping he'll change in the future...A Guy marry a Girl, hoping she wont change in the future
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Nelstar, the topic is about men who love their mums. which part dont you understand?
and i just wonder if men who loves their mums means they are not man enough. must we men abandoned our mums who have done a lot for us to be labeled a "man"?
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Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:
Nelstar, the topic is about men who love their mums. which part dont you understand?
the part about "love" since the word is loosely bandied around until it's almost lost its meaning...
love is more profound and deep than we can ever understand...
there is eros, agape and lots of other types of love.. all which is amazing...
and if some idiot says that loving a mother means "not manly" the person doesn't even begin to know what the hell the word entails...
understand?
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will wife be jealous should a man listens or sayang the mum more ?
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It make sense. Women hates mummy's boy.
Mummy's boy means this guy is not even a growth up kid.
It is like:
do you like Red T-shirts?
My mom says, "blue colour is better".Do you want to go KFC?
My mom says,"KFC is bad, fried food"Noticed, it is the mom making the decision for him. And not him himself.
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Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:
Nelstar, the topic is about men who love their mums. which part dont you understand?
and i just wonder if men who loves their mums means they are not man enough. must we men abandoned our mums who have done a lot for us to be labeled a "man"?
Who is asking you to abandon your mother?
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It is ok to love yr mum.
Afterall, yr mum raises you up to a man.
So the most you must love yr mum.
Nothing wrong with it.
I love my mum too.
I also love my wife too.
Ts, u need to allocate time properly.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
It is ok to love yr mum.
Afterall, yr mum raises you up to a man.
So the most you must love yr mum.
Nothing wrong with it.
I love my mum too.
I also love my wife too.
Ts, u need to allocate time properly.
u olso need to love yr grandma hor, mother in law and the holy mother -
Originally posted by the Bear:
the immature woman will go for the "manly and macho" bad guy because he is "exciting" and thinks she can change him...
if he changes, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he is now no more "the man she fell in love with"
if he doesn't change, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he "doesn't love her enough to change"
either way, hooking up with an immature woman is like (in the words of my friend) masturbating with a cheese grater.. mildly interesting in the beginning but ultimately painful..
lol.. ouch.
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Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:I know women hates men who are mummy's boy and men who always put their mums as their priority. I can understand that.
But does men who loves and shows appreciation for their mums means they are not "man" enough?
We tend to regret if we dont show the love and attention to our loved ones after they are gone.
I wonder why women cant understand that some men love their mums is because they feel indebted to them and without them, they would not have enough to eat.
There are lots of mommy's boy now a day, some guy I went out dunno what size their underwear is, cos mommy buy for them.But I dun really blame them, cos today family, mostly one or two boys per family, so treated like prince and king, kind of overly pampered. If I become mother, i make sure my son go thru the hard knock of life, get tough and be a real man
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Originally posted by Boyboyb:
will wife be jealous should a man listens or sayang the mum more ?
sure, gals like us are easily jealous creature, whether it mom, aunt, grandma or sister, if you treat them nicer than you gf or wife, you got lots of problem, most of my gal frens who are married do not face much problem with their husbands but instead, their Mothers- in- laws. As for Fathers-in-laws, they usually support us, the wife of his son, cos they also hate their own old wife, but no dare to scold them, instead the daughter-in law do the job for them. -
Originally posted by the Bear:
the part about "love" since the word is loosely bandied around until it's almost lost its meaning...
love is more profound and deep than we can ever understand...
there is eros, agape and lots of other types of love.. all which is amazing...
and if some idiot says that loving a mother means "not manly" the person doesn't even begin to know what the hell the word entails...
understand?
Let love be simple, to be or not to be, if you define love too deep, it goes out of sense and cause lots of confusion, to some love is poison, to some love is glory.
UNDERSTAND?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
u olso need to love yr grandma hor, mother in law and the holy mother
grandmum gone, holy mother...sorry...I hv only 1 mum + 1 mum in law.I dont care a damn on holy mother.
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you good lor, i got no mum, no mum in law, no holy mum only got one rich grandmum everyday keep nagging at me..nevermind...i waiting silently...got $$$
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Originally posted by angel7030:
There are lots of mommy's boy now a day, some guy I went out dunno what size their underwear is, cos mommy buy for them.But I dun really blame them, cos today family, mostly one or two boys per family, so treated like prince and king, kind of overly pampered. If I become mother, i make sure my son go thru the hard knock of life, get tough and be a real man
one hard knock on the wrong spot become eunuch.
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Arrgh!! i hate Nelstar, I hate Nelstar, I hate Nelstar!!!
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Originally posted by Lokey:
It make sense. Women hates mummy's boy.
Mummy's boy means this guy is not even a growth up kid.
It is like:
do you like Red T-shirts?
My mom says, "blue colour is better".Do you want to go KFC?
My mom says,"KFC is bad, fried food"Noticed, it is the mom making the decision for him. And not him himself.
But respect and love for father and mother is very important. I dont think it does not means he is not "man" enough. But respect and love =/= mummy's boy.
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Originally posted by Boyboyb:
will wife be jealous should a man listens or sayang the mum more ?
Definitely will. Especially if the wife, the husband stay together with the husband's mother.
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Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:I know women hates men who are mummy's boy and men who always put their mums as their priority. I can understand that.
But does men who loves and shows appreciation for their mums means they are not "man" enough?
We tend to regret if we dont show the love and attention to our loved ones after they are gone.
I wonder why women cant understand that some men love their mums is because they feel indebted to them and without them, they would not have enough to eat.Can be really irritating if the man keeps listening to the mum....
But then not "man" enough... No LAR... -
I've dated a lot of mommy boys before.. and heard a few horror stories of my friends who married mommy boys.
There's nothing wrong loving your own mom. In fact, it is bad to show disrespect to your mother. Because a woman will look at a man who disrespect and ill treat his mother and think " gee.. he's probably gonna do that to me in the future."
A mommy boy is one who lets his mom dictate his life. He is "yes mom" and will not stand up to his own mom even tho what she wants is unreasonable/impractical and or controlling.
A mommy boy will have a difficult marriage, especially when his mom is controlling and manipulative to her own desire.
A mommy boy will let his mom tell him how to live his life, and his wife's life... and his children's life.. because he thinks "mommy knows best".. but you must understand your mother is not "unbiased/impartial". Her job is to protect YOU.. not your marriage nor relationship.
If you are able to think on your own two feet and tell your mom "no, I don't think that's a good idea." You are NOT a mommy boy.
Just because she is your mom does not mean she is always right. Nor is your wife/gf ( to be fair).
Be fair and just. Everyone is looking out for their OWN interest. Look beyond the he says she says.. and use your own brain.
Your mom has a husband, your father should be the one fullfilling her needs, not you. If your mom is lonely and neglected, you need to go talk to your father and ask him to step up.
So.. it's not that Mommy boy is not "manly".. it's just that.. a mommy boy is probably not very "smart"...
Intelligence is something women are attracted to... so that's why we don't like mommy boy.. because they are kinda dumb.
An example of a mommy boy is ..
You and your gf is out on a evening date after work. You informed your mother you won't be home for dinner.
Half way through your romantic dinner with your gf.. your mom calls and demand you go home.. because she cooked dinner.
A mommy boy will dump his gf at the restaurant and run home to have dinner with his mom.
A NON-mommy boy will remind his mom he is not coming home, and request his mom to keep the food in the fridge or save it for his lunch the next day.
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A man who love his mum is a real man.