Tired, so tired
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Originally posted by 81:
ppl obviously dun understand girls.
when girls whine, they are just seeking for listeners/attentions, not advice.so, to make a girl happy when they are whining, nod your head and ask some question, then let them know that you are a good listening ear. that will do.
nod nod
TS probably have lower than normal self esteem, coupled with the fact that she does not like to interact with ppl.
and for that to happen, my guess would be she does not stand out amoung the crowd, glamorously.
the fact that she indicate herself as virgin (which does not really ties to any of her whining), can means:
1) she is desperate
2) she uses this point to show her lack of relationship exp. probably her frds around her are non V.
2) she finds this is her few only plus points?anyway, wad she needs is to find ways to bring up her self esteem and everything will works.
setting a small target, instead of a big one helps.
i don’t believe in targetting for the moon, when u are on earth only.
smaller than small target will helps a long way too.small target can range from, i wan to smile 10 times to 10 different ppl today… to.. i wan to smile and start a conversation with the guy/girl i always want to today…
dude, this is aunt agony forum, of cus pple come here for advice lah duh
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Haix...This is not about girl or boy. The reason why I put my gender is previously, people mistaken me for a guy, that's all. As for the virginity, it is to further illustrate that I am not living what the society expects a female to lose her virginity at an early stage (perhaps mine is like a "taboo") But you are right that perhaps I have lower than normal self-esteem.
Everytime I talk, I feel drained and tired. I don't know why. I don't really enjoy interaction much.
Anyways, I want to end this topic la because I am currently doing so-so.
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Wait Wait! Bun bun, although you a bit siao siao, i still can help you, you can be a much better gal if only you open yourself to the world, accept the truth of evil existing and that virginity got nothing to do with life
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Wait Wait! Bun bun, although you a bit siao siao, i still can help you, you can be a much better gal if only you open yourself to the world, accept the truth of evil existing and that virginity got nothing to do with life
Perhaps you can educate her about constructive criticism and self-motivation. Her responses so far to everyone's goodwill somehow ends on the wrong end most of the time.
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Originally posted by Nelstar:
Perhaps you can educate her about constructive criticism and self-motivation. Her responses so far to everyone's goodwill somehow ends on the wrong end most of the time.
I will like to intro her to the way of thinking, most of these people lack of thinking skills and end up with either with only one way thinking or simply think wildly without any basis and framework to follow. And bear in mind I do collect fees for advices on thinking skills but for the sake of my siao bun bun here and many other goondo forumers, like me give you a few tips on thinking skill before you embark on anything.1st, before you do anything, for example, finding a job, please collect infomation first and put it into your brain, collect as much information as possible, like what skill is needed, what is the company situation, how is the culture etc etc, collect information only, do not analyse it yet, because if you analyse while collect thing, you will end up debating on one information and forget other important information.
2nd, sit down, spread out the information you collected, place them at specific category, like benefit in one rows, people mentality and culture in another, and so on, study it and feel it, does it suit you, or do you have other alternatives or interviews which you can go and collect more infomation to compare, set your priorty, but dun go into conclusion yet
3rd, after collect all the information from all the interview you attended, spread it out again on specific category, then compare and see which is better than the other, from transportation to pay to working hrs and even career advancement. Then take the one that seem benefit you the most
4th, be cool, let the mind think, before going to accept it, check back, what have you miss out, any flaws in it, then finally, challenge yourself, ask yourself question, if I take this job, what will happen, can i get upgraded, is it really what i am looking for, after 5 years of working, can I advance from this job, and so on. People tends to forget to challenge themselves before embarking on job or other matters, that is why, most end up regretted, demoralised and sad.
5th, once you have make up your mind, be firm and tell yourself never to regret on what decision you make, cos you have gone thru and think of it in a structured way, then, end up with your gut feeling, a kind of six sense thinking that focus on whether you will make it in this job or not, this is very important, dun blind blind go knock on the wall end up get nothing because you lack the six sense to feel it.
6th, once everything is decided, be happy, smile and thinking clearly.
This type of thinking apply to all thing, from getting a job, a bf, a game console, a TV, etc etc.
Angel
Thinking Conn sultant
290, Joo Chiat Road
Hourly Parking available
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Originally posted by angel7030:
I will like to intro her to the way of thinking, most of these people lack of thinking skills and end up with either with only one way thinking or simply think wildly without any basis and framework to follow. And bear in mind I do collect fees for advices on thinking skills but for the sake of my siao bun bun here and many other goondo forumers, like me give you a few tips on thinking skill before you embark on anything.1st, before you do anything, for example, finding a job, please collect infomation first and put it into your brain, collect as much information as possible, like what skill is needed, what is the company situation, how is the culture etc etc, collect information only, do not analyse it yet, because if you analyse while collect thing, you will end up debating on one information and forget other important information.
2nd, sit down, spread out the information you collected, place them at specific category, like benefit in one rows, people mentality and culture in another, and so on, study it and feel it, does it suit you, or do you have other alternatives or interviews which you can go and collect more infomation to compare, set your priorty, but dun go into conclusion yet
3rd, after collect all the information from all the interview you attended, spread it out again on specific category, then compare and see which is better than the other, from transportation to pay to working hrs and even career advancement. Then take the one that seem benefit you the most
4th, be cool, let the mind think, before going to accept it, check back, what have you miss out, any flaws in it, then finally, challenge yourself, ask yourself question, if I take this job, what will happen, can i get upgraded, is it really what i am looking for, after 5 years of working, can I advance from this job, and so on. People tends to forget to challenge themselves before embarking on job or other matters, that is why, most end up regretted, demoralised and sad.
5th, once you have make up your mind, be firm and tell yourself never to regret on what decision you make, cos you have gone thru and think of it in a structured way, then, end up with your gut feeling, a kind of six sense thinking that focus on whether you will make it in this job or not, this is very important, dun blind blind go knock on the wall end up get nothing because you lack the six sense to feel it.
6th, once everything is decided, be happy, smile and thinking clearly.
This type of thinking apply to all thing, from getting a job, a bf, a game console, a TV, etc etc.
Angel
Thinking Conn sultant
290, Joo Chiat Road
Hourly Parking available
*claps*
Wah, this way I can get a bf?
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just make sure the bf do not have ED
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Guy horny is natural, but becareful, some got real horn on their heads, check it out before befren them.
She oledi say she got xiaobunbun - how to sell body la? Unless she get silicon transplant n call herself Dabunbun. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
yalor, change so many jobs, by the time TS retire, every singapore companies also got her record and name liao
Job hopping will not push you up the ladder.'Instead, it will only make you go round and round.
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just have a sleep and all things will go well
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Originally posted by yolanda2033:
just have a sleep and all things will go well
That is temporarily...when u wake up, the problem still with u. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Guy horny is natural, but becareful, some got real horn on their heads, check it out before befren them.
horn (- -) .........vietnam red rose......????
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Originally posted by angel7030:
aiya, these type siao siao one, free ah pek also dun wan
i come across a lot of stories about a lot of dirty old man when i was in china have all kinds of fun.hear that those china gals call them "Pervert Old Man" who can book 4 girls at 1 time
wan to know wat he did to them in the middle of them nite ^^
whahahahahahah i tell you hoh... its scarly loh...... adn there tons of stories as well
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Originally posted by angel7030:
I will like to intro her to the way of thinking, most of these people lack of thinking skills and end up with either with only one way thinking or simply think wildly without any basis and framework to follow. And bear in mind I do collect fees for advices on thinking skills but for the sake of my siao bun bun here and many other goondo forumers, like me give you a few tips on thinking skill before you embark on anything.1st, before you do anything, for example, finding a job, please collect infomation first and put it into your brain, collect as much information as possible, like what skill is needed, what is the company situation, how is the culture etc etc, collect information only, do not analyse it yet, because if you analyse while collect thing, you will end up debating on one information and forget other important information.
2nd, sit down, spread out the information you collected, place them at specific category, like benefit in one rows, people mentality and culture in another, and so on, study it and feel it, does it suit you, or do you have other alternatives or interviews which you can go and collect more infomation to compare, set your priorty, but dun go into conclusion yet
3rd, after collect all the information from all the interview you attended, spread it out again on specific category, then compare and see which is better than the other, from transportation to pay to working hrs and even career advancement. Then take the one that seem benefit you the most
4th, be cool, let the mind think, before going to accept it, check back, what have you miss out, any flaws in it, then finally, challenge yourself, ask yourself question, if I take this job, what will happen, can i get upgraded, is it really what i am looking for, after 5 years of working, can I advance from this job, and so on. People tends to forget to challenge themselves before embarking on job or other matters, that is why, most end up regretted, demoralised and sad.
5th, once you have make up your mind, be firm and tell yourself never to regret on what decision you make, cos you have gone thru and think of it in a structured way, then, end up with your gut feeling, a kind of six sense thinking that focus on whether you will make it in this job or not, this is very important, dun blind blind go knock on the wall end up get nothing because you lack the six sense to feel it.
6th, once everything is decided, be happy, smile and thinking clearly.
This type of thinking apply to all thing, from getting a job, a bf, a game console, a TV, etc etc.
Angel
Thinking Conn sultant
290, Joo Chiat Road
Hourly Parking available
yes go and learn a bit of social skill from this galyou need her social skill to survior in this cruel world.
you can cry, you can do anything to hurt yrself, ppl might show you pity in here.
but once you step out of that shell you yrs, the strong will survior and the week will still cry alone.
if you need real man to teach you, i think you need a man to turn you into a real woman.
* learn this Woman of 20 to 30 years that dont enjoy SEX will look like 40-50 years old. due to lack of love. this is the truth.
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
i come across a lot of stories about a lot of dirty old man when i was in china have all kinds of fun.hear that those china gals call them "Pervert Old Man" who can book 4 girls at 1 time
wan to know wat he did to them in the middle of them nite ^^
whahahahahahah i tell you hoh... its scarly loh...... adn there tons of stories as well
Oh, I never been to those part of China, the china I go to have those rich chinese tai tai booking young guy, can hv 4 chinese aunties and one young guy, really pity that young guy...sure get hamburger one -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Oh, I never been to those part of China, the china I go to have those rich chinese tai tai booking young guy, can hv 4 chinese aunties and one young guy, really pity that young guy...sure get hamburger one
i hear a lot of stories including 1 that the young lad was force to keep taking on taking virga till he internal bleeding and body was throw into a river -
Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
i hear a lot of stories including 1 that the young lad was force to keep taking on taking virga till he internal bleeding and body was throw into a river
Oh, no wonder china fishes are very big and juicy