recently, i've been so aimless in life.
come back from work, straight away go nap, wake up have dinner, then ish surf net or play guitar/bass.
just now chat with a fren, he ask me weekends got plans boh then i think to myself, i really dnt have plans leh. it's going to be surf net, play guitar/bass and tht's it, nothing liao.
and dnt even talk about getting a partner cause i just got rejected and so it doesn't help in the situation with tht sucky feeling
Rejection is the begining of success. Come on, dun just hang there and surf porn guys, get your butts downtown or can come my pub in joo chiat.
Originally posted by angel7030:Rejection is the begining of success. Come on, dun just hang there and surf porn guys, get your butts downtown or can come my pub in joo chiat.
yah but have to go thru tht sucky feeling again.
neh, i dnt really watch porn liao, seem thing happening again and again, i need some real action perhaps.
go out also dnt know go where. long time nvr go oub liao, unless got live band type
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Originally posted by redname:recently, i've been so aimless in life.
come back from work, straight away go nap, wake up have dinner, then ish surf net or play guitar/bass.
just now chat with a fren, he ask me weekends got plans boh then i think to myself, i really dnt have plans leh. it's going to be surf net, play guitar/bass and tht's it, nothing liao.
and dnt even talk about getting a partner cause i just got rejected and so it doesn't help in the situation with tht sucky feeling
This is midlife crisis if you are in the thirties/forties.
If you are in the twenties, start doing something before it really becomes a midlife crisis.
For starters, you can plan about what to do and where to go next.
It need not always be about career or love life. Some people plan to travel to all countires of Europe, others plan to climb all major mountains in the world. Such aims will steer you forward, and give you something to look forward to. While you are working, you will be planning almost everyday after work what to bring along, what hotels to book, what you will need...etc.
Do not plan something just for the sake of planning though. For those who I mentioned above, they will feel a sense of satisfaction after visiting another country or successfully scaling a mountain. If you are just doing something for the sake of completing it, you may end up feeling even more hollow afterwards.
I believe there are forummers here who even planned to travel to certain countries in the world and try out some of the best delicacies which they have been looking forward to.
Hi,
May you bounce out of this soon. If one has already reached the lowest point, he can only move up next. Take good care and reflect more about the meaning of life based on your own perspective, for it is your life. Thanks.
Cheers,
Wen Shih
Originally posted by redname:recently, i've been so aimless in life.
come back from work, straight away go nap, wake up have dinner, then ish surf net or play guitar/bass.
just now chat with a fren, he ask me weekends got plans boh then i think to myself, i really dnt have plans leh. it's going to be surf net, play guitar/bass and tht's it, nothing liao.
and dnt even talk about getting a partner cause i just got rejected and so it doesn't help in the situation with tht sucky feeling
Hey don't give up. I oso got rejected n flamed at my times. But I strive on, I told myself to keep on going, neva giving up. Tell myself that I am the best and I can do it. Now I met one interior designer and we r going out.
I neva let negatively get to me. I keep on improving n if I fail using one method, I will go for another method. Keep on reflecting. Neva feel guilty about wat u did, u r a guy so only natural to act like a guy.
Originally posted by angel7030:Rejection is the begining of success. Come on, dun just hang there and surf porn guys, get your butts downtown or can come my pub in joo chiat.
downtown expensive. where's ur pub, go already got discount anot. lOl
well this feeling of aimlessness and generally acting like a failure/loner won't get u anywhere near where u want. think u're smart enough to eventually pull urself out of this rut.
*pat pat*
what doesnt kills you, makes you stronger lol
It is your subconscious mind telling you that something is not right with your life.
Be positive and smart will not solve your issues.
You have dig deeper into yourself whether you are issues with your work, love life , family and life goal.
If you are not sure, go to the bookshop and library to find out more.
It will be a tough journey of self-discovery.
Not every one is brave and strong enough to survive cos it may lead to depression if you wallow in this vicious cycle of helplessness.
Originally posted by Medicated Oil:It is your subconscious mind telling you that something is not right with your life.
Be positive and smart will not solve your issues.
You have dig deeper into yourself whether you are issues with your work, love life , family and life goal.
If you are not sure, go to the bookshop and library to find out more.
It will be a tough journey of self-discovery.
Not every one is brave and strong enough to survive cos it may lead to depression if you wallow in this vicious cycle of helplessnes
I strongly agree with this...trial and error to understand what u want. Sure can one lar. :)
at least u still know how to play guitar and bass. some people here just do PCC and sleep and working a dead end job .
Hi ts, how old are you? Mid 40s?
Cos mid life crisis usually happen around mid 40s.
Originally posted by likeyou:Hi ts, how old are you? Mid 40s?
Cos mid life crisis usually happen around mid 40s.
depend, if that person die at 50yo, his mid life can be 25yo
Originally posted by Genopooh:downtown expensive. where's ur pub, go already got discount anot. lOl
aiya, boss, u and me so friendly, talk about discount for what, and people who are smart will know that discount happen on mark up price, i give free for intro lah
Originally posted by angel7030:
depend, if that person die at 50yo, his mid life can be 25yo
No, cannot depends as one's dont know when one's die.
No lah, if at 25yo, you feel that you are having those mid life crisis problem, then, most probably, you will die at 50yo, that is the rule of thumb
Originally posted by redname:yah but have to go thru tht sucky feeling again.
neh, i dnt really watch porn liao, seem thing happening again and again, i need some real action perhaps.
go out also dnt know go where. long time nvr go oub liao, unless got live band type
Aiya, Ah neh, nowaday, what live band are u talking abt, most are beggar bands lor, if you really want life ban, go chinese funneral, everynite also got free life band
Originally posted by angel7030:No lah, if at 25yo, you feel that you are having those mid life crisis problem, then, most probably, you will die at 50yo, that is the rule of thumb
Then what is mid life crisis?
Unable to sleep throughout the day?
And tried out easily?
Very sleepy yet cant sleep?
Th
Originally posted by likeyou:
Then what is mid life crisis?Unable to sleep throughout the day?
And tried out easily?
Very sleepy yet cant sleep?
Th
In the mid of your life, you face a crisis, but the fact that in 1/4 and 3/4 of your life, you also face crisis, but a different crisis altogether, at young age, you got school examin crisis, at teenage, you got hormone change crisis, at youth stage, you got relationship and money crisis, then at 30s, which i hv not got thru, you got career and family crisis, then at mid life, if you still have crisis, than i think for the first part of your life, you learnt NOTHING!
There 2 types of crisis, the natural and the self make, many peoples make their own crisis, just by getting older is a crisis to them, that is a psychological problem, not a crisis, you may see this and that as crisis, but actually, there is no crisis, but merely a self make crisis.
I urge those feeling their own life in crisis to look at people sufferring from natural crisis, the like of earthquake, flood, fire, malnutrition, lack of food, drought and so on...you will find that you are actually living in heaven
Originally posted by angel7030:
Aiya, Ah neh, nowaday, what live band are u talking abt, most are beggar bands lor, if you really want life ban, go chinese funneral, everynite also got free life band
pls dnt insult the music industry like tht, thank you
Originally posted by redname:pls dnt insult the music industry like tht, thank you
today where got live band, those are old days type, please understand that i am trying to shift people to a new era, there is hardly a chance playing live band in singapore can get you anywhere...thanks
Originally posted by angel7030:
today where got live band, those are old days type, please understand that i am trying to shift people to a new era, there is hardly a chance playing live band in singapore can get you anywhere...thanks
Eh, u not keep in touch wif current trend la. Some people like to go pub wif bands. I got a fren who play bassist for his band at a pub.
I dun like DJ, they are like imitators, they take other people song n mix it up and claim it to be theirs.