Forget about appeasement, this is the up and downs in a relationship.
Just ride it out.
If he carries on like a Java programme loop, tick him off again. You must be able to do that.
Else..
Originally posted by Dawn510:First of all, I have to say it's heart warming to see the number of people that are concerned. And once again I thank you all posting your views.
I had told him that I am sick of quarreling before. Letting nature take its course will not work, it will just come back to haunt us wont it?Here's whats happening now:
We havent talked since the last time.I miss him. I wonder how's he doing. But I dont dare to call.
We merely texted, and the content goes like this:Last night
Him: U really got nothing to say?
Me: I do have something to say. I do not wish to do it b4 your test. What time do you end (i meant school) tml?
He didnt reply. I wished him luck for his test tml.Today morning
He asked me if I was in sch and what time do I end, he was done with his exam.
I asked him are we going to talk about it face to face today. He said he's tired. He asked what was it that I wanted to tell him. I told him I dont want to do it over the phone. I asked shall we get a day to resolve this? He said anything. He said he dont know what to say. I asked hows tml then? He said he cnt. We ended the msg as I left to take my test after he finish me luck.
Just like that. I find it painful. How is it possible that we can be so lovey afew days ago and then be so cold now?
Tsk tsk.. the games children play.
He wants to torment you.. but he cannot tahan the mystery... lol !
Dawn, drop this childish brat..
You will meet other guys who are more mature than your current boyfriend...when you do.. you'd be laughing at yourself for even crying about him before...
All you need to do is:
1. Stop messaging him
2. Go out with your friends
If he treasures you, you will see he wakes up his idea.
Most likely not.
relationship for 3 years and you're only 18? wow. anyway.. your bf is really behaving like a wuss. wait for him to enlist and see the change in him. If he doesn't change for the better, dump him. But for now, do you really see a future with your current bf?? just because you spent 3 years with him doesn't mean the relationship is stable. Imagine him treating you like that everytime you're at fault.. get it???
Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:�气鬼
Tell him to get over it or end it. No point dragging on.
Ask yourself, would you want to stay with such a petty guy for the next 10-20 years? If he cannot let go of such a tiny issue then what makes you think he'll be able to handle bigger ones?
Dump the immature brat and count yourself lucky you found out early.
On the other hand, if you think that you reallyyyyyy looovveeee him and cannot live without him and etc etc. Then maybe you can try groveling and kiss his ass to stroke his fragile little ego.
Wat does Troll granny single n lonely littlemissbonkers know about luv? Luv is like oxygen.
Sounds like somebody has hurt the troll granny littlemissbonkers tis way before. Haha, serve the troll bonkers rite. No wonder the troll littlebonkers get so angry at the IMH computer n start screaming like a mad granny.
I advice TS to hang on yer hot tempered n bring out past event boyfren, if ya leave em, afterward the monster Grannie, littlemissbonkers will cum out in the darkness of the nite screaming "precious cock" n cum n rape em.
nothing a blowjob in the morning......................
and anal sex in the evening can't solve..................
Originally posted by Nelstar:everyday yell... you all in army camp?
i not even 10 yrs also not everyday yell....
if nvr yell he can't hear
take it as part & parcel of life
Originally posted by JerryJan:if nvr yell he can't hear
take it as part & parcel of life
Interesting life...
What Nelstar said.
Hes probably trying to find a reason to dump you, if he keeps bringing up the same small matter despite months :(
If you need to appease your bf, this show that you are mostly a ugly woman with no confident and small chest...airport.
Haha, got one similanjiao, say he knows littlemissbonkers got lan jiao and littlemissbonkers use oxygen tank like M.J to booast the lan jiao performance. Wakakakakaka...wonder how the ccb know? He must have been raped by littlemissbonkers, and now become very sub-servient and obedient because of his vulnerable state and his virginity stolen by the monster troll littlemissbonkers.
I dont see why he should take this so hard when you have apologised. Unless there are other reasons etc you have been mis-treating him or un-sincere. I doubt so. If he is so xiao qi over small matters, next time how ? are you gonna quarrel everyday ? Is this the BF you want ? Are you gonna be happy ?
As a girl, never led a guy pull you by the nose, later married, you may suffer, even he flirt around, you also cannot say anything. You must take control, so what if he dun like, outside got one bus load of guys waiting. Show some girl colors for our girl sake lah
i think u shld just break up with him. he is not worth it.
let him f u
but he already got tired of doing it
Just meet him face to face and sort this thing out , seriously.
He no time ? You go to him .
Hopefully this thing will end well and of course , what makes you fall , makes you stronger.
ya, but just dun try to meet up at high rise building, the fall can be real bad