brother owes loanshark
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Haiz, move house oso no use. The loanshark got way of finding u. Singapore so small, u think u can hide meh?
One way is the only way.
Settle all outstanding loan. Then disown the son. Tell all loanshark, tat if the bastard son go n borrow any more money in future, father won't help. Simple wat, I am sure all the loanshark come banging at yer door already left all their phone numbers n biz cards.
Not say simple la. But u gotta do wat u gotta do. No choice. The bro is not going to give up his gambling addiction. If u dun cut him off now, he will drag yer whole family down.
first this way will not work !!!
1st by now the amount is too big to setttle. Also once you settle for him - there is alway a next time.
Since want to disown him - why still pay !!!
loanshark don't care - and don't listen to reason - even you pay and disown him - next time he own again they will still come again ... why they know you pay what .... you think they care if you disown him or not... !!!
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Originally posted by storywolf:
first this way will not work !!!
1st by now the amount is too big to setttle. Also once you settle for him - there is alway a next time.
Since want to disown him - why still pay !!!
loanshark don't care - and don't listen to reason - even you pay and disown him - next time he own again they will still come again ... why they know you pay what .... you think they care if you disown him or not... !!!
Tell the loanshark to come and ask police to ambush him. Meanwhile ask your brother to run to malaysia to hide.
A TRUE STORY HAPPEN ON ME
ONE Of my uncle own loanshark SGD 100,000 via horse racing, 4D and soccer. What he do. He run to malaysia for hiding around 1 year plus.
Later we check that A Long kanna caught by police and get into jail.
DEN he came back and start refreshed life as a taxi driver till now. VERY FUNNY right. -
i just called ncpg and i will be bringing my dad to listen to a talk about all this thing.hopefully my bro will agree to the treatment.
even if my bro will change this time round , where we get all this money to pay? mum has the money but she's not willing to pay if my bro stays in sg , he wants him to live in msia with my other relatives. i know that by escaping from the truth doesnt help , but the issue now is if we dont pay , we are really worried they will come every now and then and do some stunts ..
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i think send him jail will b best way..
some people learn mistake from what they did, but smart people learn mistake from what others did.
normally those people who think they very smart, they wont learn anything from their mistake.
i suggest report him for stealing all that, send him to jail, maybe lucky enough, the LS bro inside can help u all teach him how dumb and stupid he is. like this then he will know what is the meaning of 'smart is good, but dont act smart'
learn mistake from hard way is way better than he never learn his mistake or else there is no way the save him back from his act smart mind.
hopefully your dad can cruel to save his son than soft hearted to make whole family suffer for just a act smart mind KID
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bo mata (abt loansharks) liao not?
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if u killed him
not worth it
u still has to paid his debt
hmm
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called police , filed report , wrapped plastic on door . now police patrolling from time to time at my house area.
cctv and door chime installing tonight .
what i could do now was to persuade my brother to go to those counselling with me and my dad ..
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
One solution:
Yer father go post advert in newspaper - Say he disown his son. Name: So and So.
Oso say, whatever the son owe, the father does not wish to pay his debts bcause he is no longer related n no longer live ere.
Then take the newspaper advert and paste it on yer front door for all the loan shark to see.
DISOWN HIM NOW !
I dnt think it will work. LS runner dont care about how his father paste the advert. Runner just do his job, splash paint and write words on the wall.
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The only option is to get the LS phone no.
Call him and meet him up.
Settle whatever loans he got ($$) and inform the LS head that never lend money to his son. Black mark him. And ask him to do a favour, inform all other LS head too.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
The only option is to get the LS phone no.
Call him and meet him up.
Settle whatever loans he got ($$) and inform the LS head that never lend money to his son. Black mark him. And ask him to do a favour, inform all other LS head too.
Not all loansharks got networking and not all loansharks bother abt competition's ability to recover loan.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
I dnt think it will work. LS runner dont care about how his father paste the advert. Runner just do his job, splash paint and write words on the wall.
we did that last time , sad to say most of them dont care one, got benefits sure chop one ..
but i must say a few of them were really good , give constructive advices to my dad etc.
now my dad is thinking of paying all the debts ...
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Originally posted by sighsoul:
we did that last time , sad to say most of them dont care one, got benefits sure chop one ..
but i must say a few of them were really good , give constructive advices to my dad etc.
now my dad is thinking of paying all the debts ...
It is not a solution. You see, both businesses work hand in hand.
Illegal Betting + Illegal Moneylending.
Paying up, is only another excuse for your brother to lend again.
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Originally posted by sighsoul:
we did that last time , sad to say most of them dont care one, got benefits sure chop one ..
but i must say a few of them were really good , give constructive advices to my dad etc.
now my dad is thinking of paying all the debts ...
When the debts are clear, talk to the ls head again.
Give him a red packet and inform him to blackmark his son. Let the head know when next time his son borrow money, he will not be able to pay back to you.
That is what my uncle do by saving his son.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
When the debts are clear, talk to the ls head again.
Give him a red packet and inform him to blackmark his son. Let the head know when next time his son borrow money, he will not be able to pay back to you.
That is what my uncle do by saving his son.
Your uncle saved his son from group A. His son didn't borrow again.
Her father saved the son from group A. Son borrow from group B, C, D, E, F, G, H now.
How many groups more to settle?
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Originally posted by Nelstar:
Your uncle saved his son from group A. His son didn't borrow again.
Her father saved the son from group A. Son borrow from group B, C, D, E, F, G, H now.
How many groups more to settle?
My cousin also have banks chasing him to pay up too.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
My cousin also have banks chasing him to pay up too.
Banks will stop lending the same person but that doesn't equate to the fact the person is reformed and loansharks wont stop lending.
Go back to the first post and read exactly what TS stated.
Not the first time, means there can be more to the problem.
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Originally posted by storywolf:
first this way will not work !!!
1st by now the amount is too big to setttle. Also once you settle for him - there is alway a next time.
Since want to disown him - why still pay !!!
loanshark don't care - and don't listen to reason - even you pay and disown him - next time he own again they will still come again ... why they know you pay what .... you think they care if you disown him or not... !!!
Yes true, for outstanding loan, loan shark will ask for money. Tat is why have no choice but to pay off outstanding loan.
Sell house if have to, to pay off debt. Or else, TS life is going to be miserable, TS's project will be affected. Emotional stress.
But I know for a fact, after family disown the son, after settling the debts, any future debt, loan sharks will not chase the family anymore because they become wary of the risk when they chase the son for debts. Officially family can disown the son, but secretly la, mebbe still in contact - secretly.
Call police oso no use. Some police got connection wif loan shark. When police come, police accomplice will warn the loan shark not to come at tat time. Some more, loan shark come at time police not active. Police canot guard yer home for 24 hours.
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20 groups to settle ..
Sell house is the last option because 100% no one will buy if they know about this matter.
dad wanted to pay off debt as for my bro its either he will be sent to jail? or bring him to msia or go counseling .
sigh , to think that my poly attachement is near to date..
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Better call the helpline for yr bro.
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i contacted 1 already, hope that my bro will agree to go for the treatment .
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Keep yer balls to yer self. u have any.
if u onli have any brain -
Originally posted by sighsoul:
20 groups to settle ..
Sell house is the last option because 100% no one will buy if they know about this matter.
dad wanted to pay off debt as for my bro its either he will be sent to jail? or bring him to msia or go counseling .
sigh , to think that my poly attachement is near to date..
I believe your brother has to face his own demons.
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Originally posted by FBFIce:
if u onli have any brain
aiya, people here having loan shark problems, and you 2 start to throw balls and brains!!!! SEE ME! -
Originally posted by sighsoul:
i contacted 1 already, hope that my bro will agree to go for the treatment .
My 666 gang can help, but you also need to pay quite a high amount, if one or two loan shark no problem, but 30++ loanshark can be quite a problem, paste a 666 on yr house, they will know.Some loanshark are resonable because they want to get the money first, so dun get conned, you and your Dad have to think properly, got money, loanshark are sure reasonable, at 20yo, borrow loan shark already, I at least loan from loandolphin , wha, seibei clever hor. I think your parents also need counselling, sorry to say that, they never really take care and keep a look out for your brother.