the right thing to do?
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i just need some advice and opinion on whether im doing the right thing. ive been trying to get over this guy. he made me think we had a chance but when he just didnt make a move, i knew it was either i misinterpreted what i perceived or he was just too cowardly to do anything about it. it was awkward and painful, especially when people around us noticed and kinda anticipated something to happen between us. BUT i was the subject, could you imagine how i would feel, especially when i started to like him a lot because of what he was doing to me. so i knew i had to move on. and this is made harder because we are school mates and we see each other every single day. i blocked him on msn. i avoided going to where he was. i rejected lunches with groups of friends as long as he was there. basically i avoided him and pretended that i wasnt. i think he didnt suspect anything becuase we kinda drifted apart. i didnt give him a chance to question about it either. basically we never spoke or interacted even though we see each other. i would find myself getting better, less emo. but whenever i had to see him or talk to him, i would just plunge into deep sadness again. i have been having rollar coaster rides these few months with him. i would tell myself not to sucuumb and talk to him even though i really wanted to. and i guess he doesnt know because i kinda have been fighting this war on my own. he probably doesnt know that ive been building a wall to keep him out. he probably just thought that i didnt want to come online anymore, or that our paths dont cross any more, by chance. i want to know if im doing the right thing in helping me move on. is avoiding him the best option? then why do i relapse again and again after i get better?
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how old are u ?
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1. Why you avoid him? You have some feeling for that guy?
2. Ask yourself, do you still love him? or treat him as a casual friend?
3. Did you ever talk to talk alone about this crashes?
If you really dont have a liking on him, I suggest you better concentrate on your studies. Get good result is more impt than having a bf.
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are you living in the middle ages?
if you like him but he dunno/dont dare to confess to you then you let him know
thinking back, there are a few girls giving me signals back during my secondary school time but i was too dense to notice it
now they come and tell me they had crush on me but i already not available
wasted man, some prettier than my current gf but relationship is a commitment
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Originally posted by jaydunkfull:
i just need some advice and opinion on whether im doing the right thing.
ive been trying to get over this guy. he made me think we had a chance but when he just didnt make a move, i knew it was either i misinterpreted what i perceived or he was just too cowardly to do anything about it. it was awkward and painful, especially when people around us noticed and kinda anticipated something to happen between us.
BUT i was the subject, could you imagine how i would feel, especially when i started to like him a lot because of what he was doing to me.
so i knew i had to move on. and this is made harder because we are school mates and we see each other every single day. i blocked him on msn. i avoided going to where he was. i rejected lunches with groups of friends as long as he was there.
basically i avoided him and pretended that i wasnt. i think he didnt suspect anything becuase we kinda drifted apart. i didnt give him a chance to question about it either. basically we never spoke or interacted even though we see each other.
i would find myself getting better, less emo. but whenever i had to see him or talk to him, i would just plunge into deep sadness again. i have been having rollar coaster rides these few months with him.
i would tell myself not to sucuumb and talk to him even though i really wanted to.
and i guess he doesnt know because i kinda have been fighting this war on my own. he probably doesnt know that ive been building a wall to keep him out. he probably just thought that i didnt want to come online anymore, or that our paths dont cross any more, by chance.
i want to know if im doing the right thing in helping me move on. is avoiding him the best option? then why do i relapse again and again after i get better?
The more you put effort, the more painful it gets.
The less effort you put, the more you learn to be comfortable around him you will get over him.
It takes time. How old are you?
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dealing with it is much more easier then running away...
Running might seem easier but it gets tougher and tougher... dealing with it just gives 1 shot pain... might as well eh?
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girl also can take the initiative to tell a guy that u love him wat.y must be guy?y must always be a guy?why why why tell me why
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Originally posted by 韩飞官:
girl also can take the initiative to tell a guy that u love him wat.y must be guy?y must always be a guy?why why why tell me why
Girl can hide in holes. Guys gotta stick it up ma.
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nt stick up.gt to hang them up.my gf always angry over some small small things,then i have to(sorry la....come cheer up,next time wont joke already ,ps la.(i will try to make her smil and it will be over.)) buay tahan.next time i cannot take it i will hang her too.
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You are doing just fine, study first, relationship later, when you get good grades, go up the corporate ladder, be a powerful woman, even male movie star will date you, so, get your brain straight ya
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Originally posted by angel7030:
You are doing just fine, study first, relationship later, when you get good grades, go up the corporate ladder, be a powerful woman, even male movie star will date you, so, get your brain straight ya
you've got it wrongno one would date a powerful woman
most corporate woman die alone.
the only guys interested in dating them are little white face
little white face only interested in their money
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Originally posted by angel7030:
You are doing just fine, study first, relationship later, when you get good grades, go up the corporate ladder, be a powerful woman, even male movie star will date you, so, get your brain straight ya
Cannot be too powerful, you will hv no dates except all dates come from ah gong. -
Originally posted by PedoBear:
you've got it wrongno one would date a powerful woman
most corporate woman die alone.
the only guys interested in dating them are little white face
little white face only interested in their money
got... masochists also like to look for powerful women...
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Originally posted by PedoBear:
you've got it wrongno one would date a powerful woman
most corporate woman die alone.
the only guys interested in dating them are little white face
little white face only interested in their money
We are talking about a 20 yo ++ powerful attractive women, not those lau aunties who become rich because of divorce claim from ex rich hubbies, those can also buy ferrari for little white face and pedobear, but if she got money to spare, why not, same goes to old guys, got those slim but big bxxbs sugar daughter interested in them. Equal gender mah -
Originally posted by likeyou:
Cannot be too powerful, you will hv no dates except all dates come from ah gong.
no dates, then go buy drink red dates lor...aiya, I just whistle only, weekend fully booked liao, just a matter of want or dun wan only. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
We are talking about a 20 yo ++ powerful attractive women, not those lau aunties who become rich because of divorce claim from ex rich hubbies, those can also buy ferrari for little white face and pedobear, but if she got money to spare, why not, same goes to old guys, got those slim but big bxxbs sugar daughter interested in them. Equal gender mah
20 yr old already so powerful...many guys will dare not date her.Anyway, if there is one 20 yr old powerful lady, her mindset will change. She will stay single rather than go steady.
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wtf?
You like him alot then go confess to him la.
Who ask you to keep waiting? Please la now is 21st century. You still think guys must confess to girls only?
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Originally posted by likeyou:
20 yr old already so powerful...many guys will dare not date her.Anyway, if there is one 20 yr old powerful lady, her mindset will change. She will stay single rather than go steady.
No matter how powerful, if got guy like WangLeeHong, her heart will melt. For every powerful woman lies a weak heart full of emotion. -
Originally posted by gunner77:
wtf?
You like him alot then go confess to him la.
Who ask you to keep waiting? Please la now is 21st century. You still think guys must confess to girls only?
Sure lah, guy confess more gentleman mah, very malu for us to confess ok, but some guys are simple make of wooden block, char tao.
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Actually the present times changed.
Ladies also take initutive too.
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I think it is out of respect that we let the our male gender to take the initiative and initutive, because if we take the initiatives, guys will act very stuck up and howlian
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Originally posted by Nelstar:
got... masochists also like to look for powerful women...
masochists look for dominatrix not powerful women -
Ask won't die one, if never ask, also won't die one.
It's only a matter of what you are willing to let go.
Complex is when things are many and cluttered.
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I beg to differ,
Ask for what, if want to come, it will automatically come, if dun wan to come, wait until hair white also no come. Come come go go is just a wind of life
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im 21Originally posted by Yami king2005:
how old are u ?