[ask SG guys]: is sex really important in a relationship?
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Tis guy go to Geylang to many times. He feel he can do tis to u in Indonesia bcause if u report to police, he can run back to Singapore. Report to police la, for molestation.Next time u meet him, betta wear chastity belt.
he also did the same thing when I was in SG
you have the same thought with me...I think he goes to geylang regularly. I can see it from the way he forced me to do that...although I was disagree and struggled...he didn't care. This is similar to what a man do with a prostitute...dont care about the prostitute's feeling as long as he satisfied
i think i wont see him anymore
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Originally posted by brokenheart gurl:
i think he came from China mainland as his characteristics is very typical to someone who come from China mainland. Maybe he and his family migrated to Singapore long long time ago. Besides, he doesnt have western name.
He is very introvert...not communicative. He hide some information from me. I used to ask for his family pics but he didn't give it to me. I think he will absolutely be angry if i ask to see his NRIC
It's hard to forget him as he meets 85% of my criteria...T.T but time will heal lah
you said that most singaporean men would do the blouse thing ??? OMG
He only wants you for sex.
From what you say he's not after a serious relationship.
Since you won't sleep with him, of course he ignores you. Just move on.
I think most Singaporean men are respectful of women, unless you give him cues or lead him on to try his luck. Then again, I think that is typical of men anywhere.
Or you couldn hv been giving him mixed signals when you say no but your actions say yes.
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can i just say smth from a girl's point of view..he doesn't hold hands with you in public? he probably had a gf and is doing all this behind his gf's back. hence his conscience isn't very clean. he's not worth it. move on, there're tons other nicer guys not just in sg who will respect you and treat you as a woman, not some object..
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Originally posted by elindra:
Or you couldn hv been giving him mixed signals when you say no but your actions say yes.
I always struggled everytime he did that
he knew and said :" you'd better enjoy than struggled"
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Originally posted by brokenheart gurl:
I always struggled everytime he did that
he knew and said :" you'd better enjoy than struggled"
Well than just forget him and move onThere are plenty of nice guys in Singapore so don't waste your time on a horny jerk
Most prob he is too cheap to pay for sex and think you can be a free fuck
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Originally posted by killtheink:
can i just say smth from a girl's point of view..he doesn't hold hands with you in public? he probably had a gf and is doing all this behind his gf's back. hence his conscience isn't very clean. he's not worth it. move on, there're tons other nicer guys not just in sg who will respect you and treat you as a woman, not some object..
I also think the same...probably he had "official" gf since he doesnt support my intention to work and stay permanently in SG
"Official" means the girl he gets from his parents...matchmaker-thing. As his family is still very traditional and ask him to get married soon ...probably their parents introduce him to a girl ... yeah u know lah
I have a good networking in SG and at that time finally I got a "spy" who is at the same office with him. the spy is a friend of my friend.
When I told the spy his name...the spy said none with that name in his office...I was quite shocked. Then I showed his pic and finally the spy can recognized. The spy said he often see him at office but doesnt know his name....but the spy has a friend who is in the same departments with him so can gather some info
the infos are: he is single and available...hardworking guy...but his behaviour is quite weird...very unpopular at office.
And you know when I said to him that I have a friend who is at the same office with him ?
He said : "it is impossible your friend knows me....your friend must be wrong...none knows me at office "
?????? weird huh
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pardon me for saying this, 99% of men from such social websites are all sourcing for sex and remaining 1% are gay. Surely you dont know about such risks!! If you are serious about looking for boyfriend, go to healthy foroums such as this one and identify your right man.
Never ever make friends via social websites. It is very rare, almost imposssible to find a decent long term normal guy via these webbsites. .
Am i right to say that you are actually asking here whether he is the right husband for you if you were to give in his sex demand?
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In Love, sex come gradually, Love come before sex, not sex first, then find love hor.
This type of men in singapore, thousand of lorries, dun think you get a good bf, there are tons outside for you to pick if you want...haiz, indonesia gal should be smart like taiwanese gal, why so stupid?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
In Love, sex come gradually, Love come before sex, not sex first, then find love hor.
This type of men in singapore, thousand of lorries, dun think you get a good bf, there are tons outside for you to pick if you want...haiz, indonesia gal should be smart like taiwanese gal, why so stupid?
Tat guy is from PRC wan. We all Singaporean men very gentle like me. Only after marriage, wakakakakaka, I get rough....
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Tat guy is from PRC wan. We all Singaporean men very gentle like me. Only after marriage, wakakakakaka, I get rough....
at least PRC guy wear their wolf skin outside, singaporean guy hid it inside, very scary -
Originally posted by angel7030:
at least PRC guy wear their wolf skin outside, singaporean guy hid it inside, very scary
Scary at first but when u try, suddenly u want to try some more. Our power is too strong to resist. Not like Taiwanese guy, always suffer from penile dysfunctional erection and premature ejaculation. -
Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Scary at first but when u try, suddenly u want to try some more. Our power is too strong to resist. Not like Taiwanese guy, always suffer from penile dysfunctional erection and premature ejaculation.
But i thot sgguy are the worst sex partner, and they are the only one in this world that shout and scream during sex? hear alot from upstair, shout louder than gals -
Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Scary at first but when u try, suddenly u want to try some more. Our power is too strong to resist. Not like Taiwanese guy, always suffer from penile dysfunctional erection and premature ejaculation.can you say more by about the meaning of .....' penile dysfunctional erection and premature ejaculation?'
don't quite understand the terms. so technical ...
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Originally posted by angel7030:
at least PRC guy wear their wolf skin outside, singaporean guy hid it inside, very scaryhahaha aiyo angel, Singaporeans are scary?
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Originally posted by jennmisscs:
hahaha aiyo angel, Singaporeans are scary?
not all lah, some are real nice, I have to admit, other than those in sgforum -
Originally posted by angel7030:
not all lah, some are real nice, I have to admit, other than those in sgforumhaha you mean other than the those on SGF, some other Singaporeans are nice?
:D
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yes, sgforum guys you should be careful hor. They can eat you alive. But then, they are also great people to be with, real jokers from all walks of life.
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Originally posted by brokenheart gurl:
I also think the same...probably he had "official" gf since he doesnt support my intention to work and stay permanently in SG
"Official" means the girl he gets from his parents...matchmaker-thing. As his family is still very traditional and ask him to get married soon ...probably their parents introduce him to a girl ... yeah u know lah
I have a good networking in SG and at that time finally I got a "spy" who is at the same office with him. the spy is a friend of my friend.
When I told the spy his name...the spy said none with that name in his office...I was quite shocked. Then I showed his pic and finally the spy can recognized. The spy said he often see him at office but doesnt know his name....but the spy has a friend who is in the same departments with him so can gather some info
the infos are: he is single and available...hardworking guy...but his behaviour is quite weird...very unpopular at office.
And you know when I said to him that I have a friend who is at the same office with him ?
He said : "it is impossible your friend knows me....your friend must be wrong...none knows me at office "
?????? weird huh
i think you are not a ordinary gal also.you already know how to sent spy, check on ppl and yet in this relationship you pretend to be very innocent........
not very ordinary sia .......
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Originally posted by angel7030:
not all lah, some are real nice, I have to admit, other than those in sgforum"I am Indonesian Chinese. I live in Indo"
read first lah. then comment on sgf guys. get to noe us better then u noe guys here are very gud ppl
u can try them in bed too
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Originally posted by FBFIce:
"I am Indonesian Chinese. I live in Indo"
read first lah. then comment on sgf guys. get to noe us better then u noe guys here are very gud ppl
u can try them in bed too
But they alway like to book cheap hotel or motel, whereby the bed is no good, very hard, so I never go with them. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
But they alway like to book cheap hotel or motel, whereby the bed is no good, very hard, so I never go with them.
you can have yr pick, just name it -
Originally posted by Shazamnick:
Am i right to say that you are actually asking here whether he is the right husband for you if you were to give in his sex demand?
just wondering ...is it common in Singapore...relationship with sex? coz in indo i can say that 70% of couple (Indonesian chinese) dont involve sex in their relationship
i am too afraid of STD and AIDS...no sex b4 marriage
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Tat guy is from PRC wan. We all Singaporean men very gentle like me. Only after marriage, wakakakakaka, I get rough....
here in indo...we are strongly reminded by our parents...dont choose PRC man as ur husband as they often treat women badly...heheheh
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
i think you are not a ordinary gal also.you already know how to sent spy, check on ppl and yet in this relationship you pretend to be very innocent........
not very ordinary sia .......
I am already in my early 30's. If i think like this : "look! my princess is coming to pick me up"... sounds like a stupid gal
background checking is important