how do you noe if your boyfriend is cheating on you? my boyfriend have been acting weird for the past 2 months and i dunno wats wrong with him...
Weird as in running far from you when his h/p rings.
Can you describe some of the changes that made you suspect that he is cheating?
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Originally posted by Afyzaazure:how do you noe if your boyfriend is cheating on you? my boyfriend have been acting weird for the past 2 months and i dunno wats wrong with him...
if he is not enjoying sex with you or have lesser sex or simply less sperm count during his org...
theres alot of signs i saw frm him...
Originally posted by Afyzaazure:theres alot of signs i saw frm him...
- snapped at me for trivial matter
- doesnt reply my sms or answer my call.... usually if i give him a missed call, he call me back... there was once one whole day he didnt msg or call me... n even when i sms he nvr reply...
- there was abt a few times when we were out i was walking n talking n suddenly i see he was walking quite a distance away frm me... really embarrassing when people look at me...
- recently also when we were walking he would also turn his head to face the right side eventhough im on the left side... n not look at me in the eyes when talking
- he seems to be looking at his handphone now more often den before... like as though he's smsing someone... n once i was walking n he was behind me so i actually turn to see what he was doing. n he shouted at me in an angry tone that i was checking at his hp... frm my angle i cant even see anything n he was accusing me for looking at his hp... i mean seriously if u nt hiding anythin theres no need to get angry...
got let him have sex wif u?
Originally posted by trolol:got let him have sex wif u?
haha.. nope
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:he acting weird maybe also planning a nice surprise for you leh?
how i wish.... he nt the romantic type
The romance has faded away. The passion dying.
Now he is feeling restricted, and yearn for more freedom and privacy. He wants to regain his independence. What seems ok previously is now unforgiveable. Previously you late one hour, he is all smiles and says its alright, now, he cannot tahan if you are late five minutes.
He also want to provoke resentment and explode into rage, by walking separately from you. He want you to notice that and comment on it, then he will spew venom. He is now thinking of himself more and more. He is not communicating with you, and it is all in his head.
What you can do is trust him. Don't peep or be interested in his SMSs. Talk to him in a normal tone, as usual, as if nothing is happening. The tone of your voice is important, because he is itching for a quarrel, and your normal good times tone is crucial to preventing him getting angry.
Joke and talk with him as you do previously, but don't over act. This phase will pass soon, hopefully. He is at present possessed by selfishness, you can either provoke or sooth him.
If despite all best effort, there is no improvement or he really has another girl in his sight, let us know.
Originally posted by mancha:The romance has faded away. The passion dying.
Now he is feeling restricted, and yearn for more freedom and privacy. He wants to regain his independence. What seems ok previously is now unforgiveable. Previously you late one hour, he is all smiles and says its alright, now, he cannot tahan if you are late five minutes.
He also want to provoke resentment and explode into rage, by walking separately from you. He want you to notice that and comment on it, then he will spew venom. He is now thinking of himself more and more. He is not communicating with you, and it is all in his head.
What you can do is trust him. Don't peep or be interested in his SMSs. Talk to him in a normal tone, as usual, as if nothing is happening. The tone of your voice is important, because he is itching for a quarrel, and your normal good times tone is crucial to preventing him getting angry.
Joke and talk with him as you do previously, but don't over act. This phase will pass soon, hopefully. He is at present possessed by selfishness, you can either provoke or sooth him.
If despite all best effort, there is no improvement or he really has another girl in his sight, let us know.
ok... thank u for your advice...
Originally posted by Afyzaazure:theres alot of signs i saw frm him...
- snapped at me for trivial matter
- doesnt reply my sms or answer my call.... usually if i give him a missed call, he call me back... there was once one whole day he didnt msg or call me... n even when i sms he nvr reply...
- there was abt a few times when we were out i was walking n talking n suddenly i see he was walking quite a distance away frm me... really embarrassing when people look at me...
- recently also when we were walking he would also turn his head to face the right side eventhough im on the left side... n not look at me in the eyes when talking
- he seems to be looking at his handphone now more often den before... like as though he's smsing someone... n once i was walking n he was behind me so i actually turn to see what he was doing. n he shouted at me in an angry tone that i was checking at his hp... frm my angle i cant even see anything n he was accusing me for looking at his hp... i mean seriously if u nt hiding anythin theres no need to get angry...
I am passer by.... and I can share with you my two-cent worth...
I think someone has filled up your position.. What you can't give him, and what he is lacking of.. it all has been filled up. :) He's doing this to you probably because he is placing a little more priority on the "new friend", and left you on the cold. When a guy meets a new "friend", he'll place slightly more priority on that new "friend" because he feels that it might be a better option. It's false hope actually... but he doesn't know..
Take my advice, leave him alone for a while.. You need to breathe a fresher air. Since you have not have sex with him, you still can break off easily... Trust me, I am in your position before...
did TS lied to your BF about your past relationships?
Honesty is still the best policy
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u've put up with this shit for 2 months? haha very patient u. Honesty is lacking in the r/s and he's definitely hiding something. Whether it's another girl is anybody's guess. Better have a good talk.
Originally posted by Afyzaazure:how do you noe if your boyfriend is cheating on you? my boyfriend have been acting weird for the past 2 months and i dunno wats wrong with him...
why don't you cheat on him in revenge.....................???
i'll offer my free services.....................
haha. how old is TS? secondary school puppy love? If the reason you 2 are together is not love, please do not waste each other's time. The foundation of a relationship is trust. If you doubt his actions and attitude towards you, why continue the misery?
gals dun cheat on guys oredi very tao chio liao...
Originally posted by Rock^Star:u've put up with this shit for 2 months? haha very patient u. Honesty is lacking in the r/s and he's definitely hiding something. Whether it's another girl is anybody's guess. Better have a good talk.
fuck ya nigga
Wee! aint dunno he is a nigga..I will be damn
He's either cheating (found someone else) or no longer interested in the relationship.
It's not worth chasing him or pursiing the relationship with him if this is the case. Save your pride and find something else (hobby, work etc) to focus your attention into.
If he misses you and wants to return, he'll contact you. Otherwise, it's better you leave him be and concentrate your efforts elsewhere.
Take care.
Originally posted by ~ carry on ~:He's either cheating (found someone else) or no longer interested in the relationship.
It's not worth chasing him or pursiing the relationship with him if this is the case. Save your pride and find something else (hobby, work etc) to focus your attention into.
If he misses you and wants to return, he'll contact you. Otherwise, it's better you leave him be and concentrate your efforts elsewhere.
Take care.
yalor, we gals should show our strength instead of keep relying on all these stupid guys action and abuses, let go for a few months, see if he call and beg or not, if not, nevermind, singapore still got lots of guys, not that he is the last one around. Go out with other guy and see how he react, must let them have a taste of their own salt.
Originally posted by angel7030:
yalor, we gals should show our strength instead of keep relying on all these stupid guys action and abuses, let go for a few months, see if he call and beg or not, if not, nevermind, singapore still got lots of guys, not that he is the last one around. Go out with other guy and see how he react, must let them have a taste of their own salt.
He won't beg. TS came here to seek help. I think she would beg.
if you offered to do a BJ for him and he rejected it. that's obvious sign of it.